Me and my girlfriend been going out for a month now and i do love her to the fullest and she does too. But she told me not to get on myspace anymore b/c she scared imma talk to another girl on there, but yet when we go out somewhere with her sister and her friend(which is a dude) she flirt and gives him more affection than me while im there! she also get mad when i'm about to go out with my friends boys and girls and they just friends. what should i do???
2006-10-22 03:56:46 · 6 answers · asked by soutelzfinezt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not sure i got this question completely right, but I think both people in a relationsip should be even. If she doesn't want you to have girls around you she should do the same with boys. I find this so childish to be honest. Try talking to her and tell her that what she's doing is selfish and you can both have your own friends and they can be of the opposite sex too. It doesn't necessarily mean the other has a reason to be jealous. And don't forget to mention you love her a lot and you don't want to lose her.
2006-10-22 04:02:00 · answer #1 · answered by speedy eleni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously doesn't trust you. At the same time, she expects you to trust her. She's trying to get control of the relationship. Confront her with the meat of your question: How come you can do it and I can't. You either open her eyes, or part ways. It ain't worth it.
Now if she has reason to be cautious of your activities, that's another story. If you have talked to some chick on myspace or any other chat room place, she takes that as a form of cheating because she's insecure. How you gonna cheat on someone 1000 miles away? You'd probably be the same if she chatted with some strange guy. Heck, I would, and I'd want it to stop. Also, the last part of your question, you mentioned you going out with your friends and not both of you. Previously, you were with her and her friends/sister and she felt like she was hiding nothing from you. Plus she has a longer relationship with her sister than with you. You need to be a bit less insecure too. Get into the conversation. Don't let her dominate it, so to speak.
2006-10-22 11:06:11 · answer #2 · answered by unclewill67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about how you feel and what you are observing. she shouldnt be giving another man affection. if she trusts you then there shouldnt be a problem with you goin on myspace.
2006-10-22 11:01:08 · answer #3 · answered by ronald g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd start looking for someone else - maybe a tad less controlling and a tad more compatible.
2006-10-22 10:58:43 · answer #4 · answered by ericscribener 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk with her clearly and turn her to on true, honest things. When you get result of yours answer.
2006-10-22 11:01:32 · answer #5 · answered by Bhatti B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM me and i'll give u some good advice
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2006-10-22 10:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by Nirvana FREAK! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋