How do you tell your sister, who can't have a baby, that you're pregnant?

Answer 1

Very sensitively. She will be happy for you and sad for her, but if she is a good sister with good emotional health, she will try to make you know more about the happiness for you.

Answer 2

You have to tell her. She might be sad that it's you and not her, but she will be happy for you. And even if she is upset, she will eventually be happy for you. She can't get mad at you for something that is out of both of your control and she can't expect you not to get pregnant just because she can't. That is selfish.

I have a friend that has been trying to get pregnant for over 5 years. I am a "fertile mertile" and got preggo in less than a month. I was afraid to tell her too because I thought she would be upset. But I did and she was so happy for me. It made me feel a lot better. She told me I had to share my baby with her. She is a great friend. Don't shut your sister out. Let her know that she can be there for you and the baby.

How do you think she would feel if she had to find out through the grapevine or when your tummy could no longer hide it? If it were me, I would be upset.
Just sit her down nd talk to her. She will be happy for you

Congratulations!!! and Good luck!!!!!

Answer 3

I had the same problem I just came out and told her if you are close ask her if she would be your babies godmother involve her in as much of the babies life as possible that is all you can do she has to come to the realization that life goes on and it is not yours or anyones fault she can not have children she may get upset but it will pass my sister did she was there for my ultra sound for my daughter when my husband could not come it helped her allot. Good Luck.

Answer 4

Wow, that's tough.

She knows she can't have children, so she really shouldn't get mad at you because you can. Maybe she'll look at this as an opportunity to be able to love and spoil her niece or nephew. My aunt never had kids, and she loved my brother and me as if we were her own.

Just do one thing. Let your sister be one of the very first people to find out. The worst thing would be for her to hear of your pregnancy from someone else.

Good luck, and congratulations!

Answer 5

Just tell her and don't feel bad. If she seems upset, it isn't your fault and it is something she needs to work out within herself. Just let her know she is your sister, and very special to you, and you want her to be there for you and your little rugrat. Don't mention that she can't have a kid either . . . that might rub salt in the wound.

Answer 6

Tell her the truth, chances are she will be very happy for you, and even be a great influence in helping you through your pregnancy, and the up bringing of your child. That's what families are for.

Answer 7

Tell her you're going to have a little one and that little one will be needing lots of love, and you want her to help you see that the little one gets plenty.

Answer 8

Go up to her and say-

Im Pregnant? I mean theres no other way of saying it.

If she can't have kids.. She cries and stuff.. Just comfort her and say: It's okay, im sorry, im sure you'll still be happy."

She'll probably say im happy for you or whatever.. but this is a very tough situation.

Answer 9

You don't tell her alone. You tell her in a group such as your family. Don't be ashamed. Pregnancy is a beautiful thing. Good Luck Hun.

Answer 10

just sit her down n tell her. tell her u want her to be the godmother and that u want her to be a part of every bit of ur pregnancy n be closer to ur child than anyone else.