ok one is male the other is female but i'm confused i need to know if i should go w my heart or mind?
2006-10-22 03:42:31 · 18 answers · asked by Jojo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should follow your heart. Of corse the mind is going to tell you the right and logical thing to do, but the heat tells you how you truly feel, and the feelings that are in the heart cannot be denied. The heart doesn't lie. You won't be happy in the future if you don't go with the person that your heart is telling you to go with. You will have an empty feeling and will always have a void there. Go with your heart.
2006-10-22 03:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which is which? Do you think the relationship with the male is your head or your heart and vice versa? Maybe you are afraid to be lesbian because of what others might think so therefore you are going to stick with a man yet your heart is with the female. Maybe you should try both and find out which is for you. If you lose one of the two in the meantime maybe they never loved you anyway. From a male perspective I would much rather have a girl I was interested in try it with a female instead of another male but you will have to be the expert from the female side.
2006-10-22 03:48:56 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. PDQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough question! In the real world, and for long term, you need to follow your heart and mind. Are you looking for long term, or is this a short term thing? Yes, your heart needs to be in love, but if it is long term, your mind also needs to be thinking clearly enough to make the best decision about your future. Meaning, you don't want to be with some BUM just because you are sooo in love right now. That's not good for the long run. Good Luck!
2006-10-22 03:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by One Race The Human Race 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart. You mind will always find reasons to change or stop.
2006-10-22 03:45:48 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart... if there is one that you love more than the other and can see yourself with 5 years down the line, 10 years down the line then that is probably the person you should be with.
2006-10-22 03:45:45 · answer #5 · answered by kitkool 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should follow your heart
2006-10-22 03:44:16 · answer #6 · answered by lily_shaine 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i am always of the opinion that our mind always tells us to do the right thing, so follow the mind and only the mind!
2006-10-22 03:45:14 · answer #7 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
heart
2006-10-22 03:44:41 · answer #8 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your heart definitely.
2006-10-22 03:43:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you should follow who ever you like more by mind then if it doesnt work go back to the other person.
2006-10-22 03:45:39 · answer #10 · answered by Shelby 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋