My girfriend tells her mom,sisterand cousin every detail of our pesonal life. It drives me crazy. Is this normal? I am a private person and can't understand this behavior at all.
2006-10-22 04:34:07 · 15 answers · asked by Brian L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Let me expand on this what if it was about a fight we had? Thanks for everyones help good input.
2006-10-22 04:50:44 · update #1
There are women like that, very close to their family & tell them everything. You need to find someone who will keep your personal life personal. After all, that is why it's called "personal".
2006-10-22 04:38:54 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't be telling your business like this. If you have already tried talking to her over and over about this and she's still doing this then you might want to think about letting her go. Just think of how it would be if you two were married. She would tell everything that goes on in your home anad private life. If she's this way now she'll always be like this. By the way if she's running back telling your business about a fight you two had then that's really out of line. That of all things needs to be private. Her family should never know that type of info, they don't need to know if their is trouble between you two. You should move on because she's very disrespectful to you in this sense. She'll always do this no matter what.
2006-10-22 11:42:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this is not normal, it's kind of disrespectful especially if you've told her to stop and she keeps doing it. The next time she tells you all's business to her family, I would have a serious talk with her. Let her know that you refuse to tolerate how she cannot keep quiet about your personal life and if she can't seem to keep her mouth closed, you will have to consider persuing another relationship. What happens between you two privately, should stay between you two privately. She is violating your privacy by continuing to tell all to her family. Either she straigtens up, or you'll have to get rid of her.
2006-10-22 11:44:28 · answer #3 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its very normal. Are you hiding something? Are you ashamed of something? Are you afraid of what people think of you? Whats the big deal? Girls talk, share, and relate with other women. Be glad she's not sitting across the bar from some dude bitching about you. Lighten up. She's normal, you're fine and there are many things I'm sure she can't understand about you either. So, take some time to sit and talk to HER about it.
2006-10-22 11:40:53 · answer #4 · answered by lbacig 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I tell my best friend practically everything, (and she tells me) but there is a level of trust there that we don't blab, or tell our guys how much we know.
It is pretty normal for a woman to have someone she confides in, but if they are using what they know to make you uncomfortable, then that is wrong and you need to talk to her about it. If she can't understand why you are unhappy with the situation, then you need to reevaluate the relationship. (i.e. dump her)
2006-10-22 12:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by tequila_girl98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not really normal cause u and her have a personal life and if she wants everyone to know what ur doing than why dont she take her family with her to meet u than she dont have to tell them
i dont understeand either but u have to talk to her and explain that ur life its not a news in the newspaper so everybody can know everything
2006-10-22 12:02:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sory, but I couldn't continue in a relationship with a blabbermouth. If I want people to know something I am capable of telling them myself and don't need anyone to do that for me.
2006-10-22 12:17:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women need to talk about these things. You, obviously, don't like to tak about this kind of stuff, so she turns to people she loves and trusts their opinions. Every woman talks about their problems in a relationship with friends and their family. We just like to talk.
2006-10-22 12:39:26 · answer #8 · answered by Leila M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omi gosh !! that would annoy me too,!! but i think u should tell her how u feel, be like..." hey u no thats really none of ther buisness, and i would appreciate it if u woudnt tell them everything everytime".........and then at the end say this ..>>"u no what i mean?"
2006-10-22 11:39:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you like you life to be kept between the two of you and if you wanted everyone eles to know you will tell them yourself ..i think that she should respect you desire to keep things private. after you tell her that and she keeps doing it she probably does not respect you or what you want
2006-10-22 11:38:44 · answer #10 · answered by someones_cowgirl07 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋