My two best friends start dating and it feels so weird. so what would you do if your in such a situation?
2006-10-22 04:20:25 · 26 answers · asked by jdcgeovani 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You be really happy for them, and explain that if they ever broke up (terrible suggestion, you know, but it is possible, heaven forbid) that you will refuse to take sides and they are never to put you in the middle of any of their fights or arguements. Then kisses and hugs all round!
2006-10-22 04:47:35 · answer #1 · answered by jeshzisd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be happy for both of them. I have been down this way before. Instead of us riding in the front together joking and partying, I drove and they got to spend time together in the back seat getting to know each other. Just because you are friends doesn't mean you really know each other, it's when you form the bond of girlfriend and boyfriend that things change and you learn who they really are, inside.
2006-10-22 04:28:35 · answer #2 · answered by pinewhispers1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this has happen to me and im sure alot of people. At first it will be weird and awkward but it will get better. wen you go places, you feel lik the 3rd wheel. Now i dont know ur whole situation but most of the time these relationships dont last long. so just sit bac and try to live with it for now.
2006-10-22 04:24:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
woman believe your gut. very similar element happend to me appears like I wrote this. It replaced into so awkward for me i replaced into sitting bymyself and they sat seats at the back of me and were making out and kissing.. It replaced into terrible. Do what you want. Why might want to you chop back to rubble their plans... they seem to be some 2 no longer 3... If something say you do not opt to it's going to be awkward. if you're scared to and lie. Say you've an appointment, or you want to help your mom or perhaps going out for dinner with some cousins.. yet Im telling you've faith your gut, Do what makes you satisfied . You cant continually please anybody.
2016-12-05 02:41:39 · answer #4 · answered by scialpi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hang around with them when they are together.
They'll start thinking that you're getting in the way, and you'll lose your friendship.
Make sure you give them the space they need.
Plan nights out with one or the other, but not both together, unless you bring someone else, of course.
2006-10-22 04:27:06 · answer #5 · answered by savs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never ever tell one what one says to you about the other as it will get back for sure and you will have lost your 2 best friends forever. just be supportive as they will have to get used to the change in the dynamics of your friendships too
dont get upset /offended when they go out without you, its not personal,
go out with other pals more too
2006-10-22 04:28:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If their truly your best friends, then you should be very happy. How can it be any better than to hang out with your two best friends. My two best friends married each other after dating for 17 years, and I haven't been happier for them, and the best female friend of mine, is just dying for me to go out with her best female friend, she says she would be so happy if it happened.
2006-10-22 04:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're feeling left out then you could try to spend time with each of them on their own, but you can't stop their fun just because you feel awkward. Don't worry it might not last forever anyway.
2006-10-22 04:24:20 · answer #8 · answered by katem1992 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happened to me, and it was so wierd at first....i dealt with it terrible. i distanced myself from them, and hung out with other friends...and i got bitter that they didnt see me as much anymore.
it took us about six months to get back to normal, but now we're all better friends than ever. It will be really wierd for a while and you may find you dont like being around them and stuff but you will get used to it i promise, and if theyre really good friends theyll understand that its wierd for you too and everything will work itself out.
2006-10-22 04:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask em for a 3 way
2006-10-22 04:28:33 · answer #10 · answered by Evo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋