Im 16 & he's 17.I have been in a rela for 8 mon.Last week my bf got to school late,he told me the reason he was late was because he couldn't find a ride so he had to catch a ride with one of his ex's.That already made me suspecious. Then he tells me her car broke down near he's house.As soon as there car broke down he's other ex drove down the road & got into a car accident close by. So he went over to see if she was ok. After she said she was fine, he went back to the broken down car with he's other ex. A cop pulled up to the accident. It was my dad. He asked my bf's ex the one who was in the accident what happened. She told him I was droping Stephen off & ect. Let me fill you in STEPHEN is my bf.It was 7:40 in the morning & from what his ex is telling my dad my bf was getting droped of by her. WHERE THE HELL WAS HE WITH HE'S EX AT 7:40 A.M, GETTING DROPED OFF AT HE"S HOUSE!? That's the real question. He denied that he ever got a ride from he's ex who got in a reck just he's other ex.
2006-10-22 04:31:23 · 19 answers · asked by Savanna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I asked him if he got a ride from he's ex that morning (the one who got into a reck) he said no I did not get a ride from her. Just jessica, only because I had to. He looked honest, but he could just be lieing. So my dad tells me he's ex the one who was in a reck said she was dropping him off...but my bf says he didn't & that he hates he's ex...How the hell can I find out what's really true??? I'm going insane! just trying to figure out what to do & what to believe...Help me out....
2006-10-22 04:37:50 · update #1
wow this is a toughy... you cant ever really tell if his doing something if he tells you no and someone else is sayin he did. it all realy depends on you and what you think really happened. if i were you i would sit down with him and ask him all the questions that you just typed when explaning all of this. hope this helped!!
2006-10-22 04:39:02 · answer #1 · answered by mandymandy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
OK, you caught him in a lie. What are you going to do about it? Why would he lie unless he had something to hide? Are you willing to share him with his ex? I don't know about you, but there is no way on earth that I would ever share my guy. I would dump him unless he came clean about the situation and promised to never go out on you again. You could give him one more chance, but only if he tells you the absolute truth first.
2006-10-22 04:34:28 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are very Mature for your age and you do not need help because you already see beyond his BS story. If you really like him continue to date him just don't get to involved and you yourself should date other people. Don't worry because 10 years from now you well still hear the same BS from men because some of them just don't grow up.
2006-10-22 04:48:10 · answer #3 · answered by L@M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Should you really care, you will probably date at least a half dozen more guys before you really get serious. Sounds like the guy is too busy with his ex's, be happy with the "just dating" or if you want something more serious then go find it and stop wasting your time with this guy.
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2006-10-22 04:35:46 · answer #4 · answered by leseulun 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like maybe hes got alot of ex girlfriends for a reason. Say bye-bye. Good Luck
2006-10-22 04:34:58 · answer #5 · answered by smile4u 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Relationships are just like eating fish.
When you get to the point that you are not enjoying it -
stop eating!
Dump this character - he obviously is not worthy of your interest or attention, and will only lead you to a bunch of heartache and grief later on in your relationship if you wish to continue with it.
Sad but true!
Lo Siento!
2006-10-22 04:36:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's a slimeball...believe me he's up to something...it goes with the age though...17....your 16 and should also enjoy being out there enjoying your life and shouldnt be bogged down with a serious relationship. Especially with this guy who is out having fun with or without you!! Sorry th truth hurts sometimes..but boys will be boys...and their hormones are ragging.. he's up to no good!!
2006-10-22 04:36:05 · answer #7 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hello Savanah, Savanah,,,,,,, i can sit here where i am sitting and absolutly, positively say that he is cheating 100%. That story is definitly a fictional story (false). I am sorry for being so forward Savanah but it is time to loose the looser and start seeing others. Good luck.
2006-10-22 04:42:08 · answer #8 · answered by Ann 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Keep an eye on this one... he has a lot of contact with exs...
You know... he may not have got along with his ex but one thing that til could be burning is their desire for each other... he has to many exs in his life... I'ld step aside for a while... if it was me... I don't share... my man better walk before irding with an ex... he wouldn't want you doing that...
2006-10-22 04:38:19 · answer #9 · answered by Sandy 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What a liar! Dump him, you don't need him! You are better off by yourself! I think you have a pretty good idea what she was doing dropping him off at that time....
Wish you all the best! Good luck and best to get rid of him!
2006-10-22 04:35:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋