Family & Relationships - 20 October 2006

Whilst coming back into my office - I saw -what I presumed to be one of the younger lads arses sticking out of the press - and whacked it as I passed saying "thats a sexy piece of asss boy" - obviously messing - only to have the 60 odd year old owner of the company I work for lean out and glare at me!! I think he thinks I fancy him now! Help!!!!! xx

2006-10-20 03:54:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 03:53:52 · 8 answers · asked by vanessa j 1 in Singles & Dating

We lived together for two years, looked at buying a house, and auto together. When he started staying out all night at the (bar), or where ever he said I was just his friend. Yes, he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me, but not that way!?!

2006-10-20 03:53:42 · 10 answers · asked by LucyLinnae M 2 in Friends

she loved me but she does not like sex with anybody anymore do i bleave this and go on or do i keep on trying to see whats going on or mabe its the change of life she is 52 years old

2006-10-20 03:53:06 · 13 answers · asked by seagledanny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-20 03:52:39 · 15 answers · asked by 1 5 in Singles & Dating

I fumble so much, especially in the dark!

2006-10-20 03:52:13 · 15 answers · asked by mysterious_gal1984 3 in Singles & Dating

Are there any guys out there that could be engaged for a long time to a girl, have a wedding in the court, no ring, no white dress, one witness, no wedding gifts, no honeymoon? I think its funny that a lot of guys couldn't handle that. I mean wouldn't you want to save a buck or two and not deal with a girl with a bitchy attitude. I mean come on you just plan the day you want to get married. you get dressed, go to the court or where ever you get married take your vows, sign the papers and thats it. You go to work or you work on the living arrangment, if you are not all ready living together. some people are a little too ritualistic. I think a lot of girls dream about their wedding day, but once they become more educated they see the light and realize its not that big of a deal. I think its also society pressure into making girls think that their day is important. Its ashame when people have these large weddings and then get a divorce. marriage should be more important than a wedding.

2006-10-20 03:51:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-10-20 03:50:28 · 10 answers · asked by theborg76 1 in Family

Just saw a friend I hadn't seen in 3 yrs. At the time, we were close friends and hooked up. I moved but we stayed friends. Recently he came out as gay (I'm one of the first he's told), says he's "always known" and while he wasn't out then, didn't want to hurt my feelings by not rejecting me. I'm happy for him, but also feel stupid, thinking of our memories. I feel confused and unattractive for thinking he still thought about me romantically or was physically attracted to me. What confuses me is I remember he acted at the time to let me know he was interested in me as more than a friend and I'm not the type to initiate things. He's also had longterm relationships in past. Did he at least think I was pretty? Why would he use me as a "cover" if no one else knew about us? I feel foolish, like he was acting the whole time. I told him I loved him whether gay/straight but I started crying. I'm not in love and I don't have any agenda, I'd just like us to remain close but I think I scared him

2006-10-20 03:50:07 · 3 answers · asked by confused 1 in Singles & Dating

Being able to touch or just looking & using your imagination?

2006-10-20 03:49:45 · 33 answers · asked by BooSha 3 in Singles & Dating

i was with someone who i thought i loved n he loves me a lot. bt ive realised thats he too obsessive and sometimes it made me feel suffocated. i left him and now he hates me and says i have betrayed him. i just want to know if i have done the right thign because i nver meant to hurt him n before we were together we were friends for a long time but now he doesnt want to know

2006-10-20 03:49:27 · 13 answers · asked by Zoe 1 in Singles & Dating

if you divorce them you have to financially suport them for 10 years? I married a guy last month and now im thinking about a divorce but since hes not a citizen or even a resident what do i need to do?

2006-10-20 03:48:12 · 13 answers · asked by j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I wouldn't say that my father is a bad man, but there are many conflicts in my family because of him. Conflicts are mostly with my mother. Since I was young he yells or shoves at her for the smallest thing, such as expressing an opinion he does not like. I have tried not to take sides, but have objectively seen that my mother is not doing anything. I know that it is common to fight in marriage, but I think this is too much and my whole family is feeling the effects. My father has never really been involved with me or my siblings as much as he could have, such as with school. He comes home and sits in front of the tv for hours. My mother tries to sit with him and talk to him but he isn't interested, or gets irritated. Here is a recent example: Yesterday my little sister came home from a soccer game with my mother and he was sitting in front of the tv. She told him that she scored three goals, and he just looked in front of the tv. She told him again and he said good, with no enthusiasm

2006-10-20 03:47:18 · 11 answers · asked by trenchwatch 2 in Family

how do you leave a person that you share a child with but he no longer loves you and his family doesn't think you are good enough just because i no longer kiss thier ***!!!

2006-10-20 03:47:18 · 11 answers · asked by febjunemar 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I broke up with a very loving and caring girl 5 months ago. This girl did everything and anything for me but she was too much. She would call me 24/7 and if we argue and I don't feel like talking she won't stop calling until my phones' batteries are dead. If I pick up she would talk so much and give me the biggest headache. I also did not find her appealing anymore because she never gave me the chance to make things right when I get mad, she would always be the one to apologize and that put her down in my eyes. So... I met her opposite about a month ago. This new girl, I love. They both know eachother. The new girl is jeolous I spent so much money on the first girl and wants me to get the money back and give it to her. She is also afraid that I might leave her like I left my ex after a 2 1/2 year realtionship. The thing I'm afraid of is that everytime I say something that bothers her she has to get revenge on me and hurt me so bad. I'm 21 and she's 18. I feel like she's money hungry...

2006-10-20 03:46:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have mixed feeling toward someone recently.. I cant assure of my real feeling.. how to know if i fall in love with someone?

2006-10-20 03:45:59 · 4 answers · asked by crystle_87 2 in Friends

At 9 I was diagnosed witha condition called GYNAECOMASTIA. This is when boys grow breasts.

This condition absolutely killed me psychologically. I had to grow up for almost 10 years with breasts. I got teased in school, and I especially despised Physical education.

As you can probably guess, i had no chance of attracting a girlfriend, and inevitably I became very shy around girls.

All the doctors that I saw told me that it was more common amongst boys than I thought, but they also all insisted that I could not have an operation to remove the breast tissue untill I turned 18.

At 18 I had the operation to get them removed, but I was left with scars on my chest.

I am now 25, and I'm going out with a girl. I haven't told her about it yet, and I dont want her to get freaked out when she sees my scars. What should I say?

Ladies, would you think of a guy with chest scars, would it freak you out. could you see yourself with a guy with scars on chest.

What should I tell her

2006-10-20 03:45:43 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He asked me to marry him...

2006-10-20 03:45:11 · 34 answers · asked by Ebonee L 1 in Singles & Dating

to make a long story short. i was dating this guy. i didn't know he was married until i told him i was pregnant, then THE TRUTH CAME OUT! he's married but is trying to get a divorce. well, 1 year or so later my baby father is still married. which is ok. because i don't want his sorry butt no more. however, the question is this. why do you think his wife is still married to him? he said that he told her and she is upset about it, but is willing to work it out. what the hell is up with her! is she desperate or she doesn't care. and keep in mind, i have found out by investigating that he always cheats on his wife. they have always been having marital problems. but man i would be upset if i was the wife and found out not only he cheated but got a her pregnant. i would for sure get a divorce. quick and in a hurry. so, you all let me know why does she and other women put up with such behavior from men.

2006-10-20 03:44:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there's a guy that I'm totally feeling and everything is just great with us, but he lives with his ex girlfriend, (who is also his best friend), and sometimes they sleep in the same bed, and I think that they are having sex..what do I do about this situation? we aren't going out yet. Is there any thing I can do that wont compromise what we've started?

2006-10-20 03:44:00 · 19 answers · asked by apple seed contour 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 03:43:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How many Brides Maids are you suppose to have at a Wedding?
cuz my older sister wants two,Really bad.
Thank's!

2006-10-20 03:41:36 · 16 answers · asked by onetreehunny 4 in Weddings

I don't wanna tempt you too much baby, cause making love to you might drive me crazy. Love bites, love bleeds, it's bringing me to my knees........What brings you to your knees?

2006-10-20 03:41:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I wana make new friends.My skype id is cyberhacker665 .
Just gime a call or a message . I also use yahoo messenger my yahoo id is cyberfreak665

2006-10-20 03:41:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Why do they call it that when it's not the whole world? Very confusing....They call the Super Bowl that because it is SUPER! LOVE THAT DAY!!!!

2006-10-20 03:41:08 · 6 answers · asked by inlovewow 4 in Singles & Dating

I am bothered evrytime my mother and husband argued wid each other. I don't want this thing to happen coz I want my family to live peacefuly. Bt I must admit that they don't always compromise wid each other. I don't want to throw words either to my husband or mother coz it's nt my attitude.And in the first place, I don't want my mother to get hurt coz we're living n her roof. We can't live separately coz practicality wise, I'm d only child & I don't want to live my mother. She's alone, my father has passed 1 and half year ago. please advice me!

2006-10-20 03:41:06 · 6 answers · asked by Sophie R 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i love my boyfriend and he's supposed to come over until i finish my qualification. unfortunately, he's no longer sure about that. i don't want to waste any more time waiting around. i've already rejected at least ten guys within this year alone. my social life is close to nil as most of my friends are pursuing their studies overseas. we only get to spend a few weeks together every few months. i have two more years before i can qualify and i'm already working a very stressful corporate job that leaves me little time to socialize. i want to come home to someone and not phone calls. worst of all, when i feel crappy and need to talk, the time zones prevent that. should i leave this relationship?

2006-10-20 03:41:04 · 5 answers · asked by janicebks 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 03:40:15 · 5 answers · asked by Verge 2 in Singles & Dating

I was married to my ex for a bit and now divorced over drug addiction. We have two kids together. Now, I am dating someone who I love. But I still love my ex too. (always will) Now my ex has kicked his drug habit and is doing so well! (2 years). My ex would take me back. And my ex makes a LOT of money. Enough so we could have a nice house and I could stay home with the kids. My current boyfriend makes an average salary. (not bad, but not a lot). It would NOT be enough for me to stay home. So I work full time. I do love them both in different ways. I could go back to my ex and stay home and would be in love with him but chance that he could use drugs again or I could stay with boyfriend who I know won't do drugs but work full time. What is more important here? I wish I could stay home with my kids and have a nice house for them....How important is money? Love or money?

2006-10-20 03:39:26 · 19 answers · asked by Bet L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-20 03:38:08 · 41 answers · asked by Beunikia C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships