He asked me to marry him...
2006-10-20 03:45:11 · 34 answers · asked by Ebonee L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have a child together already... And he knows for sure that it is his baby...
2006-10-20 03:56:34 · update #1
Wow your boyfriend had a baby, Did you get him pregnant.
2006-10-20 03:47:57 · answer #1 · answered by Sean 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well are u sure this is true? If so, How long did he know? Maybe he was nervous to tell u and was soon going to because we all know if u had a baby he loves u. If he asked u to marry him take but some thought into it. Think DO i want to spend the REST of my life with him or still be on my journey to find love. If so then say of course! If u get married i wish u the best of luck in ur future <3 KaRa
2006-10-20 03:53:44 · answer #2 · answered by Kara M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out for sure, it's easy: have him over, pull up myspace, then look him in the eyes when he's trying to explain. If he had a baby behind your back (and obviously slept with someone to do it), what else could he be doing that you don't know about? You want to marry someone you don't trust?
2006-10-20 03:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by hackisackgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on when the child was created if it wasd while you two were together yes. Actually, how can you trust him if he didn't even say anything about being a father. I'd wait for the DNA test and then maek a decision. If it really is his then I would leave becasue I myself have an issue with a loser that is about to be a daddy to a child and he can't even tell me himself? What else is he keeping from you??
2006-10-20 03:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by DispatchGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the cad. He asked you to marry him and left out the fact that he had a baby. Tells me that he has a problem with honesty. He needs to be with his child's mother and be a father in the house with her. Something tells me though that if he has a problem with being honest, he has a problem with responcibility, too. You need to find a fella that is both, honest and responcible, because marraige is supposed to be untill death do you part. I would hate to see your marraige end because you had to kill him for lying all of the time!!! Good Luck.
2006-10-20 03:49:40 · answer #5 · answered by The Nag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow. You really need to dump him. That means either he cheated on you with this girl or he met her before you. Either way thats some sneaky mess. My childs father had 2 kids after me and he didnt even tell me, i found out from the other childs mother and the other one i found out the other day when i dropped my daughter over his house. It didnt bother me because I dont have feelings for him any more. But your case is different. He needs his @ss kicked.
2006-10-20 04:34:18 · answer #6 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves you and wants to marry you but didn't even tell you he had a baby when that fact affects you as well as him. You will be a step mum, he will be paying child support.
How can you ever trust him when he doesn't tell you something as serious as this but is quite happy to tell the world on myspace.
Dump him you cannot trust or rely on him and he certainly doesn't trust or respect you or he would have told you
2006-10-20 03:50:24 · answer #7 · answered by madamspud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is kinda hard. Since he asked to marry him and you just found out that he was keeping a secret that big I would have to think about that for a while. I would probabley leave because i would not ever trust him again.
2006-10-20 05:40:12 · answer #8 · answered by rachie girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats quite hard mainly for the fact that you have a child together; but really girl this man doesn't trust you enough to tell you something thats so huge and doesn't respect you enough to know that you would like to know if there is someone in his life who is carrying his baby.
There are many babys who grow up in seccumstances where they are not living with both parents, so girl really you know what to do and what you deserve in life..... this man is too much of a liar for you to stay with him
you are an amazing girl who deserves the best in life, mainly because you are a princess in God's eyes and He has prepared the best for you, so you dont have to settle for less.
Leave him so God can bless you with the best
I will pray for you!
2006-10-20 04:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by dobby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bf is an idiot why would you stay and marry him if he had a baby by another woman?? He couldnt even be honest with you. Dont marry him why wont he marry the babys mom?? Thats just g h e t t o.
2006-10-20 03:48:52 · answer #10 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should leave. He lied to you. He had a baby while with you. Depending on how long you two have been together, he probably cheated on you then kept the pregnancy from you.
2006-10-20 03:53:57 · answer #11 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋