We lived together for two years, looked at buying a house, and auto together. When he started staying out all night at the (bar), or where ever he said I was just his friend. Yes, he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me, but not that way!?!
2006-10-20 03:53:42 · 10 answers · asked by LucyLinnae M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Boy, does he ever have it made. Someone to come home to. Someone to make his bed, do the laundry, scrub the toilet and fix him meals. He's living a good life and taking you for granted every step of the way. You are better than that. You deserve to have someone that appreciates you and cares about your feelings. Don't settle for this, life is too short. Being lonely is better than being a door mat. Besides if this is how he treats his friends he's not a very good friend. Find someone to share your life with that will respect you and look out for your well being. To the curb with this one. You'll be happy you booted him out when it's all said and done.
2006-10-20 04:13:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy seems to just be using U. I feel like he only sticks around for convenience & comfort. Let him know that it doesn't work that way, and if U R the 1 that is in luv with him then maybe try giving him an ultimatum. U don't want to end up in 10 years wondering why U wasted so much time. Screw that U need to do 4 U & U only
2006-10-20 04:00:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you say he loves you? He lives with you and has sex with you and you know that to be a fact. But where do you get the idea that he loves you. Does he say he is in love with you so much that he forsakes all others. You say
that he stays out all night but you don't know where he is. Why don't know where or with who he is with? Why don't you ask where he is and why doesn't he tell you where he is?Maybe he is spending the night with another woman who is "just his friend". I think that he is just using you and you would be a fool to buy a house or a car with this loser.
2006-10-20 04:10:11 · answer #3 · answered by misterbig356 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Replace the word friend with convenient and it would fit the story better. sounds like a typical guy who will not commit. You either have to give the big ultimatum or accept the relationship how it is.
2006-10-20 03:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by Ben M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on because he's not taking you or the relationship seriously. Ask him what is he looking for in a relationship with you and go from there. I sounds to me as if he only wants you sexually and nothing more.
Oh and that he afraid to be alone. He's using you hun and you should never move in with a man until your married.
2006-10-20 04:18:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is not sure what he wants from you. He probably enjoys the time he spends with you but then again he wants his freedom. If you are looking for something more you need to let him know. If he doesn't want to consider you his girlfriend then you need to move on.
2006-10-20 05:25:26 · answer #6 · answered by faybe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa! big fear of commitment!! i tried to put myself in your place and look at his actions, they do speak louder than words! are you the one buying the house and car? let me guess, you cook, clean and take care of him, right? how old is this guy?what i get from your brief question is that he wants a mom---someone he knows will always take care of him while he can come and go as he pleases....with no commitment....if this is true, make him go away! there's so many men, so little time!!
2006-10-20 04:02:34 · answer #7 · answered by bev_lev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just a player, he wants all the ladies, and the comfort of home! He is not ready to settle down with any one, and if he does, then she will be hurt over and over!
2006-10-20 03:58:55 · answer #8 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he is confused about his commitment to the relationship. A "friendship" will have commitment, but you are looking for a "marital partner" type of commitment. Have you discussed that?
2006-10-20 03:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause your just a piece of a$$ and that's all you will be.
2006-10-20 03:56:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋