Family & Relationships - 20 October 2006

Arguing....things have gotten physical with her. She began with the hitting and sometimes self inflicted blows to the head (into wall e.c.t.). It started by me trying to prevent her from hurting herself, then led to me having to defend myself. (She threw things, knives, cut her self).

She is a great woman....done more for me then anyone else and knows everything about me. But after the physical stuff and even before I just cant shake the feeling that there is something going on. She has little or no interest in sex with me (she says she has no interest in sex period but at 22 I find it hard to beleive).

She has alwyas prefered guy friends to girls, and used to talk to ALL of her ex BF's. I know she set up one online date thing but never finished..(prolly cause of $$)

How can I find out? Where can I go that is FREE or very cheap to find out this sort of thing?

I have always been parinoid I can admit that....but I am finding signs without looking.

Help?

2006-10-20 03:10:30 · 6 answers · asked by Skillz_de_Legend 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 03:08:57 · 14 answers · asked by jonathon.shine@rogers.com 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a feeling this gal likes me, and I like her too! but i dont want to tell her as i might getting the wrong signs!

2006-10-20 03:08:31 · 13 answers · asked by Geolove 3 in Singles & Dating

Or because they were shorter/chubbier/wrong hair color/etc.?

I know how superficial people are these days but I was wondering how many of you are willing to be completely honest about the choices you've made....

2006-10-20 03:08:06 · 15 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Singles & Dating

every time i go out with somebody i some how bcome more attractive to guys that never noticed me before. my boyfriend doesnt go to the same school as me so his supposed to be friends hit on me. and i feel really bad about it too. i tell my boyfriend but he just stays shut. i think that he thinks that im doing something wrong. what should i do?

2006-10-20 03:07:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we are going to try to make our marriage work out any advice?

2006-10-20 03:07:37 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok well i am really mad at my friend shelby and my boyfriend new it like i was furiouse with her and we were all sitting in the car in school parking lot and me and my boyfriend was sitting in the back and she was sitting in the front. Then i was like its hot in here so my boyfriend got out of the care and went to the front seat to turn on the air then he saw that shelby was doing her homework so he started helping her with it so he left me in the back seat knowing i was mad at shelby and went up and sat with her helping her with her homeworking while i was by myself..and shelby didnt ask him for him help either..
should i be mad i mean would you if you were me?

2006-10-20 03:06:34 · 12 answers · asked by megan c 1 in Singles & Dating

I am recently divorced after 10 years of marriage. It took only 3 months for the divorce to be finalized because my ex had an affair. He is moving in with the other woman soon. My friend did the same thing after she found out her ex cheated - she jumped into another relationship that ended badly 2 years later. How much time should you give yourself before getting involved with someone new? How do you prevent a "rebound" relationship? A new relationship can help you deal with with the pain and hurt of divorce but I believe they can also prevent you from dealing with the issues as well. Any opinions?

2006-10-20 03:05:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Which do you see more beneficial. Less arguments over money. Shared checking or seperate? Give me some pros and cons.

2006-10-20 03:05:11 · 18 answers · asked by :o) 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

more than when I was younger ? that does mean I'm being checked out doesn't it? is 40 really the new 30?

2006-10-20 03:05:09 · 13 answers · asked by david f 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 03:03:56 · 20 answers · asked by I~Love~Baileys 3 in Friends

you can also send me your advice through my e-mai:bencarsons@yahoo.com.

I will be very grateful for your advice.This test really burns my brain, makes me feel like am going to be told when will I die.

Please help me for your advice.Thanks a million!

2006-10-20 03:03:12 · 13 answers · asked by Benny 1 in Singles & Dating

okay- my best friend Hannah is dating Alec who I like. I TOLD Hannah 2 go out with him after he asked her a million times and she said no. I didn't know he was gonna ask me out if she said no again, and he said he'd go out with me if she broke up with him. I really like this guy, what should I do?

2006-10-20 03:02:48 · 19 answers · asked by Alyssa 5 in Singles & Dating

ok i like this girl at my church. I see her very rarely(like twice a month). How should i flirt? Also i told her twin bro over the phone that i liked his sis. He was kinda freaked out(just a little bit). I told him not to tell her. So when should I tell her I like her, because I didn't want to tell her over the phone. And I didn't wan't him to spill the beans. So the questions are how do i flirt? when and how should i tell her i like her? My parents don't let me date till im 18. I am 13, she is 12 and her parents have been divorced for about 4 years. I have seen her for about two years well i am seeing her sunday and i was wundrin wat i should do i think i should tell her but how?

2006-10-20 03:02:46 · 13 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay, Ive been with my boyfriend for four years off and on, but two years straight and things were going really well between the two of us. Lately things have gotten kinda rocky though because my mama keeps saying negative things about him and its really starting to piss me off. Its like she cant see the good things he has done for us and how he helped her out when she needed help the most with money and things. But it seems like my boyfriend and i's relationship is starting to fall apart and that the strong love we had for each other is starting to become weaker. its to the point where we have bad fights almost everyday and i dont really smile as much anymore, i cry more than i smile now. he doesnt even like to come around my house anymore because my mama will say he acts like a big kid or she will find something negative to say about him. tomorrow my boyfriend, our newborn baby, and i are suppose to have a family day out but hes been acting really irritated. i need advice please!!!!!

2006-10-20 03:02:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im emotionally and intellectually attracted to this guy and he's cute too, but he weights about 350-400lbs.

2006-10-20 03:01:48 · 13 answers · asked by alecia o 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 03:01:39 · 10 answers · asked by ceri p 1 in Friends

2006-10-20 03:01:18 · 6 answers · asked by ten3152 1 in Friends

My husband of 25 yrs. liqudated everything & moved my daughter & i 22 hrs away from my home & family. He controls every penny & i have no vehicle, no way to look for a job & don't know anyone here. Can't even find a church home 2 help me-What 2 do?

2006-10-20 03:01:02 · 12 answers · asked by lillady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-20 02:59:53 · 29 answers · asked by dreamy 5 in Singles & Dating

I am constantly recieving emails, from an old boyfriend, lover. I told him 3 years ago that our relationship was over and I wanted him out of my life. I have moved on, he hasn't. He is a married man, yet keeps sending emails and one time there were flowers delivered to my home. I have ignored his emails, and never even brought the flowers into my homes. How can I get the point across to him that I NEVER want to hear from him again. I even went so far as to move to a different state and had a restraining order on him that he challenged and got it thrown out, and yet he has searched on the internet till he found me and the emails, etc continue. I am either looking for a free site where I can either get a legal letter drawn up and sent to him warning him that if he continues he will be prosecuted. Does anyone out there have any advice? I don't have alot of money to spend on this...I just want him out of my life for good but he doesn't seem to get my message.

2006-10-20 02:59:46 · 20 answers · asked by sparkplug 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

its friday, its a beautiful fall day outside, hopefully it will be a great day!

2006-10-20 02:58:56 · 28 answers · asked by wisdom 3 in Family

2006-10-20 02:58:12 · 15 answers · asked by wayouthere 4 in Marriage & Divorce

mine naggs at me every chance he gets for the smallest thing and pics and picks and picks at me until I give him something real to nag at me for , then I end up saying sorry... he gets frusterated at the smallest little #$%#$% ... he can't keep from yelling, he gets mad over everything!!!! and not just me, but the public too.

2006-10-20 02:58:06 · 13 answers · asked by Pook 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months now. and it seems to me as if the relationship is going down the hill lol.. we argue often about the stupidest things. He is the one who argues alot. I am more of a "little things dont bother me" person! I love him and i dont want our relationship to end so i am hangin in there, he is VERY and i mean VERY jealous. and for every little thing he gets mad. i try to see his good side and all the good things he has to offer, but i dont kno if i should keep trying to make it work!!

2006-10-20 02:57:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Im getting married in 6 weeks and am having a nightmare writing my speech (Grooms Speech.) Ive tried the websites but any advice, ideas or copies to help me would be greatly appreciated.

2006-10-20 02:57:35 · 15 answers · asked by pixie 3 in Weddings

2006-10-20 02:57:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If you fall in love with your boyfriend's best friend ,what would you do? if you have been in that situation tell me what did you do ,did you tell your boyfriend or what?

2006-10-20 02:56:29 · 13 answers · asked by val88 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 02:56:28 · 9 answers · asked by Felicia G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

afterward i realized that her period is due tomorrow whats the risk of pregnancy?

2006-10-20 02:55:03 · 34 answers · asked by LEROY JONES 1 in Singles & Dating