Arguing....things have gotten physical with her. She began with the hitting and sometimes self inflicted blows to the head (into wall e.c.t.). It started by me trying to prevent her from hurting herself, then led to me having to defend myself. (She threw things, knives, cut her self).
She is a great woman....done more for me then anyone else and knows everything about me. But after the physical stuff and even before I just cant shake the feeling that there is something going on. She has little or no interest in sex with me (she says she has no interest in sex period but at 22 I find it hard to beleive).
She has alwyas prefered guy friends to girls, and used to talk to ALL of her ex BF's. I know she set up one online date thing but never finished..(prolly cause of $$)
How can I find out? Where can I go that is FREE or very cheap to find out this sort of thing?
I have always been parinoid I can admit that....but I am finding signs without looking.
Help?
2006-10-20 03:10:30 · 6 answers · asked by Skillz_de_Legend 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry to say this but you really deserve better than her. She is a girl with major issues and you can't go on like this. She needs to get some help but you need to stay away. Her hitting you is not on. Whether or not she's using a dating service is beside the point. You can't trust her, she'a abusive to you, she doesn't want to have sex with you, she clearly has no respect for herself or you...what is there in this relationship? If you think you love her you must have very little confidence in yourself. Find a decent stable girl who treats you right and you'll see what REAL love is about. Your so called girlfriend needs to get long term therapy to deal with her problems.
2006-10-20 03:39:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 22:06:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her not having a sex drive can be directly linked to all the fighting. If I'm not getting along with my man the last thing I want to do is sleep with him. Feeling sad = sex drive going away. If your finding signs without looking for them then why bother searching dating sites ? How many signs do you need ? I'm a paranoid person to but its because I have reason to be. If your finding signs without looking then there is cause to be paranoid. But instead of searching dating sites you should be breaking up with her and moving on with your life.
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2016-05-17 16:12:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude,
Cut your losses NOW. Run away from her as fast as you can.
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