Or because they were shorter/chubbier/wrong hair color/etc.?
I know how superficial people are these days but I was wondering how many of you are willing to be completely honest about the choices you've made....
2006-10-20 03:08:06 · 15 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Far more than I would like to remember. I've also learned if a cool, handsome or beautiful partner treats you poorly...they become ugly. If a plain or unattractive person treats you like gold they become beautiful. Love transforms all things...give good, kind people a chance. How someone looks is the first thing that stops mattering when a relationship deepens. Look at the happy couples married 50 years who still see each other as the most beautiful face they could ever wish to see.
2006-10-20 03:19:37 · answer #1 · answered by mlist32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 guys. When I was in HS I was very popular. I passed up a guy because he was "nerdy" even though I kinda had a crush on him. I will admit, it was totally shallow. Now he is better looking then ever, smart, sucessful and has a beautiful wife and a baby on the way. I think if it's worthwhile or meant to be, you won't care what other people think at all. 8 years later, I am in love with the most wonderful man I've met and come to find out, he was a total nerd/dork and got picked on in his HS growing up...so you know what i've found...it really doesnt matter when you're out in the real world.
oh, and the other guy i passed up was fat. That time, even though he was sweet, the physical thing just wasn't there, so thats important too.
2006-10-20 10:17:56 · answer #2 · answered by Big and Rich 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I passed up a lot of girls in high school because they weren't cool enough for me but now that I am in college I would date anyone that I connected with. Attraction still has to be the first step in a relationship for me, but I'm not nearly as picky as I used to be. Stop dwelling over guys that turned you down in the past and move on the the future. Sounds like you have some issues with revenge to me.
2006-10-20 10:16:33 · answer #3 · answered by Blake H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I passed them up because i wasn't attracted to them....period....I know what i like, and i know what i want, personality wise and apperance wise. So as far as what 'category' they're are put in, if they were put in there....oh well, everyone has their own preference, so all that being shallow or superficial is bullshit, becasue EVERYONE is shallow, whether it's about looks, personality, status, hell even inteligence. Everyone is shallow, people only go to where they fit in. So yea i passed up girls because they were unattractively big, or they weren't equally inteligent, or whatever they had that I didn't find interesting or attractive. Cause i ain't gonna pretend I like somebody or put myself in a half *** devoted relationship because someone contained alot of a good quality, be it really fine, or really cool.....I want the whole damn schmeel, ain't noone perfect, but then again they can still have both...my fiance has both...and she ain't perfect, she just has everything i want in a woman.....done deal.
2006-10-20 10:21:41 · answer #4 · answered by Dennis 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've been pass up i don't know how many times just because im not as skinny as the next girl but they still tell me that I'm cute but the point is i would rather go with you rather than you telling me that I'm cute but i have been the person that has been passed up so many times
2006-10-20 10:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by Brandi S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sis and her b/f tried to get me to go out with his best friend in high school and I said no. I regretted it years later b/c he lost weight, changed hair styles, etc....he looked so good and now he's married to a girl I hated in high school and who was fake. I hate fake people. But yeah, I regretted it. He was a good person but I didn't really know him then. Things happen for a reason though. I obviously wasn't meant to be with him. People can be harsh sometimes. It shouldn't be that way but sadly it is.
2006-10-20 10:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when in high school, wow, guess i cannot tell how many. Since I grew up and become a Man instead of a boy, none. I learned that its the person, not the package, that is whats important.
2006-10-20 10:11:06 · answer #7 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest not many to judge someone by the way the they look is out of the question because your uncomfortable by the way you look and you feel that judging someone will make it all right and for dating reasons is even worse but I've also made many mistakes in some of my ex-relastionships
2006-10-20 10:16:45 · answer #8 · answered by Isaiah C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have never made choices like that, but i have been passed over for a cooler chicks in the past (when i was early 20's).....dont think that happens when you are older, cos groups dont matter so much, at least not to me anyway....
2006-10-20 10:12:13 · answer #9 · answered by kt_sub2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i was the one passed up but now baby by
2006-10-20 10:11:36 · answer #10 · answered by Luckys Charm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋