I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months now. and it seems to me as if the relationship is going down the hill lol.. we argue often about the stupidest things. He is the one who argues alot. I am more of a "little things dont bother me" person! I love him and i dont want our relationship to end so i am hangin in there, he is VERY and i mean VERY jealous. and for every little thing he gets mad. i try to see his good side and all the good things he has to offer, but i dont kno if i should keep trying to make it work!!
2006-10-20 02:57:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
not uncommon.. this sounds like the first crisis (like in almost every serious relationship). talk. and tolerate the other person. but make your point clear. if he is unfair, be angry and don't let him treat you like this. have serious talking (love should be included ;) things will proeed and hopefully become better, once you talked.
2006-10-20 03:13:07 · answer #1 · answered by india18 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You could try talking .... you could try begging ... you should look in the mirror ... are you happy? Do you feel loved or possessed by this person? If he's very, very possessive that can only led to conflict and it won't get better. Your not the problem ... he's not mature enough to be secure and trust you in your relationship.
Choose one the next time who is more evolved and who's knuckles don't drag the ground.
Make a graceful exit .... start over with a better model.
Be Safe !
2006-10-20 10:15:51 · answer #2 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really want to be with someone who is VERY jealous and arguing with you over "the stupidest things" often? and getting mad about "every little thing."?
2006-10-20 10:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After only 7 months you are hanging in there? Don't, this is over. If you guys are having these sort of problems then you need to move on. He is just not "the one"... sorry. Really nothing more to it.
2006-10-20 10:00:57 · answer #4 · answered by Craig B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said urself... u see it going down hill. although u still care... try and look at it outside of the box... ur arguing all the time about "other people" when there is no other people. this relationship can't go anywhere if that's all its gonna be about.
2006-10-20 10:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by Beyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems as though you feel that the relationship is already going downhill...so why stop the falling. Find someone that you can grow up with.
2006-10-20 10:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should try to make fun of him when he gets serious.u should act as if nothing has happened and just laugh at him.i think he is jealous of something that can only be neutalized by acting humourous to him.
don let him realize that he is really getting on to ur nervs.
best of luck.
2006-10-20 10:10:28 · answer #7 · answered by tonima 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You see it comming. It's going down hill. I know you want to hang on - but I think you know it's time to move on.
2006-10-20 10:01:31 · answer #8 · answered by Vicki B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, picture yourself being like this for the rest of your life. i don't think you want that. end it quick while you're not in too deep. you sounds like a nice, mild tempered person; i think you deserve better. and trust me, don't try to change him or expect that he'll change. that's his leopard skin color. you can do better.
2006-10-20 10:05:20 · answer #9 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is time to move on. You have had enough. let him be jealous with someone else for a while.
2006-10-20 10:04:47 · answer #10 · answered by timtylersmom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋