okay- my best friend Hannah is dating Alec who I like. I TOLD Hannah 2 go out with him after he asked her a million times and she said no. I didn't know he was gonna ask me out if she said no again, and he said he'd go out with me if she broke up with him. I really like this guy, what should I do?
2006-10-20 03:02:48 · 19 answers · asked by Alyssa 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whats more important your friendship or a temporaryrelationship
2006-10-20 03:05:38 · answer #1 · answered by Luckys Charm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait and see what happens.
If Hannah and Alec become a couple, you should stay out of the picture.
If they don't then date Alec.
There's only a few MILLION other Alec's out there. How many do you really want?
2006-10-20 10:08:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have got to be kidding, right? this guy was adamant about going out with your friend, asking her out several times, and if she said no he'd ask you once and you'd go out with him? Are you always going to be ok with being a runner up? I'm sure there are guys out there that will like you first and make you the focus of their atttention. Don't sell yourself short...being runner up or a second choice especially to a friend isn't where a good start to the relationship should be.
2006-10-20 10:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by no-it-all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stand back and let it ride they may break up but if he liked you more he would have been asking you out insted of her to begin with, I am sorry sweetie but you really should just stay away from him. Sounds like a player. I know you like him and he is just so nice and hot but seriously how do you think so many women get hurt by theses situations. There is someone else out there that well ask you out befor they go for your friends.
2006-10-20 10:09:11 · answer #4 · answered by Jax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to make them break up, you will lose your best friend forever. Simply wait. Oh and by the way, if he is willing to go out with you mostly for your looks, then don't even think about it that is NOT the relationship you want to get into.
2006-10-20 10:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by The Popular Vote 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Hannah is your best friend, recommend you not to take this risk.
2006-10-20 10:05:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's a good friend then forget the boy. You don't get that many good friends. If she's a back stabber than totally go with the boy.
2006-10-20 10:05:47 · answer #7 · answered by Ella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know where ur comming from lol i loose a lot of guys that way to my sister lol well only like 3 times but i say talk to her and see about her feelings for him if she likes him a lot leave it alone if she just kinda likes him go for it!
2006-10-20 10:08:19 · answer #8 · answered by KaKes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not thinkin about ur best friend, u are thinkin about urself, it may hurt, but if ur best friend is happy then let her be, look at all the other guys out there, talk to her about and ask her how she feels about ur feelings for him and about the situation
2006-10-20 10:12:13 · answer #9 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait. In the meantime make sure he sees you going out with other guys. He will come around.........Soon.
2006-10-20 10:11:35 · answer #10 · answered by TMAC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it be and just wait for fate to take its course, when its right it will happen u know it may happen the strangest way...so dont force it......and who never said that waiting isnt awsome
2006-10-20 10:06:43 · answer #11 · answered by factual_chaos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋