ok i like this girl at my church. I see her very rarely(like twice a month). How should i flirt? Also i told her twin bro over the phone that i liked his sis. He was kinda freaked out(just a little bit). I told him not to tell her. So when should I tell her I like her, because I didn't want to tell her over the phone. And I didn't wan't him to spill the beans. So the questions are how do i flirt? when and how should i tell her i like her? My parents don't let me date till im 18. I am 13, she is 12 and her parents have been divorced for about 4 years. I have seen her for about two years well i am seeing her sunday and i was wundrin wat i should do i think i should tell her but how?
2006-10-20 03:02:46 · 13 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You already screwed up. You should not be afraid of just asking her. Are you afraid she is going to say no? If she does, is your life going to end? Are you going to stop liking girls? Just do it. And never tell someone not to tell her that you like her again.
2006-10-20 03:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by TMAC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't think she's going to run away any time soon, and you're both very young, so just be friends with her twin brother. Sooner or later, she's gonna want to be part of that friendship because you guys are going to be having so much fun, right? Let things happen, don't push. You see her at church - there's no reason why you can't say hi to her once in a while. But remember, she's 12 - not 20.
2006-10-20 10:09:52 · answer #2 · answered by theophilus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a little young to be dating, and she is definetly too young. Most girls at 12 years old aren't interested in boys for more than just friendship. I suggest you remain friends and wait a couple years before you concern yourself with the headaches that come along with girlfriends.
2006-10-20 10:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that church is not the appropriate time to be flirting, you should be listening to church. When you get out from church then go and talk to her see how she is maybe she has the looks but not the brain, after you get to know her a little better then go ahead and ask her on a date.
2006-10-20 10:11:01 · answer #4 · answered by cast c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just flirt. Say hi to her and smile. Don't be afraid to show off a little bit. Catch her eye. Just be friends. Once you have a friendship you know the person a little bit more and you can laugh together and have a good time.
2006-10-20 10:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by Sara H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you like her, but you shouldn't need to date yet. I personally don't think you need to wait til your 18, but that's between you and your parents. You have to let her know or she'll never know.
2006-10-20 10:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha sounds like somethin outta a movie... 13 yr old boy falls for 12 yr old girl in church... how 'romantic'
anyways... just be really sweet. sounds corny but girls LOVE that. anything she says, say somethin so sweet and innocent back. one girl told me her life sucks and its like there is always a cloud over her, then i told her i would be her umbrella. she damn near melted. but yea... just be sweet.
2006-10-20 10:07:09 · answer #7 · answered by Ray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say hi to her when you see her, and ask her if the two of you can sit together. The night before write her a love note, and give it to her, giving her your phone # inside of it. If she calls you, then you are good. BLessed be...............
2006-10-20 10:06:56 · answer #8 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, she probably does not even think about boys yet. You know what always works? Tell her you think she is awesome and that she has really pretty eyes.
2006-10-20 10:07:38 · answer #9 · answered by 30 something 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you tell her you like her or you flirt... how are you going to see her or date her if you are not aloud to? that's going to be hard! but walk up to her and just talk to her - be yourself
2006-10-20 10:07:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋