Family & Relationships - 20 October 2006

What is the safest and best way to "scope" someone on line, to know if they are for real, or a con artist ?

2006-10-20 02:42:57 · 5 answers · asked by paula b 2 in Singles & Dating

and who cares about his wife and cares about keeping the romance alive, and who doesn't have anger management problems?

2006-10-20 02:42:53 · 11 answers · asked by Pook 2 in Marriage & Divorce

all i wanted is a man that know how to treat her woman with respect but then how come i always end up with a loser? please nice answer only i need advice not to be judge.

2006-10-20 02:42:40 · 30 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 02:42:27 · 11 answers · asked by brit 1 in Singles & Dating

i found out,and i'm not pregnant. i told my b/f and he didn't care,he was more worried about me than mad,why?

2006-10-20 02:41:59 · 12 answers · asked by psychopathic bi*ch. 2 in Singles & Dating

So I'm 20 years old and a junior in college, and I've liked this one guy for awhile (I'm pretty sure he likes me too). It's his last year in college, so I was assuming he was 22. I was already worried about this because of him graduating this year and me having at least one year left. Then, the other day, I found out from someone else that he's at least 24! So, I know a four year age difference shouldn't really matter, but in this case, maybe it does. (I know I shouldn't be so worried since we aren't technically dating yet, but I'm afraid too that we're not dating just because he found out how old I was!) What are your opinions??

2006-10-20 02:41:28 · 35 answers · asked by wondering 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my close friend is female, and i dont look her in gf-ish way, i just take it as my real best mates. she does the same as well. but y do i feel awkward, and always feel that i fancy her, when i dont.
when i talk to her about the guy she likes, she always bypass the subject, duunno why?
need help my mates, plz???

2006-10-20 02:41:25 · 13 answers · asked by soumya B 1 in Singles & Dating

IAm 27years old, I feel it is the time to get married and live the family life. For the coming 2years, I should be married and at least have one kid.

But, I feel too much scared, I suppose it comes positive?? will all my dreams be shut down? will be able to have a baby if found positive??. What will be the reaction from my friends? family and other relatives?.Really these are the questions daily ringing in my head.

These questions acted as a break for me to go for a test. Should I mary before testing? how about the kid if found positive? how about its mom?.Just a bit cough make me feel,ooooooooh! the symptoms have already started!!!Lots and lots of questions burning my brain.

Please help me, where and how to start?, I HAVE NEVER SEXED WITHOUT A CONDOM

2006-10-20 02:41:15 · 5 answers · asked by Benny 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 02:41:06 · 9 answers · asked by whatever 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance's "b/f" told me a couple of months ago that he kissed another women. But the strange thing is that he (best friend) used to date her. And my fiance and him had a huge fight about her, because my fiance cannot stand being in the same room as her. I really dont like her much either. She common. I told my fiance about this. And he was really pissed about it. He hasn't spoke to his B/F since then. He says a B/F doesn't try to ruin his life. Why are ppl like that?

2006-10-20 02:40:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

this new girl comes and i think he's fallin' for her what should i do?

2006-10-20 02:40:00 · 8 answers · asked by babyfacetori 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 02:39:14 · 8 answers · asked by whatever 1 in Singles & Dating

I'M NOT sure i should pass this up, I'm afraid he is not my type, but he is more real than any man i know and will treat me the way i deserve, he says that it is all up to me. He is not controlling and jealous like some of my other boyfriends were. He wants a girl like me and we are around the same ages. He isn't bad looking and we are around the same height. He likes my body and having conversations with me. He says we would have beautiful children. He has cleaned himself up, many men do this whaen they want to a family. It sounds like he wants to settle down, the only problem is he is in a group home in my town so he does have some restrictions set on him. What would you do in my situation?

2006-10-20 02:38:44 · 6 answers · asked by RACHAEL R 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex is coming into town. I asked a question earlier this week on how i'm going to tell him i still want to be with him. But his brothers girlfriend, who is my best friend called me last night, and said that he wants me to go out clubbin with them tonight. I dont know whether to go or not. I want to go and dress my best to make him see what he's missing out on when he broke up with me. But then again, I don't want to be around him when he's drinking. I just want him to see me and realize that i'm willing to work my a.ss off to see him and look great when i do. HELP!

2006-10-20 02:38:32 · 4 answers · asked by Jessica Meganâ?¢ 2 in Singles & Dating

I need some advice here.
Can anyone teach me how to really forgive and forget? Everytime I try to, the feelings just seem repressed. I let myself be in denial and before i know it i get outbursts of anger. I hate my sister because she has been abusing me for all my life. Even when she's trying to change, I find it hard to not judge her. Thoughts of all the wrong things that she's done to me start flooding my mind.
I hate her because she's been really unreasonable to me in the past, doing a lot of things to hurt me, like going through my personal things, reading my diaries in front of me and even making fun of the things i write, throwing things at me and punching me, i really cant take it.everytime i retaliate, i only get abused more.
how do i forgive her? i feel that it was because of her that i have grown up without learning the skill of managing my emotions well. i feel that i have to restrain myself to please everyone. i feel that im unable to be assertive.pls help.

2006-10-20 02:38:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-20 02:38:10 · 5 answers · asked by whatever 1 in Singles & Dating

I cannot take my son out of India on a permanent basis. If I want a good life for my son and myselfthen I have relatives in canada but I am stuck here. Is there a way I can take my son and become a resident there and give my son a good life.I cannot talk to my exhusband as he would never allow me to take him and he knows that I will never go without my son,kind of revenge. He is married now and has daughters and son. Plz help if there is way....I want to go from here and take my son.Is the government of Canada on humanitarian grounds consider this case or some other way. Plz help.

2006-10-20 02:36:48 · 6 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ive had my share of relationships and right now it is hard for me to trust another man.(Im sure alot of woman can relate) Well I've been seeing this for about a month. I actually met him in the club and gave him my number. For 2 weeks he called and I wouldnt answer because I just didnt want to be bothered. But since he was so consistant, I decided to give it a shot. We've been talking ever since. But we only chilled twice at a pool hall. And when we talk on the phone it is very brief. We've texted each other more than we've talked. He never takes the initiative to take me out. I'm thinking because he is younger. He tells me he really likes me and he wants me to be his girl. I asked him why he likes me and he said because Im smart, sexy, and fun to be around. What should I do? Give him some slack or let it go?

2006-10-20 02:35:34 · 11 answers · asked by MonaLisa 4 in Singles & Dating

do u think we can find our soul mat on the net? what can we do to keep the relationship in case we live in different countries?

2006-10-20 02:35:26 · 5 answers · asked by curious girl 3 in Singles & Dating

ok my bf has been acting weired all week and i havent seen him since last saterday and i told him last night i wanted to come up and see him and he said that he planed on going out with friends. is he cheating?

2006-10-20 02:34:08 · 20 answers · asked by britt 2 in Singles & Dating

year and half ago.I somehow felt that she is not the girl and became very casual with her.We also had numerous arguments.In course of time we stopped talking to each other completely she thought if we stay apart I will love her. In a period of 4months i realised I love her a lot and she really loves me a lot too.
But in the mean while when she got angry with me thinking that i cheated her,she got engaged to a guy who liked her from a long time. Now she says that she loves me and wouldnt marry the guy she got engaged to,rather she end her life.I obviously wouldnt like her to do that.She wants to come back but looking at the past she gives it a second thought.
I want to spend my life with her and she too but at the same time she doesnt want to betray that guy.i dont want to lose her at any cost.
how do i make her believe that i would love to spend my life with her and how do i be confirmed that in so much of time she too couldnt forget me and loves me the same way?

2006-10-20 02:33:17 · 10 answers · asked by ithunderhyderabad 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 02:32:58 · 2 answers · asked by kcastillo1220 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I get mad at my bf every other week, and we don’t talk for like 2 days and I call him and we talk like nothing happen?? Odd right anyway we see each other Monday and wed, and also sometimes when I get off work I go to his house and we have sex! I want it to be more then sex, but it seems like he doesn’t get it at all. He cant come over my house, and I cant spend the night at his house, and I cant stay past midnight at his place he lives by him self because my parent don’t allow that. So this week on Tuesday we had a fight so I didn’t call him all day tues, and wed and we talked Thursday, and after I got of work I called him and I told him I was coming to see him, and he said I am going to get something to eat and I am going to my boy house, I got mad because he could said u can come we can go out to eat. So he calls this morning and said today is Friday u can come and see me after work and I said I get of at 10pm what are we going to do, I fell like I am just his sex buddy he doesn’t really want to take me out he just want to have sex with me and I said I have to work know he is mad.

2006-10-20 02:32:34 · 4 answers · asked by sweet84 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy i like alot he stares at me and looks away and sometiems smiles but he has a girl walking with him in the halls and talking to him in class what should i do

2006-10-20 02:31:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does anyone know of any other web sites that are like Myspace.com? You know the ones that won't charge you to join?

2006-10-20 02:31:19 · 7 answers · asked by Steven B 1 in Singles & Dating

i been living with my granma since i was 7 years old she is my mama but i want to connet with tha real one

2006-10-20 02:31:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am leaving to go to live with my boyfriend up in london and will not be able to come on here no more and give advice how does this make everyone feel.

he dont have a computer and wont be able to say hello and plus he doont have a home fone so he wont have anyway to put it

2006-10-20 02:29:17 · 36 answers · asked by tracey a 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I just started living together, we're getting married next year. But I find it's hard to spend any quality time together because he's always running his family around. He has two older sisters and a brother (between the ages of 46-52) that live at home with his mom. My finance is 42 - all those adults living at home but they call him all the time. Last night, I cooked a very nice dinner and he promised me we would have a nice quiet evening together NO INTERRUPTIONS. Well, right after we ate, his sister calls and said something that made him angry, so now he's in a bad mood, and he's kinda snapping at me. Then when I looked at him strange, he said "I'm sorry I"m kinda upset." His sister calls back and asks him to take her to the store, and he took her! I'm not selfish, I know he is the type of guy that is always helping people and who people call when they need help - but I find it's really throwing a monkey wrench into "our thang." He also has a problem saying No

2006-10-20 02:29:12 · 19 answers · asked by Cris 5 in Marriage & Divorce

well i had a phone call from a girl after 3 weeks of marrage saying that she is my husband´s gf and that he told her that i was his sister living with him...when i confronted him with that he said he didnt talk to that girl since a year ago and that she said that as she wanted to seperate between us ...as she wanted to marry him...but how could that girl get my name and he hasnt talked with her since one year ...this is so strange...but i forgave him...what do u think...i feel he is cheating on me till now...but i have no physical evidence....what shall i do...i am married now for 2 monthes....

2006-10-20 02:28:26 · 21 answers · asked by caramella 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you do if you just lost your soul mate... its a month and ur still crying!!!! You know he was the one..... Everything just fit well

2006-10-20 02:28:01 · 13 answers · asked by apple 1 in Singles & Dating