theres this guy i like alot he stares at me and looks away and sometiems smiles but he has a girl walking with him in the halls and talking to him in class what should i do
2006-10-20 02:31:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
May be he already had a girlfriend but now he has fallen for you and is indecisive about whether or not to ask you. Because if he asks you and you turn him down and at the time, his girlfriend comes to know about it then he has neither of you. In such a situation, I suggest you talk to him ( preferably when the girlfriend is not around ) and just say hi to him. He will get the message that you are interested in him and take it from there.
Another scenario could be that the girl with him is just his friend and not a girlfriend. If that's the case then you can get her help in hooking up with him.
2006-10-20 02:33:07 · answer #1 · answered by Friend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though guys can be in relationships dosn't stop them from noticing a girl they are attracted to.
If he is serious in this current relationship, then this is probably not a good thing to do - especially if he is smiling.Obvioulsy he wants to draw your attention.
You sound very young and so does he and my guess is that
he is not serious about this current girlfriend, otherwise he wouldn't be smiling at you from time to time.
I wouldn't like to see you break-up his current relationship.
Let things ride. Sit this one out. Just wait and see.
If he ends the relationship with the other girl, it may give him the chance to get to know you. But a word of warning. If you date him, he may tire of you and start smiling at other girls.
Maybe - maybe not. Because your young its ok to change relationships from time to time. It's part of growing up and very normal and healthy.
Just wait and see...
good luck
2006-10-20 09:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grrr, the guy you KNOW likes you, but that little nasty is always around. Some guys like the notion of girls liking them, and sometimes they are so stupid to not shake them, especially if he's got his eyes on you. I personally love guys liking me. but if Im trying to get a particular, I have to stop allowing myself to receive so much attention from others. SO maybe you need to talk to him. See if the smile means "Hi" or "Dang girl, there's something about you". Make sure the next time he smiles and catches your eyes, do that "what?" thing with your shoulders, like hellooooo what do you want me to do. Its cute and make sure youre smiling at the same time so he wont think youre saying stop. I love the art of love and attraction. So fun and so interesting to hear others stories.
2006-10-20 09:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by Brown Beauty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop your books infront of him. Then as he helps you pick them up, start talking to him. If she starts getting an attitude, you'll know she's probably his girlfriend. But either way, it will open a door for him to give you alittle attention and for you to talk to him.
2006-10-20 09:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you should do, Get a frickin Life!!!
Hes probably staring at you because you've got pen on your face.
2006-10-20 09:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by jonny Atlantis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think he likes you. But if he has a girlfriend then forget him. You do not need to be the "other girl".See if he breaks up with her. Then if you like him. see if he comes up to you to talk.then you'll know.but if he stays with her....then move on!
2006-10-20 09:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you but he's got a girlfriend. Or, he's just seeing if he's still got it and using you for practice.
He's just not that into you.
2006-10-20 09:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by claudiagiraffe 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LET HIM MAKE THE FIRST MOVE.! because then u will look despreate and too interested and he wont like that!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-20 09:33:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and create a friendship with him and you will surely find out
2006-10-20 09:33:28 · answer #9 · answered by ntu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he does or maybe hes just trying to be nice but get someone to ask him or ask him yourself
2006-10-20 09:36:27 · answer #10 · answered by brittany r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋