Ive had my share of relationships and right now it is hard for me to trust another man.(Im sure alot of woman can relate) Well I've been seeing this for about a month. I actually met him in the club and gave him my number. For 2 weeks he called and I wouldnt answer because I just didnt want to be bothered. But since he was so consistant, I decided to give it a shot. We've been talking ever since. But we only chilled twice at a pool hall. And when we talk on the phone it is very brief. We've texted each other more than we've talked. He never takes the initiative to take me out. I'm thinking because he is younger. He tells me he really likes me and he wants me to be his girl. I asked him why he likes me and he said because Im smart, sexy, and fun to be around. What should I do? Give him some slack or let it go?
2006-10-20 02:35:34 · 11 answers · asked by MonaLisa 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me also add that I did take initiative one day. I made plans for us to go to the movies and he stood me up. He said he was waiting for me to call him but the plans were set.
2006-10-20 03:04:46 · update #1
Don't give him slack... I have this opinion that every girl should be treated like gold because well we girls are worth it. You need to let him know that you are a girl who needs more attention then he is giving right now. Let him know the only way you can be "his girl" is for him to show you that he can give you more than he is right now. Not to make excuses but he may be too shy or maybe afraid to come on too strong and scar you off. Good luck I hope this helps!
2006-10-20 02:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now i know why u are find it hard to trust men, thats coz u keep on giving them a shot time n again.Reolationship is not a new drink or adventure sport that u can give it a shot.Such attitude will leave u confused about men for long time. Personally, I dont see any future in the relationship between u and that guy.
2006-10-20 02:41:19 · answer #2 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ball is in your court...be in control of this relationship if you want something to happen. You can't hide your heart forever and if you try you will spend the rest of your life lonely and miserable.
2006-10-20 02:38:46 · answer #3 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 12:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thers nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy out so take the first step and ask him out!!
2006-10-20 02:38:42 · answer #5 · answered by arreis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is just has weary has you are or maybe he can feel that you are not ready to get into anything heavy ........... just keep doing waht you are doing and give him the benifit of the doubt. Or if you want it to be more then you make it more.
2006-10-20 02:40:37 · answer #6 · answered by teneesha2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you try inviting him out....invite him over for a quiet meal, or just to watch a movie
2006-10-20 02:38:50 · answer #7 · answered by Sherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better move as friendly first ,then notch up the gear.
2006-10-20 02:43:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ull never know unless u try
2006-10-20 02:39:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be smart on wat to do try to give him some time to think if he wants u or not.
2006-10-20 02:39:50 · answer #10 · answered by spawnof_thedevil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋