IAm 27years old, I feel it is the time to get married and live the family life. For the coming 2years, I should be married and at least have one kid.
But, I feel too much scared, I suppose it comes positive?? will all my dreams be shut down? will be able to have a baby if found positive??. What will be the reaction from my friends? family and other relatives?.Really these are the questions daily ringing in my head.
These questions acted as a break for me to go for a test. Should I mary before testing? how about the kid if found positive? how about its mom?.Just a bit cough make me feel,ooooooooh! the symptoms have already started!!!Lots and lots of questions burning my brain.
Please help me, where and how to start?, I HAVE NEVER SEXED WITHOUT A CONDOM
2006-10-20 02:41:15 · 5 answers · asked by Benny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You cant be scared about something you dont know about. I got tested a few weeks ago because I found out my ex was having sex with prositutues. It is very scary waiting for the results but I am sure you will be fine since you have been protected before. Just take it, you will feel better.
2006-10-20 02:43:58 · answer #1 · answered by digupdeadstuff1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! It takes a lot of guts to make that decision and it is a wise person who wnats to be tested before making a commitment. I am a LOT older than you and also had unprotected sex. You never think about it at the time, I know.
There are a lot of meds that are now available and from all I have read and seen even if you were to test positive you could live a very full and fulfilling life, even have kids. Please get on WEB MD or something and research. Call your local health department and ask about testing.
Good Luck and the chances of being negative far outweigh being positive! The earlier you find out the better for your peace of mind.
2006-10-20 09:48:01 · answer #2 · answered by oldhippygrandma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have NEVER had sex without a condom then you don't run such a high risk, unless you shared needles during drug use, had blood transfusions, or had some type of mishap which involved an infected person. Just get tested ASAP so you can have peace of mind. Several people who are HIV positive continue to live their lives almost as if they did before (routinewise).
2006-10-20 09:44:41 · answer #3 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, unless you've been having lots of sex with dirty women, sharing dirty needles with druggies, or have entertained homosexuals... You probably are in very good shape...
Passing HIV/AIDS is very difficult from woman to man... Go ahead and get the test, it will put your mind at ease...
Unless, you've come into contact with a Homosexual via direct or a female and you... Well you'd have had to try really hard to get it from her...
Now you know realize why they say it is better to WAIT to have sex until marriage...
2006-10-20 09:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are doubting whether or not you may or may not be positive then maybe you should not have sex with random people without knowing about thier life and status. Just a thought.
2006-10-20 09:44:55 · answer #5 · answered by Kit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋