Is it luck of communication or what? please answer me?

Question

I get mad at my bf every other week, and we don’t talk for like 2 days and I call him and we talk like nothing happen?? Odd right anyway we see each other Monday and wed, and also sometimes when I get off work I go to his house and we have sex! I want it to be more then sex, but it seems like he doesn’t get it at all. He cant come over my house, and I cant spend the night at his house, and I cant stay past midnight at his place he lives by him self because my parent don’t allow that. So this week on Tuesday we had a fight so I didn’t call him all day tues, and wed and we talked Thursday, and after I got of work I called him and I told him I was coming to see him, and he said I am going to get something to eat and I am going to my boy house, I got mad because he could said u can come we can go out to eat. So he calls this morning and said today is Friday u can come and see me after work and I said I get of at 10pm what are we going to do, I fell like I am just his sex buddy he doesn’t really want to take me out he just want to have sex with me and I said I have to work know he is mad.

Answer 1

Oh yea...he's using you. Stop calling him and find something else to do with your time. This guy is a class A jerkoff

Answer 2

Sounds familiar.I know someone who have the same concern like yours,but eventually she broke up with him for she couldn't stand with it.Her bf has another gf aside from her.She accepted it even if she was aware that he has an existing gf.She took it as a challenge,hoping that she could swing or divert his attention,indeed she got it,but she wasn't aware of it because they don't meet everyday.They also have their own schedules of meetings like yours, like Tuesdays,Thursdays and some Saturdays,but the guy couldn't just bring her out to the open because he has another gf aside from her,and she perfectly knows that.She felt the same feelings too..she suspected that he was treating her like a "sex slave." But of course she was longing something more in depth than just having that, like you do.If i were to ask about your situation? I would strongly suggest that you ask him a little space this time,Tell him that you both need a breather.Maybe with that gesture he will finally discover his true feelings for you.He would then realize that you're more than what he thinks of...They said,a person would only discover or value someones worth if he/she is gone.He might come to you with a changed heart after which.Like the person i know,her bf wanted her back to him because he broke up with his other gf,and he was able to realize and recognize her worth then.

Answer 3

maybe he is using U, but then again maybe he doesn't realize wut he is doing and how he is hurting U, don't call him,wait for him to call U. see wut happens, if he don't call u for like 2 weeks then he dont love U, and if he does call U and U go to his house, don't do anything sexually with him and see how he acts towards U, if its the same, try to talk to him about it, if he ignores U and gets mad cuz u dont want to do something sexually then he is prob using U and U should leave him and stop being used.

Answer 4

I think you are right... its time to move on and find a nice guy.
You should find one that wants to spend time with you.....