ok my bf has been acting weired all week and i havent seen him since last saterday and i told him last night i wanted to come up and see him and he said that he planed on going out with friends. is he cheating?
2006-10-20 02:34:08 · 20 answers · asked by britt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask him what's going on, that's he's been acting weird lately. The more he freaks out/says that youre crazy or paranoid, the more likely he is cheating.
2006-10-20 02:35:52 · answer #1 · answered by Annette J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might not necessarily be cheating, but then again, no one can tell.....and I have always believed that women have a sixth sense about these things. You have every right to worry, and have your doubts.....how you react to those feelings is what is going to make the difference. I think you should go with what your instincts tell you......just don't let him know just yet. Go up and see him when he least expects it......but bring something nice with you (a small gift or take-out food) and tell him you wanted to surprise him. If you've never done this before, it should be a nice surprise....unless of course he had other plans for that moment. Play it by ear......guys tend to give themselves away by the way they when they're caught off-guard. If nothing is happening on the side, everything should turn out ok. That's "IF" othing is going on.
Best of Luck!
2006-10-20 09:41:33 · answer #2 · answered by Ralph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is. Give him a taste of his own medicine. Let him know that you feel that something is wrong with the relationship and therefore you think it is best if the relationship is no longer exclusive. Don't back down and follow through. Go out on a few dates. Who knows - you might be blessed by this revelation. It gives you an opportunity for a fresh start.
2006-10-20 09:41:28 · answer #3 · answered by gaijin ojiisan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think at this point that don't matter! After a week he blows you off and not wanting to see you! You and he both, could go out with his friends! How many times has he blown you off like this?
2006-10-20 09:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is actin weird toward U, then he could be cheating, but U don't want to accuse him of it unless U have proof that he is, maybe he needs his own space, a week or two by himself, if he keeps giving his time only to his friends and none to U then hes not worth it.
2006-10-20 09:41:36 · answer #5 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, I beleive you love your boyfreind a lot and he is very lucky for that.unfortunately he hasnt realised this darling.Give him some space,U by urself dont call himor contact him. If he himself tries to contact you then u will see that he loves you and wouldnt leave you.
if he doesnt try to contact you then he is not the right guy for you.
but yeah u dont try and contact him, he will see that you are desparate.
Try this you will get him back
Cheers,
Tk cr
2006-10-20 09:42:33 · answer #6 · answered by ithunderhyderabad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come out and ask him, what's up? He might be cheating or just having a really bad week.
2006-10-20 09:40:30 · answer #7 · answered by Tommy's_Sweet_Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be...we are in less of a position to know than you are. Has this been an issue before? Talk to him...if y'all aren't going to spend time together, what's the point in dating?
2006-10-20 09:37:35 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ask him dont worry yourself to death wondering if hes cheating or not that is what a relationship is all about talking and trusting each other. i have a long distance relationship and i have to think about trust alot in my relationship.
2006-10-20 09:39:06 · answer #9 · answered by Chaney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends some time he may be really busy, wait for another 2-3 days if he is not taking you fire him
2006-10-20 09:38:56 · answer #10 · answered by smartcamal1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋