I'M NOT sure i should pass this up, I'm afraid he is not my type, but he is more real than any man i know and will treat me the way i deserve, he says that it is all up to me. He is not controlling and jealous like some of my other boyfriends were. He wants a girl like me and we are around the same ages. He isn't bad looking and we are around the same height. He likes my body and having conversations with me. He says we would have beautiful children. He has cleaned himself up, many men do this whaen they want to a family. It sounds like he wants to settle down, the only problem is he is in a group home in my town so he does have some restrictions set on him. What would you do in my situation?
2006-10-20 02:38:44 · 6 answers · asked by RACHAEL R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just tread carefully here.
Check out his background before you get in too deeply.
Also, the fact that you admit you aren't sure indicates doubt.
When in doubt, do nothing rash. Just continue to investigate the situation.
2006-10-20 02:42:38 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no benefit in rushing the situation between the two of you. It would be wise to go slow and take it a day at a time. The fact that you say he is in a group home waves flags for me. The problem is you don't say what kind of a group home it is. If it is drug rehab, it would be extremely wise to wait and see if he is able to function outside the home on his own once he gets out of it. You say your communication with him is good, and that is a definite plus for the two of you.
I would say pursue the relationship, but do so slowly. Don't be afraid to back off of it if he shows any tendency to go back to his old ways if he is in rehab now. Take it slow, be watchful, and back off of him if warranted. Make him prove his sincerity.
2006-10-20 09:52:45 · answer #2 · answered by slimsmom@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it soulds to me like you and he might already be frinds in some ways. Maybe spend some time together as friends see what is or is not there for you both. We always have restrictions placed on us of one kind or another. Sometimes they are evn useful. Not usually though. If you really want someone who is controlling and jealous, maybe you should find somebody else.
2006-10-20 09:44:17 · answer #3 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go out and see. If the frist or second date don't work stop right there and stop seeing him then.
2006-10-20 09:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl sound like he is a good catch,maybe you should give him a chance but do it when you are ready.
2006-10-20 09:43:37 · answer #5 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE A CHANCE YOU ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE
2006-10-20 09:44:54 · answer #6 · answered by lesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋