she loved me but she does not like sex with anybody anymore do i bleave this and go on or do i keep on trying to see whats going on or mabe its the change of life she is 52 years old
2006-10-20 03:53:06 · 13 answers · asked by seagledanny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like she means she does not have any drive. Could see the Doc and find out if she may have some medicial reasons for this.
2006-10-20 03:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by Ben M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women reach their sexual peak in their 30's darlin. Maybe she feels like she is too old for sex? Show her that sex can be fun. Try some new things, but take it slow at first. Don't bring out the whips chains and handcuffs just yet. Try sneaking in the shower with her next time she bathes. Soap up your hands and bathe her with no cloth. It is very sensual, take your time exploring her body. Make her feel like the beautiful woman she is. Im assuming you don't have kids in the house anymore. After that shower, wrap up together in a big blanket with no clothes and sit on the couch and watch a movie together. Surround her with the passion that you so obviously feel for her. She will see that you are trying to please her, and she will probably want to please you in return.
2006-10-20 04:00:44 · answer #2 · answered by Amber L 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, at 52 she could be going thru the change, however, what have u done to "spice" things up a bit?
Try a romantic walk, and good conversation about something she likes, then ease into the sexual connection, sometimes you have to use foreplay...
2006-10-20 03:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by voluptoustaureanfemale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be nearing menopause. It's also normal for people's (both men and women) sex drives to go on cycles, sometimes you want it more, sometimes less. Sometimes life just gets in the way of living.
She may want to talk to a doctor about it though. It might be normal cycles, it might be pysiological (like menopause or low estrogen), or it might be psychological (like depression). I would recommend that she see's a doctor to find out for sure.
2006-10-20 03:56:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hormones! My parents went through the same thing, they saw a doctor, got on hormone shots, and now they're great. They are 42 and 54. Get hormones counted from the doc and i bet you'll find the answer. Good luck.
2006-10-20 04:43:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is going though the change of life. She may need to go to the Dr. to get checked. But if you truly love her and want to be with her sex is not everything.
2006-10-20 04:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by Debbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
menopause can cause a huge lack of sex drive. it is a medical condition. be patient and get some medical facts together, ask her if she is willing to see a specialist. those hormomes can make people do and act in ways they would not have 10 or 20 yers ago. good luck and remember, be KIND and PATIENT!
2006-10-20 04:36:53 · answer #7 · answered by bubba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that if she's not willing to give you what you need, you will go and get it somewhere else. If she really doesn't enjoy sex anymore, this will not bother her and she'll agree, and your problem will be solved. If she doesn't agree, then it becomes more complicated, you will have to find out what's wrong like other responders have said.
2006-10-20 04:32:04 · answer #8 · answered by Steven S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I did a little research for you and found this site which is a mans guide to female menopause. Yes, you should believe your wife, she is experiencing typical menopause symptoms. She is going to need your patience and support. It would be recommended that she schedule an appointment with her gynecologist for a physical so she may discuss what she is experiencing with him. She may need hormone replacement supplements to stabilize her fluctuating hormones.
http://www.lupusmn.org/Education/Articles/AMansGuidetoFemaleMenopause.htm
2006-10-20 07:45:51 · answer #9 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably menopausal. This is normal. Maybe she would consider homonal treatment to balance her estrogen levels and herbal supplemenst to enhance her libido.
Good luck
2006-10-20 03:56:01 · answer #10 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋