Family & Relationships - 20 October 2006

2006-10-20 04:04:12 · 12 answers · asked by just me 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 15 years old and I like this guy who is going to be 18 in January...My parents think that he is WAY too old and they wont let me "date" him. The only real problem that we have in seeing each other is im BEST FRIENDS with his sister...she wanted me to spend the night with her at her house. Since her brother would be there they think it would be "Irresponceable for them as parents to let me go for the night" I think that they need to let me go and give me my space. What do you think??

2006-10-20 04:03:52 · 10 answers · asked by xgunsxgoxbangx69 1 in Family

I need to know the advantages and disadvantages of joining a gang.
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2006-10-20 04:03:45 · 17 answers · asked by Wizdom 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am earning my Masters Degree and like to engage in some form of mentally stimulating conversation, however, I can not have it with my boyfriend. He doesn't understand simple words such as "annually" However, he takes care of me, looks out for me, protects me, and is a good boyfriend. Should his intellect be a major issue?

2006-10-20 04:03:26 · 16 answers · asked by GungaSocialWorker 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I work for a large corporate retail Chain head office. One of my clients employed one of my friends 12 months ago. We had a meeting with the board and they have decided to put 3 people off at the end of the month. One of them happens to be my friend. She has know idea and will be deverstated when she finds out. I have been told to maintain the strictest confidence. but I want to do the right thing by her, but I also have to maintain professionalism. If I tell her she may tell others as she will be negative about the situation, I also would like to find her another job so she doesn't have financial pressures.

What should I do?

2006-10-20 04:03:19 · 7 answers · asked by oooooo 2 in Friends

I am 16 my best friend of 3 years has been my boyfriend of 2 years. He moved an hour away and I have been uneasy about him talking to a girl in class. I love him, but I need help trusting him more. He has never given me any reason to doubt him, so why does it bother me?

2006-10-20 04:03:05 · 8 answers · asked by Izzie 1 in Friends

O.K so I'm in 7th grade there's this girl in 6th grade and she likes me a lot and she thinks i like her and im sick of her bugging me... but i dont want to hurt her feelings... any advice on how to tell this gril i'm not interested?!?! HELP!!???!?!?!?

2006-10-20 04:03:04 · 8 answers · asked by Schkitzboy 2 in Singles & Dating

my mom went out with her friends last weekend, and a couple of college age guys were hitting on her and they gave her thier number, name, and e-mail address.... well, she is married, and has 4 kids, she wants nothing to do with him. so she gave it to me... i think jokingly.... i texted the guy on my phone... and we are becoming friends... but how do i say anything to my mom, when a couple of days later i mentioned the number, and she said to throw it away.... am i techinically going behind her back??? the guy and i are 8 years apart, and i am in a rather strong relationship right now.. so there is nothing like that going on.... what should i do.... (he's 24, im 16.... can we just be friends, and what will my mom say...)

2006-10-20 04:02:25 · 8 answers · asked by shenae 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This lady ask me to model for her clothing store, this is the first time I am doing this modeling thing, and the show is next Sunday and there is going to be a lot of people coming and for one person it is $50.00, my bf always use to tell me to do it, know last week I ask him to take me to rehearsal he really didn’t want to take me I didn’t know were the place was, that was the reason I couldn’t do it my self. anyway after I got mad and all that he took me, and for the actual seen i don’t know if he is going to go? He is probably going to say no and I am going to need someone to take me there, I am just mad because one min he said its good, know he is saying that he doesn’t want to go, do I have a right to get mad, if that was him doing it I will be so happy I will love to go see him, but he really doesn’t want to come and see me what should I do guys?? he just doesn’t try to make me happy at all like when ever I see him I go to his house and we **** he doesn’t want to take me out to eat or movies I mean I need to be strong BUT I DON’T HOW ?? I alwys thing like o he is going to get mad I just don’t want to make him mad but I am not happy I NEED TO BE STRONG BUT I DOANT KNOW HOW???

2006-10-20 04:01:59 · 11 answers · asked by sweet84 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm doing a second date...do you think girls always want to be greeted with a hug and get the car door opened for them???

2006-10-20 04:01:44 · 11 answers · asked by Bucky for Prez 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm with a guy who obviously loves me, he's completely my type, and I've never fell inlove with someone this much.
Although, he is extreemly highly payed but works on contract. He smokes and take things he shouldn't, and likes to stay home most of the time...and that's my only problem with him.
Another guy is a CEO of a big company, a celeb in a sertain industry, and he loves me excessively, took me to extreemly expensive restaurants, spa, holiday, resort...he's a big fun and I was completely pampered. We got separated because I couldn't really feel a strong sexual appeal from him, and he was just all over me. But we are good friends for 3years now.
My bf now has invited me to his familly Xmas this year. First time ever to invite someone, he says. The latter guy is still in love with me. He would do anything to make me happy...
Now that I'm 27, I do want to get married and have kids soon...I'm wondering if I should follow love and be unstable in money, or follow wealth...

2006-10-20 04:01:44 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 04:01:37 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

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2006-10-20 04:01:22 · 9 answers · asked by nikko 1 in Singles & Dating

Is the only way to prevent divorce is to not get married in the first place? If nobody got married does that mean that divorce lawyers would not have a job? I mean in america I don't think many marriages are arranged. Also, women seem to more independent that its not nessary for them to get married like it was a long time ago.

2006-10-20 04:01:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is falling in love again possible or even worth the hassle ??

2006-10-20 04:01:10 · 5 answers · asked by mlist32 2 in Singles & Dating

What does everyone usually do for Sweetest Day? Do you celebrate it with your loved one or think its silly?

2006-10-20 04:00:34 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 03:59:14 · 10 answers · asked by Golden Lady 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

can't they just shoot the guy in leg or balls get enug to get him down?

2006-10-20 03:59:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

lets say hypothetically that we were in a relationship and you said that you wanted to try new things so i suggest fisting and i just got done measuring my fist its 13 inches around how would you respond to this request would you say no or would you be angry? thank each and everyone of you in advance for the time it took to answer this question

2006-10-20 03:58:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have a 18 year old son that just turned 18, he is still in high school and has a steady girlfriend. He is very strong willed and often "tests" his boundaries and prides himself on finding loopholes in just about everything he can think of. When we do take action such as grounding or lecturing, he give us the "whatever" attitude. Generally he is a good kid, averge grades, doesn't drink, doesn't smoke or do drugs and for the most part follows rules. However, he has been lazy about getting a job and seems to want to spend more time with his girlfriend, which is daily, at times ALL day either at her house or our house. He is now pushing our boundaries with wanting her to spend the night or wanting to spend the night at her house. We are at our wits end with him. He see's 18 as being an age where he no longer has to follow rules or listen to us to an extent. What can we do?

2006-10-20 03:58:08 · 24 answers · asked by WOLFHUSKIE 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok...."the person that really loves you but you don't love?" or "the person that you really love but don't love you?".....

2006-10-20 03:57:50 · 16 answers · asked by Change this name! 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Sits next to me for computer class, which is 1 hr. and 30 min. and they bug the hell out if me, how can I stop the hell I'm in.

2006-10-20 03:56:57 · 12 answers · asked by Claudia 1 in Friends

Ok this is hard to explane. My best friends and I were all together and eveything was kool untill my one best friend said a very racial remark about hispanics and that caused a fight.... Well she said sorry and has a lot of crap going on now and me, my best friend sam and siondra are her only friends left, and i want to be best friends again but sam dosent and i am afraid of losing sam if i am best firneds with caitlin again.

2006-10-20 03:56:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

this is really something im having a lot of trouble thinking about.
bascially to cut a long story short, someone sent a letter to my house.addressed to my dad and not written in english.but in my other language which i do not know how to read or write.my dad didnt open it my mum did.it bascially said to my dad that im [his daughter] and my name was written, i am going around with some guy and it named most of the places we apprently went to.it says ive ben to his house, the west end and along with few other places.the letter was almost detailed account fo what i did.and the worse thing is how does this person happen to turn up at all these places and whats it got to do with this person.if sone one is so concerend about my whereabouts, wouldnt normal people just come up to and talk to me, or even tell my dad face to face, why write a anonymous letter im really shcoked.......im 21 for gods sake and i wasnt even doing anything wrong....how dare this person who i have no idea who it is, why are they doing this.dont otehr people do this.i know a million people go to a kmillion places everyday i just cant see why this happened to me.the letter bascially said that my dad should have more control of me and that i was going out with some bloke [and i shouldnt be...]letter said that my paretns are really good peole and how cold i bring a bad name to them,/it was writeen in a sympathetic tone towards my father but that would obviously make it look believable.
the letter said i didnt want to tell you to your face as it would embarses my dad
but writiing a letter? that wouldnt make it worse?how could someone be so cunning...i just dont get it..why someone would do it....wouldnt writing a letter cause more grief?
AND APPenrently everyone is talking about me....probly saying `oh look at so and sos daughter the slag` even though i am not.....
im sscared as someone might be follwing me or i have no idea whats going on....its making my life a nightmare.....
whats going on
i havent showed my dad yet mum said it may cuase more bad than good...what shall i do...

2006-10-20 03:56:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

the one that lives here in the states is so cute but he has a girlfriend. doesnt mean the have to stay together.he also flirts with me all the time. the other one over seas he is so nice, not really my type on the looks,but he is really nice and funny. he wants to come here, well we both plan on him coming here. but i cant get the other one out of my mind. what do i do???? help!!!!!

2006-10-20 03:55:57 · 5 answers · asked by amanda n 1 in Singles & Dating

if ur best friend is not replying to ur mail wat would u do?

2006-10-20 03:55:54 · 4 answers · asked by pallavi 1 in Friends

We need to find one in or near the Coral Gables area that is not too expensive.
The prices we've seen in the area are just crazy, but we are willing to go to the east Kendall area if it's close to the Palmetto so people can get to the reception site easily.
The reception is at a small hall in the heart of Coral Gables so we would like something that is not to far from the reception hall.

Thank you for all your help.

Mary

2006-10-20 03:55:35 · 8 answers · asked by Mari V 1 in Weddings

2006-10-20 03:55:00 · 20 answers · asked by ms_nida 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Has anyone experienced so much love for someone that you're always angry at them for the littlest things? For example, my bf and I fight alot more now b/c we are sooo attached to eachother. He says that he doesn't realize how much he loves me because every stupid thing that I do (no matter how small - like ignoring him and being in my own world) bothers him and hurts him soooo much. I mean, I wouldn't care and wouldn't get angry if I hardly cared for the guy. Does immense love also produce such attention-cravers that if you don't get it, you feel hurt and insecure?

2006-10-20 03:54:38 · 4 answers · asked by Jenna S 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 03:54:34 · 5 answers · asked by Tina C 1 in Singles & Dating