This lady ask me to model for her clothing store, this is the first time I am doing this modeling thing, and the show is next Sunday and there is going to be a lot of people coming and for one person it is $50.00, my bf always use to tell me to do it, know last week I ask him to take me to rehearsal he really didn’t want to take me I didn’t know were the place was, that was the reason I couldn’t do it my self. anyway after I got mad and all that he took me, and for the actual seen i don’t know if he is going to go? He is probably going to say no and I am going to need someone to take me there, I am just mad because one min he said its good, know he is saying that he doesn’t want to go, do I have a right to get mad, if that was him doing it I will be so happy I will love to go see him, but he really doesn’t want to come and see me what should I do guys?? he just doesn’t try to make me happy at all like when ever I see him I go to his house and we **** he doesn’t want to take me out to eat or movies I mean I need to be strong BUT I DON’T HOW ?? I alwys thing like o he is going to get mad I just don’t want to make him mad but I am not happy I NEED TO BE STRONG BUT I DOANT KNOW HOW???
2006-10-20 04:01:59 · 11 answers · asked by sweet84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Learn how to type first of all. Second of all you need to ask a question that could be understood by everyone so that they could answer it. Third of all, who gives a damn?
2006-10-20 04:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by Blake H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are genuanly unhappy, you need to tell him. There are some cases in life where it is impossible to spare the other persons feelings by some manipulation of words. Do not worry about him being mad, things like this happen in a relationship which is why it is good to just put everything out on to the table. Try asking him how he really feels about the modeling gig, he might not be happy about it at all and possibly a little jealous. Just try talking to him and getting everything out in the open.
2006-10-20 04:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend you need to get independent if he doesn't want to take you fine.. Bugger him just do it on your own!! you can do it!! Just prepare a back up plan so that if he doesn't want to take you then fine you go on your own!! You need to just jump on a bus walk do whatever you have to!! never let anyone have that control of your life ever you need to know that you are worth more than all the gold and silver in the whole world. God has an amazing plan fo your life!! You cannot just sit back and wait for someone to feel like taking you somewhere.You need to get up and go get whatever it is that you've ever dreamed of having by yourself you need to and you can!!! And you won't be the first I can tell you this!! There are millions of people that had to do what they had to to fulfill there dreams lots of pain and suffering is required to have great success.
You can choose the easy root and just sit back and wait for everything to come to you and wait for your bf to decide that he feels like taking you somewhere or you can do it yourself!
If you feel like a movie..then go and watch a movie by yourself you need to become more independent it is vital in order to keep your soul alive. You need to be positive and always picture yourself being this strong great and successful person and you will become it.As you thinkith so you becometh!!!
Learn to Love yourself and fullfill your dreams put yourself first!!! You can live an ordinary life or an extra ordinary life its all up to you and the choices you make... You are capable of anything in this world!! Absolutely anything you just need to put in a bit of hard work and dedication and faith and it will all happen I can promise you this on my life!! Just give it a go!! You are defintely worth it and by far more than capable!
2006-10-20 04:16:10 · answer #3 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only going to get worse hun. if he isn't doing anything or taking you anywhere any more, he is starting to want to control you. Don't let it happen. Do you want to be just his piece of *** or sex toy?..He'll get to a point where all you'll be good for is to deposit his c*um then go about his business. I've seen it happen a handful of times and this is how it starts. If he wants you he will care...sounds to me like he doesn't. Does that make you strong enough? to be strong or end up his little J*izz bucket? Because if you allow things to continue this way...that's all you'll be.
2006-10-20 04:11:52 · answer #4 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard-
I felt the answer in my heart
Although He spoke no word!
I didn't ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn't mind)-
I asked Him to send you treasures
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He'd be near you
At the start of each new day
To grant you health and blessings
And my friendship to share your way!
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small-
But it was for His loving care
I prayed the most of all!
By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra
2006-10-20 04:06:48 · answer #5 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to be strong is by taking steroids.
Taking steroids and lifting weights.
Then you can be strong like Randy "Macho Man" Savage!
2006-10-20 04:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. grammar. complete sentences.
Maybe he had something else to do other than take you to whatever. Why can't you just look it up on mapquest and drive yourself? Or get your parents to take you? Why does he have to? Just chill out. Break up with him, it'll be better for him. He's right.
2006-10-20 04:15:42 · answer #7 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like it the relationship isnt based on much other than sex. i think you need a new boyfriend. a long term relationship will never stand if its only recognised in the bedroom.
2006-10-20 04:07:42 · answer #8 · answered by barn cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just wants you to learn to be more independent.
2006-10-20 04:09:24 · answer #9 · answered by salut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's spelled out loud and clear for you- HE IS A JERK. dump him.
2006-10-20 04:06:56 · answer #10 · answered by thehelper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋