the one that lives here in the states is so cute but he has a girlfriend. doesnt mean the have to stay together.he also flirts with me all the time. the other one over seas he is so nice, not really my type on the looks,but he is really nice and funny. he wants to come here, well we both plan on him coming here. but i cant get the other one out of my mind. what do i do???? help!!!!!
2006-10-20 03:55:57 · 5 answers · asked by amanda n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Flip a coin.
2006-10-20 03:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
People mistake or confuse likeness/crush/infatuation with love. You can't love two people at the same time, never. Besides, you said that the one with you already has a grilfriend so why even bother with him when he won't leave his girl for you.
The other guy is coming to see you, but is it for a holiday or for a stay. If its for a holiday, move on and if its for a stay, it all depends if the feelings are mutual.
If you still want to eat your cake and have it, then its your funeral but to have a fool-proof plan, draw up a scale of advantages and disadvantages for each guy, the one that has the most advantages and least disadvantages is the winner. But remember, no-one has everything/perfection. But in the end, its you who has to decide.
2006-10-20 11:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is I am in the same situation, but it's deeper than yours. My ex and I had a dtr. 3years ago he left to go across seas adn didn't want to be a responsible parent. He came for a visit in April when our dtr. turned 3 saw her and decided that he wants to be a daddy now. In the meantime, befor eI found out about his feelings, I have a great man in my life who loves me and I love to death. He is MR.RIGHT!!! Now the complicating part is how do I tell my ex I definitely want to move on adn not talk to him???See? I told you I am in the same boat as you. My guess is, you will choose who is best for you. Who not only makes you happy, but who is also willing to be with you. The one here sounds like a potential booty call if he has a girlfriend. Good Luck!
2006-10-20 11:07:23 · answer #3 · answered by DispatchGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well forget the one w/ a gf! If he flirts w/ you and he's w/ someone then he's a dog! go for the other
2006-10-20 10:59:58 · answer #4 · answered by traci s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
need to make up ur damn mind gurl....
2006-10-20 10:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by jaxxie1982 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋