this is really something im having a lot of trouble thinking about.
bascially to cut a long story short, someone sent a letter to my house.addressed to my dad and not written in english.but in my other language which i do not know how to read or write.my dad didnt open it my mum did.it bascially said to my dad that im [his daughter] and my name was written, i am going around with some guy and it named most of the places we apprently went to.it says ive ben to his house, the west end and along with few other places.the letter was almost detailed account fo what i did.and the worse thing is how does this person happen to turn up at all these places and whats it got to do with this person.if sone one is so concerend about my whereabouts, wouldnt normal people just come up to and talk to me, or even tell my dad face to face, why write a anonymous letter im really shcoked.......im 21 for gods sake and i wasnt even doing anything wrong....how dare this person who i have no idea who it is, why are they doing this.dont otehr people do this.i know a million people go to a kmillion places everyday i just cant see why this happened to me.the letter bascially said that my dad should have more control of me and that i was going out with some bloke [and i shouldnt be...]letter said that my paretns are really good peole and how cold i bring a bad name to them,/it was writeen in a sympathetic tone towards my father but that would obviously make it look believable.
the letter said i didnt want to tell you to your face as it would embarses my dad
but writiing a letter? that wouldnt make it worse?how could someone be so cunning...i just dont get it..why someone would do it....wouldnt writing a letter cause more grief?
AND APPenrently everyone is talking about me....probly saying `oh look at so and sos daughter the slag` even though i am not.....
im sscared as someone might be follwing me or i have no idea whats going on....its making my life a nightmare.....
whats going on
i havent showed my dad yet mum said it may cuase more bad than good...what shall i do...
2006-10-20 03:56:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you ask me it is someone who wants to go out with u ... i mean is there somebody who asked u out and u rejected ?? It might be someone who wants you to stop going out with that particular person ... Or maybe someone who wants to go with HIM and is going ways to make u stop going out with him ?? The only reason could be jealousy I guess
The Best thing would be to tell the police ..
Good Luck
2006-10-20 04:18:41 · answer #1 · answered by venus_mir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the letter to your local police, have your mother go with you. Ask for some assistance and tell them that the letter is proof that someone is following you around. Keep an eye in the mirrors of your car when you are out and about. Be watchful to who may be following you. Its not hard, just look for same cars, or look for a face you see WAY to often. This could even be a friend, or an ex boyfriend, so be watchful for who pops up in your life that you haven't seen or had anything to do with in a long while. Please be safe, and keep your eyes and ears open for anything that may let you know who is or has been following you. Please, take the letter down to the police and report it now. BLessed be.
2006-10-20 11:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like someone is obsessed with you and is making it out to be something when it's not. It also sounds to me like this person really wants you for himself since he is writing the letter in such a sympathetic tone to make it seem like you are not being safe. I would start with the police. the next time you find a letter like that...DON'T TOUCH IT. use some latex gloves to handle the letter. you will need the fingerprints to trace who this letter is coming from so that you can get a restraining order (if this persists to that point).
2006-10-20 11:01:25 · answer #3 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I can tell you off bat it was a girl who wrote this if you dont have a crazy ex boyfriend then it was definitly a girl. She is trying to get you into promblems with your parents and get you scared and mad and try and keep you at home. The same thing happen to my friend this girl sent a letter to her mom's house saying she smoked weed and it wasnt even true but it did start promblems we found out who it was and it ended up being a good friend. So becareful and investigate and try to get to the bottom of this. GoodLuck
2006-10-20 11:04:35 · answer #4 · answered by lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think thats a little bit Creepy with a capital c. I think you should tell the police. Trust me have stalkers isnt good. Lets just say if you ever come to texas, dont go to alvord football games
2006-10-20 11:07:58 · answer #5 · answered by AskingAlexandria_91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somebody that knows you is obviously doing it to get you into trouble. You have to think who it could be. Do you have an ex boyfriend that could be doing it ? Did some guy at school ask you out and you turned them down ? Are there any girls you have problems with ? Somebody is trying to get you into trouble.
2006-10-20 11:01:57 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show it to the police, stalking is a serious crime.
2006-10-20 11:00:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋