O.K so I'm in 7th grade there's this girl in 6th grade and she likes me a lot and she thinks i like her and im sick of her bugging me... but i dont want to hurt her feelings... any advice on how to tell this gril i'm not interested?!?! HELP!!???!?!?!?
2006-10-20 04:03:04 · 8 answers · asked by Schkitzboy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well being as young as you all are it's hard to tell her you're not interested without hurting her, although I commend your effort. Just tell her that while her attention flatters you, you are not interested in her that way.
2006-10-20 04:06:16 · answer #1 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're a sweetheart. Stay that way. As for this situation, just tell her that she's nice, but you're not interested in being anything but friends. You may hurt her feelings a little or she may be dramatic about it, but this is truly the best way to let someone know. If you play games, it just gets really messed up.
2006-10-20 12:18:13 · answer #2 · answered by Kelly S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should jsut mayb talk to her a lil bitt. tell her she is a really nice girl and all but just not quite ur type. say that u might b interested in another girl at the time. and mayb in a lil while u will b interested in her. u neva know. i used to b in ur situation. except it was a boi and i was in teh 7th grade with u. but now i am dating the love of my life. mind u i am only in the 9th grade. keep strong lil bro.
2006-10-20 11:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by <3Kiira<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was your age we passed notes by giving it to our best friend to pass along. Write, "You are a nice girl but please don't bug me anymore because I don't want to date you. Your friend,...." There is no way to get around hurting her feelings a little, she's a sixth grader for goodness sake! She'll get over it, believe me, and grow up some in the process.
2006-10-20 11:07:53 · answer #4 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is really no way that you can do this with out hurting her but if u dont like her jus tell her and get it over with
2006-10-20 11:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by hugeflirt4eva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your mom makes you be friends with a girl for six months before you can"date" and every time she calls have your mom or dad make you get off the phone or just tell your school counselor and she can give you advice
2006-10-20 11:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by csaw3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u need to be patent. when the time is right ask her nicely to back off tell her you just want to be freinds.and nothing further.
2006-10-20 11:06:06 · answer #7 · answered by ~Debbie~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be nice and tell her that you just want to be friends! Just be nice.
2006-10-20 11:12:30 · answer #8 · answered by shorti241 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋