Family & Relationships - 18 October 2006

What are some fun things we can do together (besides sex, haha)? We usually don't have much time to spend together (we have different work schedules) but when we do have time to spend together we cant come up with anything fun to do.

Any ideas? Thanks!

I'm 31 weeks pregnant, so keep that in mind! ;)

2006-10-18 06:15:51 · 12 answers · asked by Huliganjetta 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

i need help im bout to the point of depression because of hering it so many times it kinda hurts

2006-10-18 06:15:44 · 26 answers · asked by purplegrimreper 1 in Singles & Dating

okay i am 19 female. the man i am currently with is 32 but he looks and acts like a 25 yr old. i care about him alot but every1 is telling me he is useing me because i have no kids and i can leave without responcibilitys (cant spell) he tells me all the time he dosnt want to hurt me. and i no he is still in love with his ex and now there accually talking agian and im worried. i care about him alot and he says he is just "used goods" to her. i just dont no what to do i was planning on getting an apartment with him and everything but now im scared. we have sop much in common we both are startrek geeks and we listen to the same music and he makes me happy and he claims i make him happy.

2006-10-18 06:15:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 06:14:30 · 19 answers · asked by LisandraT 1 in Family

and.....WHen is the right time to say "I love you"? Is there a certain amount of time that you have to be with someone before u say it?? HELP!

2006-10-18 06:14:21 · 15 answers · asked by calibeauty3698 2 in Singles & Dating

My gf and I have been together for over 16 months and I know that I love her. However there are times she just I am not sure how to say it but for lack of gentlier words she aggrivatews me to know end. It doesn't make me love her less but during these times i just need time to myself. Is there something wrong with me I mean am I a horrible bf or what. I mean she always makes me feel great and I love being with her but she does have some bad habits lol at east that is what i call it. oh yeah and she yells alot without realizing it. The worst thing she does is if we get in a fight she will yell and scream and chew me out but if i raise my voice at her she tells me that she will not listen to anyone yelling at her because they have no right to yell at her. What is with that? Imean if i can't yell why does she. Anyway I don't suppse it is any big deal but it gets to me sometimes. i guess I am just needing to see how bad of a guy I really aam? so girls if you can help me please do.

2006-10-18 06:13:43 · 10 answers · asked by shycountryboy85 3 in Singles & Dating

my parents are going away on a trip for about a month, and I'm dying to go on an island and spend probably 3-4 days on my own. the things is i want to be alone and fear that my siblings will squeal on me! this will be the only opportunity for me and I'll be using my own money to go diving and just hang out at the beach. i think instictively my parents are aware of my plan but I won't tell anyone in my family about it. Is it wrong and why do i have that feeling that something bad gonna happen but I will be careful though! wonder what u'll think if you were my parents?

2006-10-18 06:13:24 · 7 answers · asked by Shasha 3 in Family

i was needing some advice about my daughter, she is 16 and will be 17 in april. she is really disruptive to my family and to me, she is always getting into trouble wont mind anything we say hates her brother and we have had it. i am considering letting her move in with her fathers sister next summer however, her father is a horrible drunk and i am not really wanting her around that enviroment but at the same time she will be 17 and will most likely go there when she is 18. any suggestions please no smart *** answers.

2006-10-18 06:13:17 · 11 answers · asked by jaada2000 2 in Family

She continues to buy her way in or keep her way in by doing elaborate things like throw a bridal shower for her former sister in law and not invite me to it. The ex-wife continues to give my boyfriends sister gifts from the divorce that once belonged to them. Boyfriends sister will lie about where the items came from to spare me or him any hurt feelings. Is this normal behavior, or is this something to look forward to in my relationship with him. I have told her to back off and my boyfriend has told her when you divorce you also divorce the family. She doesnt seem to get a clue. I have to attend the sisters wedding this weekend and I am feeling very uncomfortable because the ex is going to be there. In case your wondering yes, there is a child but the child is not a factor in this. She investigates what I do or where I am working, and tries to kill me with kindness, by calling me hun on the phone. I have told her I I feel about her numerous times. Do I go to the wedding????

2006-10-18 06:12:19 · 7 answers · asked by jammiep67 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 06:12:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

imed this guy the other day & we talked just for a little bit & he asked me if I wanted to have fun tonight & he was talking about sex because a little bit later after he asked if I wanted to have sex with him & so now I blocked him because I'm not into that stuff & I already really like someone but my friend likes talking to guys.
Should I give my friend his screen name???
Why??? Or Why Not???
Should I Ask Her If She Wants It 1st???

I would give her it because I know that she's looking for a guy to get to know & maybe even be with.

2006-10-18 06:11:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-18 06:11:11 · 6 answers · asked by Linda H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-18 06:10:43 · 26 answers · asked by jenny64093 1 in Marriage & Divorce

was seeing a guy from the past for a month ,,things were going great.he has 15 yr old daughter from previous relationship,went to visit her over weekend(she lives with the mom's parents)at her grandparents;the mother of the child has now deciced to leave her husband and move here and all the sudden he is gong to give things a second chance;said this was hi "first love" blah blah...he was SO great to me,,i really enjoyed his company ,,he was spending tremendous attention and time on and with me,,,i feel cheated,,,EVERYTHING WAS SO GREAT... do u think he will be back and what is really going on...all i know is that it hurts...

2006-10-18 06:10:42 · 3 answers · asked by jenifer w 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 06:09:56 · 3 answers · asked by slavewhippingbitch 1 in Singles & Dating

Think about this situation,
You have begun new realitonship with new friend. But one day your ex-boyfirend/ ex-girlfriend call you and She/he want to date again with you. She/he said you. "I love you too much and I can't do anything without you" what will dou?
Will you date with ex-friend or refuse your friend.
What is your preference.
Please Give me your Mind.

2006-10-18 06:09:54 · 4 answers · asked by PhotoARTist 3 in Singles & Dating

My sister's friend named Amy always' asks me to go to church with them on Wednesday nights & she won't stop asking & she's alway's like come on come with us & I don't like it.
I'm not supposed to go there because its for teenagers & I'm not a teenager anymore & she knows this I have told her but she said that she asked if I could go & they said yes but I don't really want to & I don't want to say no etheir because she will just keep begging me to go.
And whenever she asks me & begs me to go my parents hear it & they keep telling me to go & than they also won't stop.
What should I do????

2006-10-18 06:09:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband was emotionally abusing me for the last few years until i met someone else. When he found out, he started being really nice. So i made the decision to make my marriage work. My lover, who is married as well, and i broke up because of this. Now, my husband is back to his abusive self..often giving excuses for his behaviour that i cheated which made him return to his old self. He keeps bringing my affair up even though we both agreed to leave it behind us and try again. I have 2 beautiful kids. what should I do? I am thinking of leaving him...

2006-10-18 06:08:32 · 38 answers · asked by angelheart 2 in Marriage & Divorce

in a nut shell i didnt have a great childhood...i had the abcense of fatherly love....so as soon as a male showed me the littlest bit of love and attention i grabbed on to him and never let go...i feel like i used him as a crutch in the beginning to fill that missing space in my life...i am now still with the same guy going on 4 1/2 years...i know he loves me to death as do i love him....he has become much more then a crutch like it started.i put my all into our relationship and sometimes i feel he doesn't care as much as i do. I have been insecure forever, i guess since my stepfather has made me feel worthless since i can remeber back but i tend to take out my hurts of the past on my boyfriend. since i haven't been told how beautiful and special i am to someone until my bf came along, i think sometimes i dont believe it when he says it...i get very mad when i catch him with porn, or looking at other girls when im with him,i just feel that my confidence is killing us sometimes..help

2006-10-18 06:08:30 · 7 answers · asked by Life....it blows! 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am always the one who asks if we are having ice cream. I'd feel better about eating it, if she suggested it. Maybe I should buy different flavors?

2006-10-18 06:08:16 · 10 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-18 06:07:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 06:07:15 · 16 answers · asked by BD 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

assume it was a one night kind of thing and the friend has no feelings for him.
it also happened BEFORE you had a date with the guy.
whats the verdict.

2006-10-18 06:06:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

HE DOESN'T TRUST ME. HE ACCUSES ME OF THINGS ALL THE TIME. HE WATCHES OVER ME TO MUCH.

2006-10-18 06:06:55 · 30 answers · asked by inspiredguidence21 1 in Weddings

I have friends that are so very different from eachother. They are all great friends, just different in their upbringing or the way that they carry themselves. I could not really see all of them hang out together, but I get along with all of them. Some are older, younger, rich, not so rich, bikers and some are just into their kids rather than going out on the town. Is this normal? I act the same for the most part when I am with them, we just do different things when we are together. Some I go out to bars with and others just go to the mall and have dinners. I just wanted to see how normal this was.

2006-10-18 06:04:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i feel so lonely when home alone

2006-10-18 06:04:33 · 10 answers · asked by schleichercbob 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm the maid of honor, and I know the things I would like to say, but is there a certain format or order that things should be said? How long should the speech be? Do I have to give a speech at all? HELP!

2006-10-18 06:04:26 · 9 answers · asked by HotK 1 in Weddings

In order to continue any relationship with my 30 year old son, who just recently married, I have to not trust what he says and pretend to be his family, when in truth I have lost all respect for him. I've always been supportive and keep out of his business at the same time. I've been a good mother and person. I still will, but without the love that he has taken for granted. How sad. Question: How can I continue through this hurt and have closure. Any ideas?

2006-10-18 06:04:17 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

this guy that i have been meeting..sometimes when we r just sitting there in his car he will slowly caress my lips with his fingers..slide his fingers over my lips..and i would take his finger in my mouth sometimes n bite it..is wat hes doing a sign of lust and attraction? and how else can i seduce him..

2006-10-18 06:04:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Wapakoneta high school and Wapakoneta, OH middle school

2006-10-18 06:03:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends