does he have feelings as i do?

Question

was seeing a guy from the past for a month ,,things were going great.he has 15 yr old daughter from previous relationship,went to visit her over weekend(she lives with the mom's parents)at her grandparents;the mother of the child has now deciced to leave her husband and move here and all the sudden he is gong to give things a second chance;said this was hi "first love" blah blah...he was SO great to me,,i really enjoyed his company ,,he was spending tremendous attention and time on and with me,,,i feel cheated,,,EVERYTHING WAS SO GREAT... do u think he will be back and what is really going on...all i know is that it hurts...

Answer 1

oh jenifer i truly feel for you but even though you two relationship was going good all this time he still had his first love in the backl of his mind he was not over her by a long shot he was just waiting for the right time to go baack to her not saying he did't have feelings for but he was in love with this women and the relationship was very special and the thing i hate was that he got into a relationship with you knowing he was not ready and now you have feelings for him makes it all so difficult to let go because that's what you need to do and i know it hurts but you have to go on with your life you will find someone that feels the same way you feel about him trust me just take it very slow next and talk alot about their past good luck every thing will be alright.

Answer 2

Just get over him. I know it is hard but men these days can be such pricks and not care about anybody else's feelings but their own. I am really sorry to hear about this a$$hole... Hope you meet a better guy.

Answer 3

you got to be strong and just have faith because if it's meant to be he'll come back and in the mean time just be there for him as a friend he just might need your support.