Family & Relationships - 18 October 2006

Do you realise just what your dealing with!!?? lol

2006-10-18 00:22:55 · 15 answers · asked by Susie2 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex boyfriend is really quiet and i need answers. i can't get answers from him so is it okay for me to talk to his best friend who im also friends with about our relationship. i guess this guy is the next best thing to my ex boyfriend and if i can get answers from him then is it ok?

2006-10-18 00:22:48 · 6 answers · asked by pOppY 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This would be like a nightmare situation, if it is true.

I live in Long Beach, Ca (near L.A. area).

I go to California State University of Long Beach.

On there, I see lots of guys are so desparate to just have a girlfriend.

Plus to that, many people are very sensitively protective about losing his girlfriends to the other guys, and you gotta believe me, there is like a tension (I bet you see what I am describing here).

As you know, Long Beach is not a ghetto city at all. In fact, Long Beach is one of the richest cities in California.

I don't understand why this is happening.

Is it because there are more men, but less female?

What do you think?

2006-10-18 00:22:45 · 5 answers · asked by davegesprek 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this girl from poland but things are difficult with her some days she'll flirt with me and the next she'll ignore me i tired to tell her how i feel but she said it was all to much for her i just don't understand,anyone else can relate to me i'd like to hear from you.

2006-10-18 00:21:49 · 18 answers · asked by dom23ipswich 1 in Singles & Dating

I have worked my butt of for this woman and she wants to take my kids and all she has to say to me is that she is sorry she hurt me. I dont understand how a woman could do this and want to move herself and my kids to another state and ask for me to fill the bill. Do you women understand where she is comming from because i sure dont. I feel let the reson shes leaving pay for it. I.E another man, family or whatever i dont really care about that. I am tryin to do this without fighting but i can not just lie there and help her destroy me. Money is no issue to me but its the fact that she slaps me in the face with this and then askes for me to pay for everything. I already had given her everything through our marriage and everything through our separation she has it all..... What should i do??? should i bury her in court or kiss her A**. all i see from that is getting a mouth full of shi*????

2006-10-18 00:21:16 · 10 answers · asked by Joe B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Like me sometimes?

2006-10-18 00:20:38 · 18 answers · asked by Hidden 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 00:20:29 · 11 answers · asked by Sugar 1 in Singles & Dating

we were arguing...actually we been arguing mostly now...and i dont like arguing i just go quite because i dont want to meet his anger...he gets so mad of it...i wanna tell him how and what i think without yelling back to him...i want it civil way...but he seems to have a great temper when he gets mad at me...i feel like if either way we would still gonna have a great arguments that will end hurting each other....now he feel that i dont really love him he said i have another man and i **** in him...and throw all my faluts in mistakes in relationship...well all i done was just to be a good gf...i been so honest and faithful to him and i have done nothing wrong against his pride...i am trying to be everything for him but he dont seems to see that...what should i do...i have seen how he can be when he gets mad...its so scary if ever we get married...i want to help him...he say his in a medication of deppression because of our situation...we live half way around the world...

2006-10-18 00:18:52 · 12 answers · asked by ToxoTes 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 00:17:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Dont mix the 2.Cant you love 1 person and also have sex with many many others.Why dont women understand this?

2006-10-18 00:15:45 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ten points to the best answer... guaranteed. Thanks to all who take the time to answer.

2006-10-18 00:14:32 · 16 answers · asked by Mike S 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-18 00:13:42 · 22 answers · asked by secretsofthe end 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Last week my nan banned me from going iceskating after i came in really late. I really need to convince her ive changed but i need to do more than that. Dont suggest cooking her a meal because i cant cook!

2006-10-18 00:12:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Why do you think if I told him to wait until Saturday or Sunday for my messages he can't wait? He has to send about 7 messages to my IM..I told him I love him but I need to think what I want to tell him more so wait until Sat...why can't he wait? He is 14 going on 15.

2006-10-18 00:11:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Hello, can you kindly help. Me and my boyfriend have always been loved up... we were so close..but due to my mad habit of throwing tantrums he would get upset with me but never backed away.. Until one week when he was working long hours and had no time to chat on the phone... I would argue he said he'd make it up to me on the weekend. However the Friday I argued so much and told him i didn’t want him...... he had been at work for 24hours and thus did not retaliate he said ok fine its over!!! What I was like NO NO I didn’t mean that. He said sorry no second chance.... what!! So we didn’t chat for like 4days I called n sent txt – no response. I was having heartache thus went to visit him, at his parents Big mistake.. we argued again. now it’s been two weeks and we haven’t spoken... he hasn’t called n nor have I. what should I do???? I really want him back..Our relationship was beautiful!! It’s my birthday on Monday and am hoping he will call then... but if he doesn’t I will brake down!!!

2006-10-18 00:10:47 · 14 answers · asked by apple 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has his own place yet he is still paying all the bills of his ex and his young son. He goes over there 4 times a week to visit with his son and is still doing work on his house. He says he's having a hard time because of his son and is afraid if he makes her sell the house she'll move away with his son. He is still doing upgrades to the house and doesn't seem on a rush to settle things.

When I approach him he begs me to wait as he's going to settle things. He says he's considering giving her the house so that she won't move away with their son. He's great when we're together but usually distant after coming from the house. Seperated only 5 months.

I have tried to break it off several times yet he keeps making promises and I'm a sucker as all our mutual friends want to see us together (they don't openly know we're seeing each other). I can't see other people as he gets jealous and knows all my hangouts.

I am frustrated and he won't leave me alone.Help me please

2006-10-18 00:10:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Does it mean that they can't find it? Did they try looking under the couch cushions, that's where I always lose stuff.

Maybe if they retrace their steps they will find it!

2006-10-18 00:08:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does it really help things?
Me and my fiance have been together for nealy 4 yrs and we have a beautiful baby girl.
We have been through a lot since we had the baby. I had post natal depression, things like that.
Now our sex life is totally gone. We argue constantly. Sometimes I feel like i just need a break from us.
He thinks if we take a break then it will ruin us.
I dont i want to go and find another man or anything, just time to be with me and my child.

We have been speaking about it today, and i think hes starting to agree. But now because he is starting to agree, im feeling really emmotional :o(

I think taking a break will help us not to take each other for granted?

Help please xx

2006-10-18 00:08:52 · 36 answers · asked by x !! Me !! x 2 in Weddings

Or anybody knows save oral medication to take and where to get it?
Helpp... Emergency situation!!!
Thanks!

2006-10-18 00:07:32 · 12 answers · asked by adlex 2 in Singles & Dating

i want to have some friends to speak with and my id is taj_mah_allen007@yahoo.co.in , taj_mah_allen@yahoo.com and be_cool_man_963@hotmail .com.

2006-10-18 00:05:24 · 4 answers · asked by Ahad 1 in Friends

Can anybody please tell me what they think the "unspoken rule" is between friends. ie whats acceptable and whats not with regards to fellas, ex fellas kissing fellas etc.

2006-10-18 00:05:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing my girlfriend claire for just over 3 months and think the world of her....but i dont think it will work

We have many differences - i live the other side of town and apart from my job i have a lot of spare time - she is busy constantly with college work, coursework, other work, friends and family - i see her only once a week because basically i am at the back of the list, which i dont mind but all things considered, we are very different, although we have never said a harsh word to each other which is a good thing i try so hard to make conversation with her, but she is always tired or stressed out with other pressures.

I told her how i felt the other day which made her start crying - i couldnt bring myself to dump her outright, i would really hate to hurt her because she is a great girl - just not right for me.

Im out of ideas....any thoughs?

2006-10-18 00:05:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I told him You are my best lover ever and he was so madly enraged.I'm confused

2006-10-18 00:03:13 · 20 answers · asked by Amy Lee J 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to protect my heart which is why i play hard to get, but at the same time i wonder if i push the good girls away. Also if doing this can weed out the bad ones. I hear that women are turned off by men who are needy or clingy. so by me playing hard to get i don't show this weekness i have of being needy or clingy.

2006-10-18 00:01:18 · 8 answers · asked by smurf 1 in Singles & Dating