Family & Relationships - 18 October 2006

I'm not only scared but i feel like i wasnt there for her, shes more like family than just a friend, i consider her a sister and it scares me to no end, i dont know what to do or say to her and i feel helpless. Even though she was the one who cut herself, i feel the pain too because she's not only hurting herself but me too. What can i do or say to help her, she seems really withdrawn and i feel like its my fault even though ive always told her to call me. Im not trying to make this a me situation, but the pain she inflicts physically on herself hurts me emotional and mentally because i wasn't there to stop her and i feel like i', losing my friendship with her too and i dont wantthat to happen. Weve been best friends for five years and i feel that when i leave for college she might start again and completely drop me as a friend

2006-10-18 03:02:50 · 17 answers · asked by swimgirl14456 1 in Friends

2006-10-18 03:00:38 · 10 answers · asked by simon_johnstone_1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i liked a guy that has no experience in dating.he liked me also.but recently he said he doesn't have the love feelings for me already.but i still like him.i would like to wait for him cuz i thin it's worth a try to date him if i can. i feel that he will be a really good bf to me.we can communicate very easily also.we feel happy and comforable with each other when we like each other the time.so how should i do now?how to get him back? i really need help!!

2006-10-18 03:00:31 · 5 answers · asked by samantha k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my Husband both are busy people, we dont spend much time together.
When we do he is moody. I dont know what is wronge with him.we have only been married 1 year.
I just want him to be in love with me again.
Any sugestions?

2006-10-18 03:00:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What do you do if you just can't go for more than two weeks without sex and your GF can only see you once in a while, Say once a month.

2006-10-18 03:00:08 · 14 answers · asked by Elsalsis 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I've met this guy about 8 months ago,we were together in one class but nothing happened at this time. Now i've change my looks(i used my hair loose before i used to wear it in a pony tail all the time), we found each other in another class, he speaks to me(mostly about things of school), helps me with hwork, i don't know if he has a gf, the other day i asked for help by sms and he called me!!, he also touched my hair. i enjoy that but i don't know what to do? do you think he likes me? how can i tell? how can i tell him that i like him too, with physical gestures or words?. thanks.

2006-10-18 02:59:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anne Greco 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 02:58:42 · 8 answers · asked by Ralph Dera 1 in Friends

For young adults (16-20) to stay with their boyfriends/girlfriends and have it work out to where their still together 5-10 years down the road and happy??

2006-10-18 02:58:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Couple is not married and they were planning to move to the boyfriend's home state, Florida, next year. However, they hate a serious love/hate relationship and they have a small child. It seems as if they're staying together primarily because of the child.

What do you think?

2006-10-18 02:57:51 · 20 answers · asked by 11:11 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you think your ex will tell them?

2006-10-18 02:57:06 · 18 answers · asked by qbanita0113 4 in Singles & Dating

if he walks in the room I get upset, but when I see all the wedding stuff I get excited again. Am I putting too much into the 'wedding' and ignoring him? UGH................

2006-10-18 02:55:19 · 15 answers · asked by ~2Sxy4u!~ 4 in Weddings

of your son (or daughter) on their wedding day? It's been really tough for me to "give up" my son--even though I love my future d-i-l. Would you share your stories? Or tell me if there's something wrong with me!

2006-10-18 02:55:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Hi! I have a girl in my school, who I used to have classes with but now don't. I've always liked her. I have found that we're hanging out more and more and today I kinda found my legs around hers (sounds weird I know, heres a really bad picture http://tinyurl.com/ykflng ). My hand was also on her left knee. Now, I know girls have "their space" and I probably went past it but a little after one of my friends came up and gave her a shoulder massage (although she kept telling me it was bad). I also started walking her home (for no particular reason, really) which I don't mind. Now I'm at home I can't seem to keep my mind off her....I don't know why.

2006-10-18 02:54:58 · 4 answers · asked by Black Flame 1 in Singles & Dating

A number of years ago, I was living with a girlfriend who was ticklish on only one part of her body, the side of her neck. If we were embracing, and I tried to kiss her on the side of the neck, she would start squealing.

One morning, we woke up. I rolled over on top of her, held her down, and started licking her neck. She was hysterical with laughter, and I thought it was great fun.

If you were considering going out with me, would knowing I did this make you more or less receptive to me?

2006-10-18 02:53:46 · 22 answers · asked by Allen Montgomery 2 in Singles & Dating

Recently my fiance and I had to move in with his sister until we can close on our house and move into it. There's another girl that lives with his sister that has two kids. I told my fiance before we moved there that I didn't want him home alone with that other girl because his brother said he was going to "hook my fiance up with her". Well, I've seen my fiance checking her out and he's getting close to her kids even though he doesn't want to have kids with me right now. Should I feel wierd about all of this?

2006-10-18 02:53:05 · 19 answers · asked by sundragonjess 5 in Singles & Dating

If youre unhappy in a relationship but everytime you try to leave your spouse attempts suicide what do you do?

2006-10-18 02:52:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

"why does my wife hate me?"

2006-10-18 02:51:57 · 26 answers · asked by jeremy k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-18 02:51:18 · 23 answers · asked by muppet 4 in Singles & Dating

I finally ended things with my separated boyfriend after a year and a half. He finally told me that he wanted to work things out with his wife but I could still move in with him. I told him I didn't want to ruin his life or any chance he has with his wife, so I wouldn't move in.

I am packing up the rest of my belongings today. I was supposed to be moving in with him tomorrow, but will begin the long drive home instead.

My heart is still hurting and I am writing this instead of writing or calling him. This is the hardest thing I've had to do. In my gut, I know that it's right, but I can't stop wondering about him.

So, tell me why I should drive home tomorrow and never look back.

2006-10-18 02:50:32 · 32 answers · asked by torn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Or are you completely satisfied with your current spouse? Do you ever wonder what if I had stayed with ***** how different my life would be?

2006-10-18 02:50:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Can anyone please help me. He cant go back home as his wife had a affair, should he be going to the hostel?

2006-10-18 02:50:01 · 23 answers · asked by Caasi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He owns property. I don't. I have a car payment. He doesn't. I bring home over $800 per week, including my child support from my girls' dad. He brings home about $500 per week, after paying his child support. My two girls live with us full time, his three boys live with us 50% of the time. We agreed that what he had before our marriage is his (and his children's), and I signed away my rights of ownership on our house (after an argument), since that was the only way he would agree to stay together. I am trying to be understanding, but now I am not willing to pool our money together, since...if he decides to "put me out", he will have the house, and the account would be in both of our names...so I will be up the creek. I want to know what others have done. I want to keep things together. I know that as time passes, he will get over his "baggage" from his first marriage, and we will be able to operate "as one".

2006-10-18 02:49:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my husband go around in circles and have the same fight over and over again. The fight is not over something major, but it turns into an exagerated fight. I think we do this because when we try to talk to eachother about this subject (spending quality time with eachother) it doesn't get resolved because we fight about it instead of talking. Therefor, we don't get the matter resolved because when we start fighting we get tired and push the issue to the side, so it can rear it's ugly head at another time.
My question- I was wondering if there is something I can do to better my communication skills with him? I get the feeling that maybe I am attacking him whith questions, or maybe I have the wrong timing, make sense? Please help

And serious answers only please, not ones like Get divorced or have an affair, I need opinions from everyone, married poeple perfferably, or people in exclusive relationships

2006-10-18 02:48:10 · 10 answers · asked by Dre 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-18 02:47:14 · 16 answers · asked by Latrice B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-18 02:46:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and there is nothing else in this world to eat you were the last thing well would you?

2006-10-18 02:46:23 · 20 answers · asked by chronic_master_bater 1 in Friends

he has a kid on the way and he wants to be with me but he as to take care of the baby wht do i do . he is also my x.

2006-10-18 02:45:44 · 11 answers · asked by TIGGER 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 02:45:14 · 11 answers · asked by Latrice B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Yesterday, I was on the phone with him, we were having a usual convo, laughing & having fun...Then he said "Let me call you back", I thought nothing of it and said ok. He called back, sounding really sad, I became worried. I never heard him so sad before and it hurt me. I asked him what was wrong, he wouldn't tell me. I left it alone, and we sat in silence,he kept sighing deeply from time to time, then he said he has 2 call me back again. I said ok. He called back and told me that his grandma just had to be rushed to the hospital. I never heard him cry before, and it sounded like he was, I started to cry too. It really hurt me to know that he's sad. He sid he doesn't know what he'll do if he loses her. I feel so awful... I told him to trust God and pray for his grandma, that God keeps, her. And to pray for himself and family too. He said he can't trust someone who's let him down so many times before...I jjust didn't know what to say. God is the only way to go, it's all up to him

2006-10-18 02:44:54 · 13 answers · asked by i ♥þîÑk☆ 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-18 02:44:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family