if he walks in the room I get upset, but when I see all the wedding stuff I get excited again. Am I putting too much into the 'wedding' and ignoring him? UGH................
2006-10-18 02:55:19 · 15 answers · asked by ~2Sxy4u!~ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I've been with my husband since I was 12 years old. I'm 25 now, so it's been a long time. We've been married for seven years and have 4 children. I understand your problem about not liking him right now. I love my husband very much, but at the same time, I hate him. I don't know how to explain it, it's just the way I feel, and I told him that. My advice to you is, put the wedding stuff aside and try to plan a romantic evening with him. Get your mind back on him, and remember why you two are getting married in the first place. Good luck!
2006-10-18 03:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very natural that at times we don't overly like our partners even though we continue to love them unconditionally. I have no idea what the poor fella did that has you upset with him, perhaps not taken on much to do with wedding preperation. Whatever, the fact is that this will continue long after your married and these feelings are quite normal. My fiance I know feels the same way about me at times but yet I know we love each other and there is nothing we would not do for each other, providing it is neither illegal or against our norms. Jitters are good and help you face the reality of marriage. Best of luck on your upcoming wedding and hopefully you aren't putting to much into the wedding and not enough into your relationship.
2006-10-18 03:06:52 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are excited about the wedding and not the MARRIAGE! Don't marry him if thats the way it is.... yeah the wedding will be a dream come true...but if the groom isnt, then what the heck are you doing?? Seems like you have a little more than just 'pre-wedding jitters'
2006-10-18 03:15:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that the wedding is just one day out of your life and that the marriage lasts a lifetime! Take a evening and spend it alone with your fiance, nothing could mean more then the two of you. I'm sure it is just wedding jitters. You love him but you are just stressed out from the wedding planning and part of it is his fault so you are blaming it on him! So, take a evening put the planning aside (forget that it even is there) and focus on the two of you! Believe me you will be glad that you did! I wish you the best in all that you do! Good luck and congratulations on your upcoming weddding.
2006-10-18 03:10:32 · answer #4 · answered by glitter3317 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is common to get emotional and aggitated before your wedding with all the planning, running around, etc. but to say that "you don't like him right now" throws up a huge red flag. It almost sounds like you are more in love with the idea of the wedding and getting married than you are with him. Are you sure you are doing the right thing...sounds like subconciously you are showing your true feelings....don't jump into something that you are unsure of and risk both of your happiness for the rest of your life.
2006-10-18 03:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by Stacy H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you might just be a little too stressed out. I know how that is cuz I've been feeling somewhat the same but I don't not like him, it's just that being stressed has caused me to get upset easily and I've had to learn to control myself.
But then when I think about the wedding and think about a lifetime spent with my partner, I realize how it's not worth fighting because if you love him that much to be his wife, then you'll do whatever it takes to keep your relationship alive.
God bless!
2006-10-18 03:45:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you excited about the thought of marrying him, or is it just the excitement of a wedding in general? Don't know what you mean by "get upset"..is he getting on your nerves? Are you PMS ing? It might pass, but you might want to be sure before you tie the knot...or it's not fair to either of you.
2006-10-18 02:59:54 · answer #7 · answered by jakkibluu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having any second thoughts---DO NOT GET MARRIED--you can always postpone the wedding, but once you are hitched it's over and have to go through the pains of divorce. Good luck to you.
2006-10-18 03:23:12 · answer #8 · answered by Penguin Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is called pre wedding jitters and you just don ot know what the heck you want at the moment!!
2006-10-18 02:58:02 · answer #9 · answered by LadySonia 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you better not get married until you know for sure you like and love him. Hold off on the marriage or you might find yourself in a divorce.
2006-10-18 02:58:55 · answer #10 · answered by wizzygirl10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋