he has a kid on the way and he wants to be with me but he as to take care of the baby wht do i do . he is also my x.
2006-10-18 02:45:44 · 11 answers · asked by TIGGER 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't trsut it. He trying to nut. Ask him of his feelings toward his babymomma and see how he reacts.
2006-10-18 02:50:17 · answer #1 · answered by K G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An x became/is an x for a reason. Irregardless of who he is ....you never mix work and love relationships in the workplace!!!!! It always has a way of coming back and biting you in the a$$ later on.(ex. could get fired, have to see this person daily after argument, gets in the way of accomplishing your work, etc.)
If he has a kid on the way, tell him he needs to take responsibility to provide and be there for the child....Don't be the one who stands between him and his kid fighting over who gets to be with him in his spare time!!!! (Kids need to be RAISED, you have already had that privelage.)
Find someone else who can give you the time and love your looking for.
2006-10-18 10:29:09 · answer #2 · answered by "N"saysable 1iric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loved yo he wouldn't have slept with this other girl and got her pregnant. When you'd split up, and went your seperate ways, did he not reaslise it was you he wanted to be with. Now is a little too late.
If he left his girlfriend for you, he would always have this baby - who'd to say that he wouldn't go back with he when he's bored with you?
You should never go back - look to the future.
Good luck x
2006-10-18 09:51:08 · answer #3 · answered by Poppy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a) It's not how much a person says he loves you but what they do to show it.
b) Having a kid on the way means little in itself - what are his feelings towards the mother-to-be??
c) What were the reasons for your relationship with him falling apart in the first place?? Are those issues still relevant??
Best thing to do would be to discuss your feelings and concerns with him and then follow your head and your gut.
2006-10-18 09:50:16 · answer #4 · answered by ♫kanis.lupus♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just a bit itchy at the tip of his thingy... and you don't wanna fall for someone who's got a kid on the way with another woman and not responsible enough to even wait till the kid is born to fall for another woman. think of what he's gonna do to you if you are pregnant and he runs for another woman? don't let emotion trick you this time. he's already your ex.
situations like this are already being portrayed in famous celebrities like..
2006-10-18 09:55:15 · answer #5 · answered by Spidergurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he has a kid on the way you need to put yourself in the soon to be moms shoe .i would not mess with it until he has a chance to really see what he is going to miss in the end and then if he decides that he still doesnt want to be with soon 2 be mom then i still wouldnt be with him he is your ex for a reason and you should leave it like that
2006-10-18 09:53:01 · answer #6 · answered by wanderer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a clue. I'm sure he loved this other girl too, and she's going to have his baby. He's your ex, you've been down this road, it's got some new ruts in it. Go find a new bf or get a hobby.
2006-10-18 09:49:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To save yourself some heartache,you should just leave him alone!! That other girl will always have an advantage over you,because it's his baby's momma!! Seriously, if I were you just tell him NO!!
2006-10-18 09:53:25 · answer #8 · answered by Amber R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is youe ex, there had to be a reason for that. Why continue to beat a dead horse?
2006-10-18 09:48:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run the other way. Seriously.
2006-10-18 09:48:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋