2006-10-18 02:58:42 · 8 answers · asked by Ralph Dera 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
U sound like u want out.
The people we care for the most are the ones who have the insane power to hurt us the most.. but if u're crying more than u are loving and being loved, then u shld forget this person. He may be the only one u love now, but he will not be the only one u love in this life.
2006-10-18 03:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there..... and its the worst feeling there is. Nothing can make it better except time.... and even that doesn't help. You need to cry... and cry alot. I wrote emails and letters to him telling him everything I needed to talk to him about.... most I never sent, a few I did, and got no response... which only made it worse. Writing it down is good.... but instead of sending it... try burning it, or sticking it on the end of a helium balloon and letting it go. Sounds like a strange idea.... but you'd be amazed at how cathartic it is. And maybe you'll at least be able to begin to heal, and will eventually be able to open yourself up to other people.
2006-10-18 10:07:34 · answer #2 · answered by just_me3575 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you love him then what is your problem? Have you thought that maybe you want or need to have some one to make you cry. I can not personally understand how some one would let a person abuse her and then claim to love him.Also he can only make you cry if your there to let him. so now you have to choose
2006-10-18 10:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can relate. i loved my last girlfriend but she is the only one who kept making me cry. she did this or that and it just tore me up inside. i knew she wasn't good for me but i couldn't do anything about it. well finally we broke up b/c i had too much of it. what made it even better was once we broke up other girls came to me that i never knew liked me. that wouldn't say anything about it b/c of my ex. now i'm with a girl that makes me feel good about myself. she treats me like i want to be treated. what i'm saying for you to do is this. think real hard about her. if she keeps hurting you she's not the one. don't do like i did and saty with her. just think. if you 2 break up there might be someone else who wants to be with you that will treat you right, but you'll never know if that'll happen if you saty with your girl. well if this is for a girl change every girl word to a guy.
2006-10-18 10:05:55 · answer #4 · answered by Daniel o 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They will then always make you cry...get out...you WILL love again...hopefully love someone who gives you your smile back
2006-10-18 10:04:17 · answer #5 · answered by DoveMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else to love that will make you laugh
2006-10-18 10:00:33 · answer #6 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nobody deserves to spend this life crying..you know what to do.
2006-10-18 10:02:50 · answer #7 · answered by pinkskies0421 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you cry more than laugh, find another
2006-10-18 10:11:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋