Hello, can you kindly help. Me and my boyfriend have always been loved up... we were so close..but due to my mad habit of throwing tantrums he would get upset with me but never backed away.. Until one week when he was working long hours and had no time to chat on the phone... I would argue he said he'd make it up to me on the weekend. However the Friday I argued so much and told him i didn’t want him...... he had been at work for 24hours and thus did not retaliate he said ok fine its over!!! What I was like NO NO I didn’t mean that. He said sorry no second chance.... what!! So we didn’t chat for like 4days I called n sent txt – no response. I was having heartache thus went to visit him, at his parents Big mistake.. we argued again. now it’s been two weeks and we haven’t spoken... he hasn’t called n nor have I. what should I do???? I really want him back..Our relationship was beautiful!! It’s my birthday on Monday and am hoping he will call then... but if he doesn’t I will brake down!!!
2006-10-18 00:10:47 · 14 answers · asked by apple 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first promise yourself that you'll be always sweet with him in future and never argue.. if you truly love him.. understand his likings and dislikings and respect that..
once you are convinced you can do it.. genunily call him to say sorry.. send him flowers.. few chocolates and a big sorry card .. saying you'll neveer fight with him again.. you'll win him back for sure
2006-10-18 00:16:30 · answer #1 · answered by pawan g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of, just send a txt that says, 'i was wrong, i'm sorry'. You really have to quit throwing tantrums. Some things in life can't be helped, and getting mad about it, or calling unnecessary attention to it may get you your way right away, but it won't really help you in the long run. If he txts or calls back (if he doesn't that day, try calling the next day or the day after that, and be sure to tell him at the very first that you were wrong and you're sorry), and if you're willing to do this, tell him that you'll stop throwing your tantrum, and be more understanding. Try putting yourself in his place, and also try talking things out, and understanding that some things just can't be helped. I'm not judging you, i'm just saying, no one likes always having someone else throw a fit. Ask him to help you get over your habit. And really really be willing to work on it. It's not going to be easy, but i think you can do it.
I'm sorry if this seems a bit harsh, I really didn't mean for it to.
2006-10-18 07:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you argue that much, is that the life you two want?
Why has he put up with your tantrums to start with? I think the relationship between you two is doomed now or somewhere down the road.
Sorry for the truth, but you asked. "Put a little love in your heart"
2006-10-18 07:20:20 · answer #3 · answered by skymastergolfpro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you very well understand that you have been doing all the things that has upset him. Invite him for a party on next Monday, and reminding him it is your birthday. If he comes, he is all yours again. But remember, do not repeat the mistakes you have been doing. Present yourself as a changed personality, learn to control yourself by then.
2006-10-18 07:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by Spheris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone. Obviously you two need time apart. And he needs time to get his anger under management before he really hurts someone. It's not worth it.
2006-10-18 07:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see..in this case ..u knw it is your mistake...u hav been cribbing all along...u c there r limitaions for evrything....actually in this case u r at fault ...nd it is him who has 2 decide i\on this one...now when u realize u r at fault ...its bettr u try 2 make him happy....do watevr he says...nd try not 2 argue nd fight again...try not 2 throw tantrums nd be nice 2 him....dnt try 2 be over nice...this will make him think u r doing this artificially.....be honest tht u hav realized ur mistake nd be natural...he will be urs..
2006-10-18 07:26:39 · answer #6 · answered by SHEKHAR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this but the hardest part for a guy (for me at least) it telling her it's over. After that, if you come back you will regret it.
I would not come back if I were him.
2006-10-18 07:44:49 · answer #7 · answered by MP US Army 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then its really hard, knowing he won't respond you nor give you a sigh, well I rather then conclude that it is not an official break up... ,it is really an inevitable situation like you do, you shouldn't got up trantrums ..
2006-10-18 07:40:25 · answer #8 · answered by ilovelouise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he got tired of fighting.. and actually he's probably completely fed up with you... don't count on it working out in the end... you're gonna have to find someone new
2006-10-18 07:19:09 · answer #9 · answered by comemychildren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a drama queen, relax and take a deep breath.
2006-10-18 07:15:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋