Family & Relationships - 18 October 2006

Lets call him "Kevin." He doesn't work anymore. Lives off his girlfriend, I'll call "Mary." Mary is not a good friend, as a matter of fact, I dissed her and changed my phone number. Kevin hates everything and everyone. Looks down his nose at anybody receiving any kind of financial aid. It just kills me that he thinks he is so wonderful and the rest of the world is sh**. Mary said he hasn't paid taxes in the last 10 years he worked. I don't want to tell but it just kills me. I know he will get his and I won't have to lift a finger and harm my own karma. What to do? What to do? Will you tell for me??
HELP!

2006-10-18 06:33:17 · 17 answers · asked by Saffernellie 6 in Friends

2006-10-18 06:32:39 · 5 answers · asked by lwright82 2 in Weddings

How can I show my gf that i really love her and care deeply for her. I think she is the greatest but she will argue me down about that. lol Do any of you have any ideas that will help prove to her that she is fantastic? Or maybe I should ask what is it you would like for a guy to do for you or get for you to show that he relly cares.

2006-10-18 06:32:08 · 17 answers · asked by shycountryboy85 3 in Singles & Dating

I dont know what to do? I have been with the same guy for just about 4 yrs. We were together before for a year and then seperated for a year adn got back together & got married (we have been married for over 2 yrs now). He is a raelly GREAT guy and treats our children very well! However, for some reason I feel unhappy. I have felt like this now for about 6 months. I cant kiss him or be intatmate w/out feeling sick to my stomach. He is EVERYTHING I could ask for in a relationship but for some reason I am not attracted to him anymore! He does have some bad habits but so does everyone else. I recently meet w/ my high school sweetheart (who I was w/ for 3 yrs), and ever since that day I feel like I want to be with him. I know for sure that I still LOVE him and he still loves me. We have talked about wanting to really get back together. He is married and so am I! But ever since that one day with him, I have been totally depressed and cry a lot! And wnat to be with him so bad!!

2006-10-18 06:31:25 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-18 06:31:13 · 5 answers · asked by Sosan M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do you think that i am not being fair to my husband well he works 6 days a week and on sundays he is off and i tell him on his days off to try to spend time with his 2 kids and do family thing well his family knows his schedual and when hes off they always need something from him like to take them places and to do favor for them which he does that piss me off cause i think we come first and why is it that the always have to wait for him he also is off two wednesday of the month like today instead of taking his son to school he get up early and goes tothe city to help his nephew that had a someone crash his car so that he could help him collect money its been 3 month since the crash why the hell do the wait for him to be off from work dont they know that he has a family so tell me am i being a ***** for wanting him to spend time with his family and the time he gets home from work the kids are getting ready 2 go to be i think his family do this to piss me off so what do you think than

2006-10-18 06:30:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We have a fairly decent relationship and hes a big guy who likes to golf, and works with acids at a refinery. He's very sarcastic, a tad on the serious side sometimes and likes to have a good time! Any ideas are much appreciated!

2006-10-18 06:29:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

basicly the title i got 3 girls all at same time what should i do

2006-10-18 06:29:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Where can my boyfriend get free anger management classes?
We are in Orlando and I love him, but he needs MAJOR anger help. He never thinks before he reacts,and the smallest things bother him, such as if I tell him, after he tells me he is hungry, please wait 20 min and I will cook it for you. Last night I told him that, and usually I don't make him wait, I cook right away, but I asked him to wait 20 min, he slammed the door and got pissed and yelled. Then he tried to leave in his car. I stood in front of his car so he would not leave, believing he would not step on the gas, and I was wrong, he stepped on the gas trying to avoid me, but he hit me, and now my nose looks broke, and I have bruises and scratches everywhere. He did not try to hit me with the car, but he never throught twice about stepping on the gas when I was practicly right in front of the car in the driveway. I don't understand why I take his **** sometimes.Where can he get anger management in Orlando

2006-10-18 06:29:34 · 7 answers · asked by Tracy L 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I go to a college full of hot girls. Where can i get a guy who is amazed that anyone female is talking to them?

2006-10-18 06:28:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If earth had no sun there woul be no flowers...
If the sky had no stars there would be no wishes...
If it didn't rain there would be no water....
If there's no bees we would'nt have honey..
If we didnt experience love then I would have no feelings...
If we had no imagination there would be no dream...
If the world did not have u...
I wold'nt exist!

2006-10-18 06:27:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, i have sole custody of my son who now is 14 wishing to reside with his dad. I am allowing him his choice on a temp intermin basis. I was wondering what is the best way of words to change a private agreement, but to make it as legal binding contract. eg:should i ask for joint custody? He wants sole cusotdy and I am not ready to give him that as of yet. What are my other options? Any help is appreciated. thanks

2006-10-18 06:27:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

THis is really important!

2006-10-18 06:27:38 · 17 answers · asked by prodigy 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my b/f broke up for 2 weeks,, we got back together about 3 days ago and while we were broke up he started talking to this pregnant girl,, i found a card in his car from her from while we were on break saying how much she likes him and is happy they're "together",, even though he's with me and not her im still jeaoulous,, we've been together for 1 year and 3 weeks,, we are very much in love,, he asked me to marry him and have kids and everything,, i just wish i could move past this jealous thing,, i want to be happy with him with no interference.

2006-10-18 06:27:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this dude named sam and he just got dumped by me best friend.So i asked him out for one of my friends and we where in the hall and he pulled me over to the wall and said that he liked someone not her.So after school i ask him how it was but he wouldn't tell me so we asked his best friend that knew him bettter then he knows him self and he said that it was a girl that was in my pe class and whaen i asked him he put his hand on my shoulder and said sorry but you have the wrong girl and i hope it is me because i have just a litte crush on im is it me or is it her.

2006-10-18 06:26:52 · 4 answers · asked by lulu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend wants to be a stripper and i dont think he sould be one hes good looking and all but i dont think thats he thing should i tell him not to or should i tell him its not good for him

2006-10-18 06:25:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

if u were seein someone for 1-2 weeks and they said they "loved ya lotz" what would u do?

2006-10-18 06:25:08 · 8 answers · asked by wizzpack 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 5'2 and 160 lbs. I've gained about 40 lbs in the last year and a half. We've been together 8 years and have 2 children. Should I just leave him or wait for him to leave me? Should I work hard and lose the weight to save the relationship? I know I need to lose the weight but I am having a hard time getting motivated with his constant put-downs.
I am really stressed out, depressed, and don't feel like he treats me well enough to do all this for him. Meanwhile, he doesn't gain weight but surely doesn't look as good as he used to either.

2006-10-18 06:24:58 · 62 answers · asked by Trinity 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-18 06:24:07 · 6 answers · asked by huny 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 06:23:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister hasn't dated for close to 9 years, she is besides her self so she made an appointment to see this Chinese doctor. Once she got there he asked her if she would go to any lengths to find change. She said she would, so he asked her to undress and to get on her hands and knees and to crawl across the room. She says all she could hear was constant tutting, once across the room she was beckoned to crawl back to him, again he was shaking his head and tutting, finally she asked him what it was he thought was wrong, to which he said she had Ed Zacarys disease, horrified she asked what that was. He told her it's when your face looks Ed Zacary like your a s s.

2006-10-18 06:22:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the guts to tell her&now we say hi to each other everyday but thats it. She makes me so nervous&i am tongue tied when i see her... I guess because i like her so much...I want to take it further be her friend&go out on dates with her...what shoud i do next?....what should I say next?...also,she is black&I am chinese so I dont know if that will be an issue with her too...

2006-10-18 06:21:38 · 15 answers · asked by strongchin1 1 in Singles & Dating

If so why hide from your husband. My wife said it has to do with being self-conscious but I would like to be a part of the fun

2006-10-18 06:21:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I would like to see what my ex is making a year...I think he is lying to avoid paying more child support.

2006-10-18 06:21:27 · 8 answers · asked by ruby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Theres a guy i like in the office and ive known him for just over a year i want to ask him out but im worried that he may say no and i would have to face him day after day. Hes shy so i dont think he would make a move anyway so am stuck! I want to ask him to a concert but dont know if ive got guts

2006-10-18 06:19:19 · 27 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1 in Singles & Dating

i think i might still love my ex boyfriend. i have a new boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. buti can't stop thinking about him! he's changed so much since we broke up. and it's not in a good way. everyone in my school keeps telling me it's because of me, and how much i broke his heart! i feel awful! i can't stop thinking about how many good times we had, and how sweet he was to me. people say no one's perfect but...he is. well...the perfect bf anyway. how do i stop thinking about him. i'v tried getting rid of everything that reminds me of him (picuters, gifts ect) but i can't stop!! what do i do? please help me! i'm going crazy!

2006-10-18 06:19:06 · 12 answers · asked by Emy 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend tried to get with my bestfriend and she never told me about it, actually he told me about it a couple weeks after it happend. when i confronted her about it she said he told he not to say anything and then she hung up on me. i forgave him and her but it hurt when i think about the stuff she told him about me, and when she said she always liked him, i also felt betrayed by the way she handled the situation and wasn't women enough to tell. even though i forgave them both but sometimes it hurts when i think about what they did? They also use to talk on the phone and i never knew about . Should i move on and let the past be the past or leave them both alone.

2006-10-18 06:18:53 · 9 answers · asked by shay 1 in Singles & Dating

I imagine that the ideas and philosiphies are pretty progressive. I am trying to find out new, and working philosophies to life and its main aspects.

2006-10-18 06:18:39 · 12 answers · asked by recentlyconfirmedagnosticofminds 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-18 06:18:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 06:16:02 · 5 answers · asked by LILI 2 in Other - Family & Relationships