THis is really important!
2006-10-18 06:27:38 · 17 answers · asked by prodigy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop being so shy! Also, make sure u don't have really really high standards. There are loadsa girls ur age who want a date but everyone only likes the most attractive girl in school.
Here's how to flirt. Catch the girl's eye, smile. Simple as that. If she smiles back, she's yours. Talk to her a little more than usual. Make your body language open; hug her sometimes or put your arm round her, look how couples act and act a little like that. By now she should be pretty sure you're interested. If you're sure she likes you back, ask her if she'd like to go see a movie. Movies are great for shy people cos u don't have to talk on the first date!
2006-10-18 06:33:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk up to somebody you like. Make sure they are available. Ask them out for a Friday night, to a school football game or something like that. Do this several times, then ask if you want to go out.
If you are shy about asking them out, practice in the mirror. And also plan what you will do on the date. And get her number so you can call and confirm the plans. Not too hard, but you may get rejected a few times, so don't be too bummed about that.
2006-10-18 06:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by ht_butterfly27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya, I know how important it is!
And today my friend is your lucky day! Being 17 and asking a question like this says that you might be ready for something spectacular.
1) Shyness is something that you can and MUST over come.
2) You're fear is what is going to generate confidence.
Check ou the links below, but understand it is up to you to make a difference in your own life. It's nobody's business but your own.
Good luck!
2006-10-18 06:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the first step. Is to ask yourself why your so shy. Another, is what can i do to releave my shyness. And last, find a girl you like, start talking to her, push your shyness away. I know personally it's hard. So some friends, and family always had me talking to girls, and finally i just managed to get rid of my shyness, by just being myself and talking about how i feel. Find common ground, and let yourself go. Just make a conversation. Just do it slowly, you shouldn't really be in a rush.
2006-10-18 06:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by JJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and be a bit louder. personally i like guys who argue with me, not sit in a corner and agree. then again shy guys are often sensitive, which is a bonus. so find a girl you like and talk with her. a lot. get her to like you as a person, then start pushing it; buy her things, take her places. she'll get the idea. but it takes time. you cant just snap your fingers and have a girlfriend. good luck.
2006-10-18 06:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by jimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one thing you dont need to be shy there is nothing for you to be shy about, secondly you need to get over the bridge because the worst thing that could happen is that she can say no, thirdly if you think she likes you then go for it, trust me because if you someone then you should go for it. i hate it when guys like me they dont ever tell me until it is too late and i allready like someone else or i am dating some one else. take a shot count to three and shoot..........score( you got it)
2006-10-18 06:34:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone you like, and ask them out. it's that easy. even if your shy, that shouldn't stop you from getting a girlfriend. in my opinion, i think most girls like guys who are shy. it's kind of mysterious in a way.
2006-10-18 06:34:29 · answer #7 · answered by troublemaker_4_life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with groups of friends...guys and girls...your are going to have to open up a bit and this should help...have casual conversation with the girls. get used to talking to them . you will know if one of them is attracted to you...if you feel the same...she will figure it out also...take your time...dont feel pressured by you guy friends....try to get phone numbers or aim address and talk there until your comfortable...most important dont worry ....good luck
2006-10-18 06:32:44 · answer #8 · answered by Suzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt w/ girls at school on Myspace! lol It makes it easier for a shy person to be more outgoing when its online. Get to know them slowly, be friendly, caring, fun, respectful. I know all the girls are on Myspace. But don't be too pestering or annoying. If she doesn't seem "in" to you, don't bother her, find another girl. lol
2006-10-18 06:31:30 · answer #9 · answered by Trinity 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try your best to get over your shyness. it isn't the best thing. find a group of friends to hang out with. i used to be really shy and i started hanging out with a group of ppl and they embarassed the crap out of me but it got me over my shyness. and now i can talk to anyone at anytime and just bout anything. just start talking to a girl its not going to hurt maybe she don't like you like that but atleast you'll have a new friend good luck
2006-10-18 06:34:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋