do i still love him?

Question

i think i might still love my ex boyfriend. i have a new boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. buti can't stop thinking about him! he's changed so much since we broke up. and it's not in a good way. everyone in my school keeps telling me it's because of me, and how much i broke his heart! i feel awful! i can't stop thinking about how many good times we had, and how sweet he was to me. people say no one's perfect but...he is. well...the perfect bf anyway. how do i stop thinking about him. i'v tried getting rid of everything that reminds me of him (picuters, gifts ect) but i can't stop!! what do i do? please help me! i'm going crazy!

Answer 1

Yes you may still love him but you should try to put it aside. He's a big boy and should be able to take care of himself, if not then he should see a therapist, not you. You shouldn't consider yourself to be the origin of others problems. He has a girlfriend and she's the one who should help him now. Try to do activities you enjoyed with your ex with your new boyfriend, you should find stuff you enjoy doing more with him.

Answer 2

You are still attached to him, but that doesn't mean you still love him. We never really know what we have until it's gone, and it looks like you've just learned that lesson. But the fact is, is that you aren't with him now. Unless he is still interested in you, it's probably time to move on. After a breakup, alot of people go through a time where they still feel attached, because they were so close to that person, and now they aren't there anymore. This is normal. Sometimes it goes away quickly. Sometimes it takes a while, even months, occasionally even years. But you can get over it quicker by doing things to take you mind off him. Think aobut your current boyfriend, and the good things you have in him. Work on the relationship you have now, or else you might loose him too, and find yourself missing him just as much.

Answer 3

Often people fondly remember their former lovers. But the tendency is to remember the good things and not think about the issues which may have caused you two to drift apart. And, some people just take longer to get over a relationship than others. Give it time...but don't let the lingering memories mess up your new relationship or you may end up worrying about two past lovers.

Answer 4

if you think you still love him, then you probably don't.and there was a reason you broke up. now he's changed and your attracted to him because of the new girl and changes. i have some exes ..going back almost 20 years..and i still love them. i don't have to think it.. i know it.

Answer 5

obviously you have feelings for him but you can change those feelings to become more of good friends. who knows maby later on when you grow up your friendship will be so strong you'll end up marrying each other cause you'll have so much trust in each other

Answer 6

you love him!!!!! try to go over him or go and get him but don't stay in this position! that's only heart your feelings and you don't deserve that girl! talk to him!! if you feel like you miss him go and get him!!!!!!!!! say to him what you really feel and if he is not interested .... at least you will feel better

Answer 7

Try to work things out with him

Answer 8

you have to want too get over him for yourself you have to just give it up you are in a relationssship and so is he and if he changed then you really need to get over him you could do it just have faith.

Answer 9

u love him!go and get him again before it becomes to late

Answer 10

You don't love him. You just want him because you can't have him.