My boyfriend tried to get with my bestfriend and she never told me about it, actually he told me about it a couple weeks after it happend. when i confronted her about it she said he told he not to say anything and then she hung up on me. i forgave him and her but it hurt when i think about the stuff she told him about me, and when she said she always liked him, i also felt betrayed by the way she handled the situation and wasn't women enough to tell. even though i forgave them both but sometimes it hurts when i think about what they did? They also use to talk on the phone and i never knew about . Should i move on and let the past be the past or leave them both alone.
2006-10-18 06:18:53 · 9 answers · asked by shay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you should do is get a new boyfriend, and a new best friend. You were betrayed by both, and you could do much better.
2006-10-18 06:22:03 · answer #1 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and let the past be the past and also leave them both alone. You might think that you can be around them and it wont bother you but you know deep inside that it will so why torture yourself.
2006-10-18 13:23:31 · answer #2 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally, found how this feels...except i was the guy in the situation when it was my turn. But anyways. What you should do is think hard about it.. Maybe write down your pro's and con's, and wiegh them in your heart. Also, you should follow your heart and listen to it. Don't listen to your brains, listen to your heart. It will tell you what to do in the end. I personally found it best to chase the girl i hurt. And now i'm married to her. 5 years later. It all depends.. Life is nothing but chances and mistakes..you learn from it.
2006-10-18 13:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by JJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some friend. Move on and let the past stay in the past. If I were you I would find real friends.
2006-10-18 13:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you even care?? Move on. You obviosuly had a bad boyfriend and an even worse friend. Cut them both loose and don't look back. Move on.
2006-10-18 13:23:00 · answer #5 · answered by OohLaLa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on with your life with out both of them
2006-10-18 13:22:29 · answer #6 · answered by wildone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were too generous to forgive, let them both go
2006-10-18 13:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how much is invested in either relationship
2006-10-18 13:22:18 · answer #8 · answered by Dulceata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would stay away from them both. neither seem trustworthy.
2006-10-18 13:21:49 · answer #9 · answered by marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋