Do you think i am a B i t c H ??

Question

do you think that i am not being fair to my husband well he works 6 days a week and on sundays he is off and i tell him on his days off to try to spend time with his 2 kids and do family thing well his family knows his schedual and when hes off they always need something from him like to take them places and to do favor for them which he does that piss me off cause i think we come first and why is it that the always have to wait for him he also is off two wednesday of the month like today instead of taking his son to school he get up early and goes tothe city to help his nephew that had a someone crash his car so that he could help him collect money its been 3 month since the crash why the hell do the wait for him to be off from work dont they know that he has a family so tell me am i being a ***** for wanting him to spend time with his family and the time he gets home from work the kids are getting ready 2 go to be i think his family do this to piss me off so what do you think than

he may works 6 days a week but dont spend time with his kid $$$$ isnt everything i think the time you spend with your kids is priceless no one can replace that if i am being a b i t c h so let it be and yes i have sat down with him and its always my fault. sooner or later we leave this earth and i would like my kids to have nice memeries of his father not just always me

Answer 1

N O ! You are not a *****, you just want a husband, not a bank or ATM. Dont try and just force the issue, sit him down and explain why you ask the things you ask, maybe he will understand.

Answer 2

I think you need to lay it down on the line that you first of all is his WIFE HELLO and his CHILDREN are his CHILDREN you and your kids SHOULD BE THE CENTER OF ATTENTION HELLO. Look your not being a ***** because you want him around your his wife you have some say so on what happens in your household no matter what he says.You and him made that committed to start a family he should keep his side of the burgin.HE NEEDS TO BE A MAN NOT A LITTLE BOY.

Answer 3

no that doesnt make you a *****! He has a family!! My husband and I just split up b/c he wouldnt pay attention to our daughter. She would cry when he left and wouldnt let her go and wouldnt play with her. any asshole can have a kid but it takes a MAN to be a daddy. and it takes a MAN to be a husband. Not a little boy and I think that's what he's being. A little boy.

Answer 4

Your only being a ***** if you nag him. Have a serious talk with him about it. Don't point fingers just tell him that his family comes first. If he don't agree then he is really not a family man and you should be ready to take action.

Answer 5

I dont think your a ***** your just a wife in need of some attention from her husband and your right he should spend time with you and your children before others

Answer 6

I don't think you are being a b****. Maybe you can talk to him about it and maybe he can start by sharing his free time between yourself and the kids and then his family. Its worth a try.

Answer 7

His children should come before other family members.

PS ~ Try using punctuation. Its easier to read.

Answer 8

yea you are a B i T C H... no really he does need to put you guys first your his new family now if his family needs help cant they find someone else but then again there is family too. so just put up with it

Answer 9

no, you are not being a B I T C H. Your husband however, needs to get his priorities straight.

Answer 10

give him a break - works 6 days a week....