Family & Relationships - 18 October 2006

My marriage ended 5 months ago and I'm finding it really hard without sex. How long have other people coped for? I'm not into one night stands or any casual sex, but I'm finding myself wondering how long I can last.

2006-10-18 06:03:01 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My soon to be ex husband is an abusive, liar, cheater and negligent man. I filed for divorce on April 14 so he deicded to get back with an old girlfriend of his so I ask my lawyer if it matters that he is dating someone else he says no and that it is ok if I would want to do the same so I chose to. In July and then my ex finds out and begins sending threatening messages to my boyfriend saying he wants to beat the living stuff out of him. Remember he is doing the same thing also, however I don't bother his girlfriend. He was overseas when this was happening so I informed his LTC and he told my ex that he faces jail time should we press charges. Now what I am wondering is it possible for me to draw up a contract of what i want out of the divorce and set up a visitation schedule for him to see our son that he could either agree to or face the jail time? He has caused so much pain in our lives I just don't want him to think that he is going to get away with doing things everytime he does

2006-10-18 06:02:42 · 14 answers · asked by Nikki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Myhusband is going through a difficult time and keeps telling me he doesn't think things will work out with us. I tell him to leave and work out what he wants and he tells me that he can't afford it or he misses our sons too much.

This has been going on for months.

I don't want to push him but it is very difficult for me to live my life not knowing if I am planning a future with or without myhusband.

There is psychological things to consider here and he is signed up for help and has gone once but oit is taking weeks to get to the next session and they tell me with his case it could be a over a year if not more for him to work out everything.

I love him with all my heart and want what is best for him but I have to do what is best for me too. I need an answer. I have desions to make financially etc to consider.

Currently he is not bringing in an income. I handle everything for us from the finances to mowing the lawn.

Anyone been through this? Do I wait? Should he go?

2006-10-18 06:02:15 · 10 answers · asked by Sandra C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-18 06:02:12 · 10 answers · asked by techdogg_98 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

say the wife is a virgin and new to marriage. what is the best way to break woman virginity in the first night? (from people who have exprience please).

2006-10-18 06:02:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My niece of 23 steals every chance she gets, and then lies about it. She steals money and other valuables from my mother and takes my prescription drugs, no matter where I hide them, she finds them. She is so good she can steal from you right in front of you and you can't see her. She has been doing this for many years. Whenever she is caught or accussed she goes off on a fit, so, my family placates her and pretends they believe her just to shut her up. She takes lots of drugs and does and says mean and stupid things. She has Hep C and recently found out she has stage 3 uterine cancer. I have been wanting to confront her and tell her that she has lost all respect and losing love from the family because her lies are almost worse than her stealing. I just wish when I caught her the other day, she would have confessed. It's pathetic, but, I don't know if now is the right time, because I'm soo mad at her and because she might not be around much longer. What should I say to her?

2006-10-18 06:01:44 · 21 answers · asked by melodyzsong214 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This gets a bit tricky so bare with me…

In the summer of 2002, I told my best friend that I had a crush on her, but I knew she was in love with another girl and did not want to come between them. She thought it was sweet, and we carried on our friendship as though nothing happened.

In the summer of 2004, it was my best friend’s turn to confess she had feelings for me. I had just started dating my boyfriend, who is now my fiancée. So like me she didn’t want to become between us. So I thought we could carry on our friendship as though nothing happened much like she had done with me.

I was wrong. Slowly and steadily she started to push more and more to the point that it made me highly uncomfortable. I even told her such. When my (at the time) boyfriend found out, he tried to be friends with her and help through things (he went through a similar problem a few years earlier).

She continued to manipulate and try to make something more out of our friendship.

A little more

2006-10-18 06:00:25 · 15 answers · asked by Adiens 1 in Friends

HE HAS CHEATED ON ME ONCE BEFORE WITH HER, & I HONESTLY BELIEVE THAT HE HASN'T ANYMORE BUT I CAN'T GET RID OF THESE DREAMS

2006-10-18 06:00:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am getting married March 1, 2007 and I am having a Traditional Irish Wedding so I am in search for all the information I need to have the perfect Irish wedding so I need the traditional information and also superstitions and beliefs...

2006-10-18 05:59:13 · 10 answers · asked by Sierra E 2 in Weddings

my cousin always thinks he starts things first... ok, i wanted a guitar and me, my cousin, and my other cousin all got one at the same time. i got an mp3 player, so did they. i liked a bunch of cool bands, then he likes them too... hes such a copycat! the thing that makes me mad about this is he thinks he starts it forst and makes me look like a poser! i know its immature to think like this, but it just gets on my nerves. its like a constant battle between us... i want peace!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-18 05:59:11 · 12 answers · asked by Cheyenne W 1 in Family

Does it affect your decision to date a woman if she already has a child? What are some concerns? Are you more likley/unlikley to become involved?

2006-10-18 05:59:09 · 25 answers · asked by MTE 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 05:59:07 · 34 answers · asked by Media Belly 1 in Friends

2006-10-18 05:58:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I like him. I just don't know if it's a good thing that he's upfront about it. He said if we really hit it off would it be alright to consider sex in the relationship. Now I understand that his wife passed last year and he hasn't had any in a while. I completely understand his needs, I just don't know if it's a good idea to go through with the relationship. And he's older, but that's another story. I geuss what I'm asking is it a good sign that he was upfront about it?

2006-10-18 05:58:30 · 7 answers · asked by gigi_the_girl_anachronism 3 in Singles & Dating

when I have sex with my husband I cannot orgasam unless I I start thinking of women.... I love my husband very much and he does turn me on but, I can not finish unless I have thoughts of women sometimes someone I know or anywoman I saw during the day that looked good why is it am I gay or what, im confused I don't know what to think.

2006-10-18 05:58:22 · 29 answers · asked by nanonuno 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I see this little word "lol" bang in the middle of an answer, and I often find neither of the above meanings seems to fit the context.
Is there a third interpretation for this word that I'm not aware of?

2006-10-18 05:57:20 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my daughter is 15 and 362 days old , here in England the legal age for sexual intercourse is 16 and i have told her to wait until she is legal. This saturday is her 16th birthday party and she wont be fully 16 for one more day. She says her boyfriend wants to have full sex with her and her with him. I know that if she was fully 16 i would agree that it was fine. Any opinions after all its only 24 hours.

2006-10-18 05:56:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Help, my husband and I have been married for 4 years and together for 6. We had sex all the time like twice a day at first and now it is about 1 to 2 times a week. My husband asks me every day just about , to have sex with him but I am not in the mood the only time we really do it is when I want. sometimes I will tell him we can do it that night and then when the time comes i will say im not in the mood......................OH MY GOD IM A JERK

2006-10-18 05:56:19 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-18 05:55:52 · 2 answers · asked by Strangerinstrangeland 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Dupie is canadian, hot, blonde (but way not stupid) and lots more!!!

2006-10-18 05:55:49 · 4 answers · asked by Jacqueline S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Him and I were togther for 2 years before he got locked up. He went away for 3 years and now he's here again claiming that he's different. And well I see it. I miss him but I am a bit scared. What should I do?

2006-10-18 05:55:42 · 2 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Him and I were togther for 2 years before he got locked up. He went away for 3 years and now he's here again claiming that he's different. And well I see it. I miss him but I am a bit scared. What should I do?

2006-10-18 05:55:14 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi...my best friend is obsesses with painting.she just makes circles all the time...and throws ink everywhere and then speaks in a voice like gollumm from lord of the ring shouting "da vinci"

2006-10-18 05:55:09 · 9 answers · asked by kill_the_barbies!! 2 in Friends

2006-10-18 05:55:08 · 16 answers · asked by CAROLINATARHEEL93 1 in Family

2006-10-18 05:55:06 · 22 answers · asked by Susan T 1 in Singles & Dating

I started a new job as a Medical Assitant this monday well here it goes. I didnt have access to anything!!! This place had a system that had the patient scheduling, insurance verification, and also the Dr.s names such as location etc..... Well whenever i had to answer a call and a patient wanted to make an appointment I couldnt help them because I didnt have access and I didnt know which times were available when they would call and ask if a specific Dr accepted X insurance I had no clue because I could get into the system at all!!! This job sucked so much that I was only there for 2 1/2 days!!! Now my question is should I feel bad about leaving this job or was it their fault for not providing me with the correct tools to do my job right?? Oh by the way to kill it I had to wait about 3 months to have access to the system to start scheduling!!! Thats insane!! I left after i was placed at clinic and all the girls were complaing of me being useless I tried speking to my boss she knew nada

2006-10-18 05:53:45 · 17 answers · asked by Juliet 2 in Friends

I like this guy,and I've known him a week.I dont wanna do anything silly to push him away,and I can tell he's into me......

2006-10-18 05:53:34 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This question is mainly for Single people who either have one night stands or only talk to a person for sex and then finaly get it. When you are getting into the sack with that person, do you look at there Penis/Vagina before you proceed, sort like admiring God's Craftsmanship like I do with my Wife, or do you just dive in blindly because you just want to get layed?

2006-10-18 05:53:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in the past i caught my loved one using drugs by injecting them.we have crawled out of hell,only to notice the changing behaviors again.is there any other place to on the body to use the needle and what is it going to look like?(oh,the drug is meth)please thank you

2006-10-18 05:53:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How many of you guys out there have experienced this? you broke up but back together? Some cases couple finally gets married but of course there are failures....

2006-10-18 05:52:59 · 17 answers · asked by bebe 1 in Singles & Dating