Family & Relationships - 18 October 2006

there is this woman who I have been dating now about a half dozen times the past two months who has recently gotten sick and went to the doctor sunday and found out it was pneumonia....now I talked to her Monday night for a bit but it was difficult with her couphing for her and we would talk Tues night she said...well last night I tried calling and got her voice mail and didn't hear back which is fine too of course being she is not feeling well and all for starters...but my question here is now if I don't hear back from her after work tonight...is it okay for me to call and check on her again tonight without hearing from her first... I was also thinking of shooting and email to work and see if she is there today because as of Mon she was hoping to be back in the office today...but I am highly doubting that she is in and I don't want to be a pest ...but my intentions are just to see how she is doing...do I email her at work and phone her tonight..or one or the other or neither

2006-10-18 05:27:38 · 6 answers · asked by chewey 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 05:26:43 · 19 answers · asked by randy s 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 05:26:41 · 21 answers · asked by PATRICIA P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i MESSED UP BY NOT TRUSTING MY BF TALKIN TO HIS EX AS FRIENDS HOW CAN I LET HIM KNOW IM SORRY I MEAN AT LEAST HE TOLD ME WHO IT WAS I KNOW I MADE A MISTAKE BUT I DONT KNOW HOW TO SAY SORRY OR SHOULD I JUST LET IT GO AND SAY NOTHIN AT ALL

2006-10-18 05:26:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 17 and he is 19...we never talk but we kiss and hug all the time...I love him a lot but i dont know if he feels the same....i need something to watch out for, a sign to see if he really likes me...

2006-10-18 05:26:31 · 2 answers · asked by Danielle 1 in Singles & Dating

She left me because I yelled and cursed at her regarding my frustration regarding her daughter. She has sinced moved out and filed for an anullment. I spoke to her about two weeks ago and she told me how much she hates me. I then called her this past friday, and it was a calm conversation, i asked if we could talk, and she listened. I was wondering what others steps i should take to try and get my family back.

2006-10-18 05:26:25 · 9 answers · asked by john d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been seeing this guy sporadically since February. Back then, he told he didn't want a relationship because he was done with college and moving away. He remained in contact at least on a monthly basis while he was away. Recently, within the last month, we both coincidentally moved to the same area, and have seen each other several times. He contacted me last weekend, saying that he missed me, and hoped to see me soon. We spoke and I considered it was time to ask him the "relationship" question again. I told him that my impression was that what we have together is purely physical. He said it was more than that for he likes spending time with me. Yet, he still said he doesn't want a relationship. He will be leaving for med school again by next year. I appreciated his honesty as is, and did not ask any further questions. He ended up coming over to my place where he surprised me with champagne, wine, strawberries, grapes, candles, whipped cream, etc. It was a great night! I'm confused?

2006-10-18 05:26:15 · 10 answers · asked by J C 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 05:26:09 · 31 answers · asked by Emma W 1 in Singles & Dating

1. On sunday we had just came in from a meeting.
2. His daughter, her friend, daughter boyfriend was there
3. He walk in first, and the daughter friend said hey baby
4. I walk in behind him, see seen me and she put her head down and got mad
5. The daughter boyfriend leaf from out the room in went to the back in star laughing.
I am so confused, we made a promise that we will just be dating each other. I have only been dating him. But now I feel like a fool for just speending that whole 1 year with him. I don't know what to do . I need hel!

2006-10-18 05:25:36 · 4 answers · asked by angle2005star 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

1. On sunday we had just came in from a meeting.
2. His daughter, her friend, daughter boyfriend was there
3. He walk in first, and the daughter friend said hey baby
4. I walk in behind him, see seen me and she put her head down and got mad
5. The daughter boyfriend leaf from out the room in went to the back in star laughing.
I am so confused, we made a promise that we will just be dating each other. I have only been dating him. But now I feel like a fool for just speending that whole 1 year with him. I don't know what to do . I need hel!

2006-10-18 05:25:10 · 3 answers · asked by angle2005star 4 in Singles & Dating

Please feel free to weigh in on this one...

2006-10-18 05:25:06 · 1 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl I like that is in my classes. I've started sitting next 2 her(a few weeks ago) and once I even gave her a teddy bear(3weeks ago) and I’ve been really nice 2 her without her acting different in any way. But in the last few days (the end of last week and now) I’ve noticed that she’s acting differently around me even asking me if she could keep the pen she borrowed from me (Thursday of last week). Just so you know she hasn’t given me back the pen. When she said bye on Thursday to me she started to say it in that I like u-ish tone. I’m not sure if these signs are enough to qualify as her liking me so I was planning to say to her “You have a beautiful smile” How should she react (what should she say or do) for me 2 find out if she is interested or even likes me? I'm asking this cause this the 1st gurl i've been interested in.(I'm 17, she's 18 or 19)

2006-10-18 05:24:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and the Wife are seperated. She had an affair and is now pregnant and there is a strong possiblilty it is not mine. So there is all the ugly stuff. We have a 7 year old daughter together also. My family seems to have put thereselves right in the middle of this. I know this is a messed up situation, but I would not feel right if I did not atleast give my marrage a chance to be reconciled. I do have alot of anget towards my wife, but we still have a connection and we have had many long open discussions with each other and we are willing to work on things. I am not saying I am taking her back I am saying I am willing to go to counselling try to sort things out and take it from there. We know that this is a difficult situation and my wife knows she created an awful mess, but that has already been done and can not be taken back. The baby will be born in January so there is no abortion or adoption going to happen. Has anyone ever tried to save a marrage in similar situations.

2006-10-18 05:24:09 · 6 answers · asked by cheeks230 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-18 05:23:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If you were given a free pass to have sex in a public place with no repercussions, where would it be and who with? I've always wanted to do it in a firehouse with a hot fireman

2006-10-18 05:23:33 · 34 answers · asked by SHE HATE ME 5 in Singles & Dating

Why,...Can't people just get along. Is any problem or situation going to really matter in 10 years from now? If you said yes than I think that you have too much time on your hands, If you didn't notice we live in the moment and not in the future nor the past. We could all co-exist quite beautifully if we could realize that instead of complaining we could channel our stress and use it to our ability to do better and be better. The ego is that thing that keeps you safe,..but captive in your own mind to go out and do the things you want to do in life, to go onto that limb and take risks because we only have one life to do it. We are intelligent and the answers are out there, there is a answer to every question we just need to accept that we don't know the answer and once we do you'll find it will fall right in your lap. One last thing,..Is it me or does everyone want the dream? You put limitations on life and the things you do so stop the pattern of unhappiness and cease life.
cheer

2006-10-18 05:23:31 · 12 answers · asked by scully_22ps 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy for three years. Things are not always great and sometimes I just want to be free. he is very controlling, but can also be loving. On the other hand, I've met this guy that really cares about me. He's a great kisser and likes me for the gal I am. the only thing is that I don't want to stop dating my boyfriend for this new guy when his relatoionships only last 6 months at most. What should I do?

2006-10-18 05:23:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I make losing my virginity as comfortable as posible?

2006-10-18 05:22:43 · 23 answers · asked by Whitney 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-18 05:22:10 · 28 answers · asked by unlimited_shooter915 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We lost contact for a while and started calling me. My fiance doesnt approve of it. Although he talks to his exs and has kids with and he has his daughters on the weekends. My ex called yesterday so I can talk to my son. My fiance and I got into this arguement that he doesnt want my ex to call everyday or he will cut the phone off. In my eyes its like as if hes asking me to choose between him and my son. My fiance and I also have a son together. But, am I wrong if I leave him for being so selfish? Its alright for him to communicate with his daughters and exs. And for them to come over here, Thats that I pay the rent and put food on the table. Its always about what pleases him. I am going to dump him. But, I want to know if I am wrong?

2006-10-18 05:22:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

iv realy been put of her lol

2006-10-18 05:21:31 · 9 answers · asked by Bruza 17/uk 3 in Singles & Dating

yay or nay???? to which one?? or both???? neither???

2006-10-18 05:21:16 · 28 answers · asked by enema boy 1 in Singles & Dating

my fiancee and I broke up because it was not the right time for either of us to have someone. but he still calls and wants to hang out. then he told me I love you. but hes not ready to get back. Am i just suppose to wait on him? should i move on? we both still care for each other. what is going on?????????????

2006-10-18 05:20:52 · 11 answers · asked by april_pear 2 in Singles & Dating

Why or why not? Was it a certain occasion or anniversary?

2006-10-18 05:20:32 · 9 answers · asked by TML ♥'er 3 in Marriage & Divorce

okay can you tell me why my ex boyfriend say's that he hate's me but yesterday i saw him and this time it was since we broke up!! well he told my best friend that he hated me and that he didnt want to be around me but yesterday he was flirting with me and all that great stuff!! i dont know what this all means but i dont know if i should still like him because i never really stoped likeing him since we broke up!!! should i like him and dose he really hate me?

2006-10-18 05:19:59 · 22 answers · asked by brit 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife filed for divorce less than 2 months after we separated- She told me over the phone she had... She moved out in June and filed in August 2006. She is now dating a person she works w/ . Sounds like a dumb question BUT she thinks it is OK do this, I don’t- any OPINIONS??

2006-10-18 05:19:58 · 33 answers · asked by carpet man 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so i am talking to this girl that there might be somethign with in the near future. we have talked about all kinds of things, getting dirt on eachother telling stories, past happenings things liek that. i am a pretty open guy, but how honest shoudl i be, if she asks should i tell ehr everything? or just parts? and is there things that i shouldnt tell her or bring up? embarressing stories, past relationships, past mistakes thoughts, past actions dreams things like that?

2006-10-18 05:19:20 · 3 answers · asked by lpxerounderground 3 in Singles & Dating

If we got in a fight monday how long should i WAIT FOR MY BF TOO CALM DOWN?

2006-10-18 05:18:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After a long night of making love, the young guy rolled over, pulled out a cigarette from his jeans and searched for his lighter.
Unable to find it, he asked the girl if she had one at hand.

"There might be some matches in the top drawer," she replied.

He opened the drawer of the bedside table and found a box of matches sitting neatly on top of a framed picture of another man.

Naturally, the guy began to worry.

"Is this your husband?" he inquired nervously.

"No, silly," she replied, snuggling up to him.

"Your boyfriend then?" he asked.

"No, not at all," she said, nibbling away at his ear.

"Well, who is he then?" demanded the bewildered guy.

Calmly, the girl replied, "That’s me before the operation."

2006-10-18 05:18:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is really clingy and i love it! but i dont know what to do i dont wanna feel like hes the main person in this i wanna surprise him? what should i do this weekend when i'm at the cinema with him ? how do i sit? how do i kiss him? when do i do it? help me pleaseeeeeeeeeeeee x thanks x p.s im a teenager so remember that [:

2006-10-18 05:17:27 · 9 answers · asked by Xxsarah. 1 in Singles & Dating