there is this woman who I have been dating now about a half dozen times the past two months who has recently gotten sick and went to the doctor sunday and found out it was pneumonia....now I talked to her Monday night for a bit but it was difficult with her couphing for her and we would talk Tues night she said...well last night I tried calling and got her voice mail and didn't hear back which is fine too of course being she is not feeling well and all for starters...but my question here is now if I don't hear back from her after work tonight...is it okay for me to call and check on her again tonight without hearing from her first... I was also thinking of shooting and email to work and see if she is there today because as of Mon she was hoping to be back in the office today...but I am highly doubting that she is in and I don't want to be a pest ...but my intentions are just to see how she is doing...do I email her at work and phone her tonight..or one or the other or neither
2006-10-18 05:27:38 · 6 answers · asked by chewey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
check on her...Phone her tonight..If she doesn't answer go
to her house..Women in general like to be thought of especially
in a situation like this. Plus, you are worried about her well
being.
2006-10-18 05:32:03 · answer #1 · answered by shyone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can't have bad pneumonia because that can kill someone I am surprised she would be out of bed. You are just trying to see if she's alright and that is fine and I am sure she will let you know otherwise.
cheers
2006-10-18 05:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by scully_22ps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, one or the other ;)
personally I would say, since you called and left a message, I would email... hope you are feeling better... looking forward to seeing you again soon... keep it simple and then back off. It's her turn.
2006-10-18 05:34:55 · answer #3 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave a message for her to call when she feels better and wait and see, she'll get in touch, don't hound the woman, you might scare her off!
2006-10-18 05:32:31 · answer #4 · answered by Boots4ACowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can call. You are being a friend and checking up on her.
2006-10-18 05:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by NIKKI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do both....she might really like it that you are showing that you care. Maybe you can offer to bring her something? I would ask her if she needs anything....
2006-10-18 05:32:03 · answer #6 · answered by LeeLynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋