okay can you tell me why my ex boyfriend say's that he hate's me but yesterday i saw him and this time it was since we broke up!! well he told my best friend that he hated me and that he didnt want to be around me but yesterday he was flirting with me and all that great stuff!! i dont know what this all means but i dont know if i should still like him because i never really stoped likeing him since we broke up!!! should i like him and dose he really hate me?
2006-10-18 05:19:59 · 22 answers · asked by brit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on you are wasting your time with him. it sounds to me like he don't know what he wants. Nobody should hate anyone.
2006-10-18 05:23:20 · answer #1 · answered by ljk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably says he hates you because it's a defense mechanism for him to make him feel better about the break up. I had an ex who did that too but I know he would have gone back out w/me in a heartbeat. So, that's just my guess, but everybody's different. Why did you break up in the first place...really think about that and whether or not it's a good idea to continue flirting w/each other or not. Good luck.
2006-10-18 12:24:10 · answer #2 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on who broke up with who. If you broke it off with him, he's probably hurt and thus why he says he hates you. I'm sure he doesn't hate you as "hate" is a strong word, and if it were true he wouldn't talk to you let alone flirt with you. Why don't you think about the reasons you broke up in the first place. Does the good out weigh the bad?
2006-10-18 12:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by Stephie C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be saying all that stuff because he's mad at you, but he really still likes you OR he could be flirting with you so he can tell him friends about how you still want him even though you're broken up. I would stay away from him for a while, if he still likes you, he'll keep trying. If he's playin games, he'll give up if youre not responding.
2006-10-18 12:22:52 · answer #4 · answered by Annette J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen Brit, he dumped you and now he is flirting, it's all a power game for him. He likes the fact that he can reel you in , it gives him a sort of high. I don't think he hates you, I think he might want to see some other girls and instead of hurting you by telling you that he is hurting you by saying he hates you. You don't have to stop liking him, just don't lower yourself to his level and flirt back with him. I hope this gives you some insight on your problem.
2006-10-18 12:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by Kathy H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt really HATE YOU! I act like that all the time... when it comes down to it he just hates how he REALLY feels about you. Its hard to deny feelings that are there and sometimes I HATE the fact that I still care about that certain someone... It really is fustrating. But, just dont let yourself get caught up with him. A guy that is really unsure of his emotions just needs some time to figure out what his feelings really are.
2006-10-18 12:24:11 · answer #6 · answered by Michael T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt he hates you, that's just one of those "nice" little things people say about and to one another, when they break up. As for whether or not you should still like him, that is up to you. How do you feel? Also, please remember the reason you broke up in the first place. There had to be a reason, and a little flirting on his part, isn't going to change that.
2006-10-18 12:22:37 · answer #7 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well did you break up with him? If so he told your best friend he hates you just so he could look cool.
I would just flirt back a little and see how it goes. If he hasn't told you he hates you then I wouldn't believe it.
2006-10-18 12:23:33 · answer #8 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
....omg...he doesnt hate you...his ego is brused...if you guys broke up and you did the breaking up then he feels stupid...probably cuz he still likes you and the only reason he said he hates you was to cover up his own feelings...especially if he was asked in front of his friends...but if you guys broke up it was for a reason...if he's already running his mouth...then why even bother with that type of immaturity...
2006-10-18 12:26:25 · answer #9 · answered by mousygirl15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find a real man. Sounds like this guy has no idea what he wants. He might have ditched you for another piece and now that it didn't pan out he may want you back.
Go find someone who doesn't play games, someone who knows what they want...
2006-10-18 12:22:10 · answer #10 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋