my fiancee and I broke up because it was not the right time for either of us to have someone. but he still calls and wants to hang out. then he told me I love you. but hes not ready to get back. Am i just suppose to wait on him? should i move on? we both still care for each other. what is going on?????????????
2006-10-18 05:20:52 · 11 answers · asked by april_pear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like it's now friendship level, sure he lvoes you; however if he wanted to be with you he would make more of an effort. A guy will climb a mountain if he meant it. Your happiness is best!
2006-10-18 05:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait on him ? Never !! You broke it off for a reason. Who's to say that reason will ever get better ? I assume being an ex-fiance, that you were together for a while. Being a part of each others lives for any length of time leaves a void when they are gone. It's natural to be confused . Go with your gut, not your heart. For all the good that you had, something wasn't right. I have gone through what you are experiencing now. I was down, she was there and got me thru. When I wasn't down anymore I lost the flame. Was that fair to her ? She wanted to get married and I wanted to move on . Would it have been fair to stick with her if I had lost the feeling ? I felt horrible. I fought this for over a year. We stayed together because I felt like I was using her . It didn't make it any better, no matter how much I fought it.
2006-10-18 05:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by rock d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He still cares for you, but you shouldn't just wait for him either. What you need to do is call him out. Tell him to make a decision! If he isn't ready to move on with you, move on without him.
2006-10-18 05:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by justme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both agree to wait and have a "separation period" then wait. if not then I wouldn't wait around for the guy to come to his senses.
my advice is to take it slow and see what happens but don't rush back into the full blown relationship that didn't fully work the first time.
2006-10-18 05:25:05 · answer #4 · answered by Fenris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not play the field for a while - keep in touch with him but don't put your life on hold. Remember it's your future too.
2006-10-18 05:24:46 · answer #5 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted to stay engaged, he'd be there with you now. If he wanted YOU, wild animals couldn't stop him. Move on, there better out there just for you
2006-10-18 05:29:25 · answer #6 · answered by Boots4ACowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants the securtiy of being with you without actually being with you. It would be better to cut your losses now and move on.
2006-10-18 05:23:35 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him about your questions. you should probably wait but make sure he does really want to get back with you some time soon.
2006-10-18 05:23:57 · answer #8 · answered by [♥that girl♥] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it's now friendship level to me but if you love him and he loves you you should be at least bf and gf
good luck!!
2006-10-18 05:26:04 · answer #9 · answered by me! myself! and guys! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he wants sex
2006-10-18 05:23:47 · answer #10 · answered by il kindome di cielo₪ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋