I like him. I just don't know if it's a good thing that he's upfront about it. He said if we really hit it off would it be alright to consider sex in the relationship. Now I understand that his wife passed last year and he hasn't had any in a while. I completely understand his needs, I just don't know if it's a good idea to go through with the relationship. And he's older, but that's another story. I geuss what I'm asking is it a good sign that he was upfront about it?
2006-10-18 05:58:30 · 7 answers · asked by gigi_the_girl_anachronism 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only you can decide,but try having a mature conversation,let him know how you feel,its a good thing to be up front,he's being honest about how he feels,but try to be honest on how you feel,like will will this be the start of something new? or is it just a one time hit? surely you would want him to see you for so much more.
However,be yourself,good luck.
2006-10-18 06:07:57 · answer #1 · answered by joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a relationship needs more than sex, and u should go for sex with that person who can fulfill ur needs physically as well as emotionally. Don't get urself into any kind of trouble.
2006-10-18 06:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by priya b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a good thing that he was up front about what he wanted out of a relationship at least this way you know what your getting yourself into.
2006-10-18 06:05:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hold off until you are married to that person or definitely know the relationship is going to work out and lead to marriage.
2006-10-18 06:06:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People in hell want ice water, that doesn't mean that they'll get it.
Tell him relationship to commitment, then sex... Once he's committed to you, permanently.. Then have sex.
You don't want to be a passing fancy.
2006-10-18 06:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's presuring you by saying it's ok no big deal. dump him. if you want to do it go head and make sure to use protection. but let it be your choice. becareful..
2006-10-18 06:05:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All he wants from you is some p u s s y.
2006-10-18 06:04:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋