2006-10-18 06:10:43 · 26 answers · asked by jenny64093 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She had alot of insecurities of past relationships that I have no control over. Her last boyfriend cheated on her, she also told me she doest love me like she did when we first got together
2006-10-18 07:29:03 · update #1
How long has it been? Try talking to her with a mediator.
2006-10-18 06:12:48 · answer #1 · answered by t j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. It takes two people to have a committed relationship. Find someone else. Corny, but don't waste your time. There are other women out there who do wish to be in a committed relationship. A good place? The internet. This is not to say they are all winners --- you will find some real nut cases just like someone sitting next to you in church. Be careful, be picky, meet in public places and go slowly. She's there.... I was, he was.....
2006-10-18 06:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't divorce her. usually women don't know what they want, then later she will change her mind. she seems has some stress or pressure from marriage, find ways to release some of this stress. tell her to spend the weekend with her family or friends, maybe she wants some freedom.
2006-10-18 06:30:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for you, and I know that you're hurting right now, but let her go. You know the saying "if you set something free, and it comes back to you, then it's yours, and if not, then it never was"--she will respect you a whole lot more if you just let her know how you feel--tell her that you love her--but let her go--if she really loves you, then she will come back to you--best of luck
2006-10-18 06:23:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect her and be her friend through it anyway. Hopefully down the road she'll see the horrible mistake she made in letting her friend and husband go. It'll will be hard especially if she starts dating again but still to it, be her friend.
2006-10-18 06:14:05 · answer #5 · answered by bird_e80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go. CLinging will only mean your future relationship (friend wise) will be ruined and she will leave you anyway, just much harsher.
Go out with friends and get back into YOU.
It hurts, but it is better for it to happen now than 5 years and two kids from now.
2006-10-18 06:15:03 · answer #6 · answered by Lotus Phoenix 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing I would do before divorce is to convince her to go to marriage counseling. If she still feels the same was there is nothing you are going to be able to do to change her mind.
2006-10-18 06:12:59 · answer #7 · answered by tommygirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am really sorry to hear that. I suggest to talk to her more. Look within youself. are you faulty. if the problem arisen on your behalf, try to consult a family consultant. If nothing happens and u are sure everythhing is ok on your behalf , try to forget her. because the more you insist the more she will be proud.
2006-10-18 06:18:32 · answer #8 · answered by mh_english 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its for the best ... Jus maybe she wasnt ready believe it or not some women are neaver ready an rather play. Ms. Right well come along watch an see JUS hang in there..............
2006-10-18 06:25:11 · answer #9 · answered by jus_us_8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let the marriage go but dont let go of her keep the relationship foing n when she feels ready she will purpose 2 u...she can do that rite coz yall r lesbians? good luck
2006-10-18 06:29:58 · answer #10 · answered by aycee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry. If you try to hold on when she wants to be free, you will only lose your pride. Let her go. Believe me you will be happier in the long run.
2006-10-18 06:19:51 · answer #11 · answered by bettyswestbrook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋