i need help im bout to the point of depression because of hering it so many times it kinda hurts
2006-10-18 06:15:44 · 26 answers · asked by purplegrimreper 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because girls probably feel threatened. If guys are telling
you are not and girls are jealous, take it as a compliment.
You are NOT ugly..If you would not have this problem with
girl because they would not feel threatened..
2006-10-18 06:23:31 · answer #1 · answered by shyone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls that say that are the ones that feel like they are in competition with you for the attentions of guys. It's insecurity and you should try to not let it bother you. If guys are finding you attractive, you are surely just as good looking as any girl and probably more good looking than those girls who are trying to make you think you aren't.
And maybe you won't believe it now, but in the long run, a fun, sweet personality counts for a HELL of a lot more than good looks. It's the sweethearts that live happily ever after.
2006-10-18 06:21:35 · answer #2 · answered by grrluknow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're showing off to much skin and it makes other girls uncomfortable while guys enjoy it a lot. Try to take one of the girls who told you that apart and ask her why she said you were ugly. Maybe they are not talking about you outer beauty but the beauty within, the way you act makes you stand out a little too much for them. If you feel your cute then you must be and if they don't have good reason to say such mean things then see how you could avoid them.
2006-10-18 06:20:21 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are hard on each other and extremely competitive when it comes to looks. Girls also have a much more limited view on what is pretty than guys do. Girls measure each other in the same way that they measure themselves in the mirror.
A guy looks at a girl for more basic reasons. While some guys look for certain measurements, most guys just look for basic curves and a hair style that shows how pretty a girl's face is.
Take care,
Troy
2006-10-18 06:23:23 · answer #4 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some women and girls are so insecure and feel so bad about themselves they say evil hurtful things to make others feel bad, then i guess it makes them feel better. And really pretty is as pretty does. They are obviously not very pretty acting in this manner. I would not allow this to bother me in the least. they are obviously jealous of you. I am not gay, however, i truly do not believe there are any ugly women in the world, some are prettier than others, but none are ugly. There are too many things a female can do to make herself look better, makeup and hair styles or hair coloring. Don't allow these dumb girls to make you feel bad about yourself, they are really insecure and obviously have very low self esteem Good luck and God bless You.
2006-10-18 06:21:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are so bitchy towards each other. Most of the time they have no reason to be mean, they just decide to be that way. If a guy says that you are pretty take that as the truth. You have to remember that guys do not mess with people's heads as much as women do. Believe the guys, forget the girls. Most of the time it is because of jealousy.
2006-10-18 06:32:07 · answer #6 · answered by nice_guyminnesota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first advice to you is to seek the posibility of talking to a councelor at your school/work or to find a therapist. It sounds like you have some insecurity issues and they can really help you with those.
If you want to be beautiful, you have to see it in yourself. Who cares if they say you are or not. If you know you're beautiful, and walk around with that thought in your head, then you will be.
The girls probably say it because their jealous or maybe the boys say it trying to be polite.
2006-10-18 06:20:20 · answer #7 · answered by b-rad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you care what girls are saying unless your a lesbian...
The GUYS SAY YOUR GOOD LOOKING!!!! To hell with what the girls think because they are jealous that they are trying so hard and YOU ARE GETTING THE GUYS ATTENTION!!!
Depressed? Because you're getting all the right attention... Adjust your focus!!! You're on top!!!
2006-10-18 06:27:45 · answer #8 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are terrible when it comes to recognizing fineness.
For instance, "I have a really pretty gf I'd like to set up with you." Usually means that you should RUN AWAY. She's not just ugly...she FUGLY!
When her FUGLY FRIEND goes to the bathroom and she's all excited adn asks "Sooo, what you think?" and you tell her the fugly thing, she's like "what?! seriously, I always saw her as one of prettiest freinds!" and you're like no hun, she fugly, I'd hit rather get in the sack with you 10 times over than to be with your friend, and she like "REALLY? I never knew you had feelings like that for me..." and so I end up with her instead.
2006-10-18 06:36:04 · answer #9 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealous. I don't believe them. They are probably trying to purposely hurt your feelings because you may be prettier than them. If you were truly ugly, nobody would have the heart to tell you to your face.
2006-10-18 06:22:43 · answer #10 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋