Family & Relationships - 25 September 2006

my bf and i are on this break. he tells me to be nice to him so he will come back. why would i be nice when he is having doubts about even getting back together with me at all?

he said he is tired of fighting with me when we are together and thats what he's afraid of. i told him to trust me and that we wouldn't fight anymore but he keeps blowing me off. he said he loves everything about me besides the fighting. what is his deal?!?!?

2006-09-25 07:19:24 · 3 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

should it matter if a 13 year old girl is going out with a 17 year old boy?? Is it right?? Is he TOOO old?? please help me !?!?!

2006-09-25 07:19:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 07:18:25 · 19 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

ok so my husband has been talking about having a 3sum...he says that this is every guys fantasy...i would love to fullfill his wishes but however im not the skinniest of girls(im not that fat either). I just had a baby and dont really have my body back in shape. So i feel a little down about this because he wants it with a skinnier girl...plus a prettiar one(my own opinion considering the girls that he has picked out) I love my husband and want to give him this but im afrid ill be really jealous and wont be able to take it....if you have ever had a 3 sum can u tell me what it was like seeing ur guy with another chick??and guys can you please tell me WHY this is every guys fantasy i just dont get it....please IM me with any further questions ..dazeaway_fromtoday@yahoo

2006-09-25 07:17:32 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-25 07:17:30 · 15 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been together about a year now and he has proposed to me. weve been friends forever, we even went to the same highschool but he was married before we were together a part of me is scared that he may still have feelings for her or may still love her ...how do i find out or should i just let it go because im afraid that i may not been good enough...anyone else ever dealt with this same problem? help me please

2006-09-25 07:16:58 · 10 answers · asked by Jennifer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I got invited by one of my good friends to go to a theme park for Halloween weekend. It's going to be me, her and 2 of her guy friends. I have a boyfriend and he's great. I love him very much and we've been together for a year and a half. I really want to go on this trip, but I don't want him to get mad at me. I've already asked if he cared if I went and he's ok with it, but I didn't tell him that the other 2 guys are going to be there. I have no interest in the other guys,because I love my boyfriend.....he can go but I know he won't because he doesn't like one of the guys that's going. I don't know what to do.......

2006-09-25 07:16:20 · 15 answers · asked by Amber R 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-25 07:16:20 · 5 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

I just had a phone call from a friend that my cousin had sex with my friends girlfriend. Do i tell my friend about it. If i was him i would want to know or am i betraying my cousin even though i think he was wrong he knew she had a boyfriend.

2006-09-25 07:16:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is there anything more painful than finding out your spouse has cheated on you?

2006-09-25 07:16:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You'd think you'd know if you're being bullied but to be honest im not too sure. I’m in college, started with a new group few weeks back. The group is mixed girls and boys, all 16. However, I'm in my 20's, the oldest there.

The boys are all fine with me, but the girls (I realise we are naturally bitchy sometimes!), there is a silence when I walk over, a few looks, rolling eyes, giggling. Stuff that I thought wouldn't bother me as I am more mature and can see past it. At the end of the day I really want to learn and get good grades and I realise they are only kids and may grow out of it. But is it actually bullying? And the answer is always 'tell and adult, tell a teacher'. But is that actually the right thing to do? I feel a bit silly as im the older one and officially an adult.

The comments aren't obvious, they are to me but they're not obvious enough for me to ask them ‘do you have a problem with me’. It's only been going on for about 5 days but it’s still quite off putting.

Sorry to write an essay for you all. I have quite a bit of knowledge in the subject I am studying, more than the others, im always asking and answering questions, could this be why??

2006-09-25 07:15:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've been seeing this guy on again off again for 3 years. We both admit there is a "connection" between us. And he has told me he "cares" for me. One reason we haven't taken things to the next level is because I have a child and that scares him. But, I want to know if he is in love with me, I think he is but I don't know for sure.

2006-09-25 07:15:29 · 33 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

my co worker went away for th eweekend and before she left she called me to tell me that if anyone called for her she was just off from work so her boyfriend called and i told him where she went and she got mad at me she never said him in specific not to let him know where she was now its the two of us in a big office not speaking to each other i think she is acting childish

2006-09-25 07:15:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If you have sexual intercourse with more than 1 woman, lets say 3 or 4... you will eventually throw their cycles off. This is something i've spoke to a few of my guy & girl friends and all seem to agree, what do u guys/gals think? If it's true, i'd love to know how and why that is...

2006-09-25 07:14:19 · 12 answers · asked by nick_in_miami 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 07:13:57 · 16 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

you know some man or woman ,alwayas unsatisfied in every step in life .

2006-09-25 07:13:36 · 5 answers · asked by pramod_bhikhampur p 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been with my gf for 1.5 yrs. I luv her, but sexually I'm bored. I posted this problem before, months ago, and have tried new things that most of the answers suggested. I have pushed the kinkiness to the max. After all of this I'm still bored. I've been searching other women on a sex match website. I've never cheated but the temptation is becoming overwhelming. Do you think a discrete sexual relationship with others is wrong? Can a lovelife and sexlife can be compartementalized-seperating them making all of this ok? Also, any responses from people who have tried these online sex matches or have had secretive affairs would be appreciated! Thanks for any thoughs.

2006-09-25 07:11:18 · 17 answers · asked by 46&2 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I always thought of ourselves as soul mates, yesterday he drank quite a bit of beer but I didn't drink any alchohol at all, we were up till 1 a.m. watching a movie and he had to work today, I did not...he works out in the hot sun all day and we both thought for sure he'd feel like crap and be hating life today with a hang over, he's actually doing well and feeling good however I feel like crap...headache, tired, sick to my stomache....do you think I am having a sympathy hangover FOR him?? Do you think two people can love each other so much that this can happen??

2006-09-25 07:09:55 · 25 answers · asked by Shae 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a female looking for some extra fun. My boyfriend is gone for 16 months for school and I need some attention but I dont want to cheat on him with another guy. Any ideas where I can meet someone??

2006-09-25 07:09:34 · 25 answers · asked by ohioian 2 in Singles & Dating

He won't answer or return my calls, and he ignores me on everything. what should i do?

2006-09-25 07:09:24 · 16 answers · asked by confused_1 1 in Family

there are times that he hides his phone when he sends and recieves text messages.and i can't contact him whenever he stays out late.coz he turns it off.

2006-09-25 07:09:11 · 15 answers · asked by julia 1 in Family

2006-09-25 07:08:58 · 8 answers · asked by hayden123452002 1 in Singles & Dating

mabye bacause their shy to tell you they love you ?

2006-09-25 07:08:13 · 14 answers · asked by luisa mararie h 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 07:07:41 · 14 answers · asked by Wind Chime 4 in Friends

My boyfriend is trying to get married soon with another girl who is a nurse by profession, wealthy and more beautiful. he is searching for his partner and next yr he told me he is getting married, i will never have this pain if i didnt loose my biggest asset in my life(my virginity). at first he was not like this but from few months back he is interested to marry another..Iam very loving, affectionate and not a short tempered person. He call me everday but i wonder wht for? he is saying he will never be mine.. I am so sad that when he told me we will never see again in our life, (he is living in another country met him through online, same religion, tounge and all) he told me last yr i came to see u, this yr i am not going to come but next yr i will come formy (his)marriage. He and his family are searching for girls. but for me i cant just imagine another man his place, loved him with all my heart..he is not seeing my love for him, All he needs to marry a beautiful wealthy nurse

2006-09-25 07:06:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Are there specific guidelines? How long does such a courtship last?

2006-09-25 07:06:27 · 4 answers · asked by who me? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

do you think that i should break up with my boyfriend i really like him but i have my douts with him. this is lover_gurl's home gurl so plz help me.

2006-09-25 07:06:18 · 7 answers · asked by lover_gurl 1 in Singles & Dating

She is 4 1/2 sometimes she says mean stuff to me. other times she is always saying she loves me. I love to have her with me especially when my bf is at work. Mother puts mean thoughts in her head about me. What is the best way to make her understand that I love her and trust me more

2006-09-25 07:06:12 · 16 answers · asked by tweetyinminnesota 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-25 07:05:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex and I started talkin again this week. We broke up cuz we moved to fast...I want to date him, start there, he wants to start at zero and be friends and be a process. He tells me that he didn't want it to end he had to do it. That I am his first choice and he wants to see if I can be patient (I'm not very patient at all) But he's asking other girls on dates... He wants to see if I can be friends and go from there. He's had our pic up since we broke up and hasn't taken it down (I talk to his mom every so often) Well, when I went over to talk to him, the pic was no longer there. I talked to his mom the next day and it was up. She says she's never seen it down (she was asleep) So he took the pic down knowin I was comin over and I thought it would stay down, but he put it back up...what does that mean? He also got a tatoo a month after we broke up, in my lanuage, that I wrote him..He wants to start at 0 so I'm being friends, but he hasn't made an effort to me yet..be patient?

2006-09-25 07:05:05 · 16 answers · asked by ConfusedK 3 in Singles & Dating